1-2 DPO time to TWW 31.10.2022

[Peeonastick22]

Hey hey, making this thread to lead on from last months. I’m 1 or 2 dpo today and I’m going to try and not symptom spot this month!! Also going to try my best to not test until 12dpo at the earliest!

what DPO are you all?

Hope you are okay @Mortima

I am negative today. So I guess I'm out. Just wait for AF. I feel deflated again.

Im sorry to hear this @Mortima hoping you’re ok

Thanks everyone - I'll test later but I'm sure I'm out now. I'm ok, just allowing myself to feel sad today - at least it's the weekend and I have nothing planned.
Commiserations to @PPop and @Peeonastick22 as well

@Mortima sending positive vibes, hope you're holding up okay!

@PPop sounds like we're in a similar boat now waiting to see if AF turns up. Normally start 12DPO and today is 13DPO, negative yesterday and can't bring myself to keep checking so now just waiting for the inevitable

@Emmalou0607 next ovulation date is around my bday so fingers crossed!
Are you at the point where that glimmer of hope just tantalises you?

@PPop were both going to ovulate around our birthdays! Mine is the 27th 🥰

@Peeonastick22 mines 26th!! Yeah I'm trying to find the positive but watching a programme character found out she's pregnant and now there is a sick dog. If it dies I don't think I can take it... 🤦‍♀️

Finally officially out with AF this evening 😢

Sorry to hear of AF guys, I'm hopeful that this will be your month!

@Mortima how are you doing?

@MillieKitty I'm okay thanks - I knew a CP was likely as my lines weren't progressing, but it's hard not to get your hopes up! On the plus side, we now know that we can conceive, and there seems to be some thought that fertility can increase for a little while after a chemical. So we'll definitely be back on it in this new cycle (probably our last chance for 2022 as I think fertile week will fall over Christmas for us, and we'll be spending it with our respective families this year). Hope things are still well with you?

@Emmalou0607 Sorry AF got you Fingers crossed next time is our lucky one

Sorry to all those with AF!

I am still waiting on mine so I can clear my head and start again...

@Mortima fingers crossed for your next cycle, hope there is something in being more fertile after 🤞

@PPop longer it doesn't the more likely it's a good sign potentially!

Did another test just now and nope it is certainly negative. Completely white. Due on today but nothing moving in that direction. Just have to wait for AF to come and onto the next!

I have been terribly emotional all weekend I think DH has been terribly confused. I wanted to be pregnant before my bday so silly I know as there are people who have been trying so much longer then us!

@PPop it's not silly at all. Sending hugs! I think we can all understand that feeling which makes it's good to have a group of people going through similar things to sound off to.

This was 'only' month 4 for me, 2 of which my DH and then myself had Covid over ovulation so more like 2 months but still feel really rotten and emotional over it.

It's true! I do feel silly though! Poor DH I actually feel like I've been a bit of a nightmare all weekend 😂

Ah well! We all got this whatever the stage we are at!

@PPop Also sending hugs - hope you get to move onto your next cycle soon. It is disappointing, we can't help but think about ideal timelines and dates, so when it doesn't work it's gutting when you feel like you've done everything 'right'.

I already know that I'm setting myself up for disappointment this cycle if it doesn't work, as I'd love to be be able to share some news with our nearest and dearest at Christmas; I'm sure I'm not the only one.

@Mortima I hear you! Wouldn't Christmas Sharing be lovely!

How are you doing?

AF here today! Stupid me forgot to take anything to the office despite knowing I was due 🤦‍♀️ DH saved the day!

Sorry to hear @PPop ! Sending you lots of luck for this cycle! Think of a BFP before Christmas 🎄

Thank you. I hope everyone has BFP before Christmas, then there will be lots of happy Christmas times for all!!

@Mortima sorry about your chemical 😔I hope you’re ok.

@MillieKitty and all the others who got BFPs, wishing you happy and healthy 9 months!

I’m 14 DPO and still BFNs so I’m definitely not pregnant but just wish AF would hurry up now so I can move onto the next cycle!

Weirdly my app has now moved my ovulation date from the expected around 26th November to around 11th December?! Is that usual? I was only one day later then the app predicted...

@PPop yeah that sounds a bit late for ovulation! My app got it wrong quite a lot, it was three days out this month so I'm lucky I didn't rely on it! Just look out for that EWCM!

I'm stressing out today, we're going to my parents for lunch which is ALWAYS a boozy affair (with no exceptions!) I haven't drunk anything for the last 2 months because I wanted to try and make sure it wasn't going to have any impact on trying.

I mentioned only briefly a few months ago to my mum that we were starting TTC and I'm seriously stressing today that if I'm not drinking she's going to jump to conclusions (she's not the try who would say anything until we told her but I also am over thinking her thinking we are pregnant when we aren't)

I don't really know what to do or say 😬