TTC after miscarriage Thread 11 🤞🏼✨

[Indianna2006]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MrscristianoX @Pancake92 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers @mummatara @ChloeN @Luna57 @everythingzrosie

New thread ladies!! Wishing you all lots of luck 🤞🏼🤞🏼✨

please tag anyone I’ve missed it was just quick and rough xx

@Margo34 How are you doing?

@mummatara Sorry it was confirmed :(

@LuckyMoonstone I hope blood tests can give you more answers than the scan did. What a confusing experience!

@ChloeN I'm sorry cp are shit xx

I'm having a wobble today, probably because I am under the weather so already feeling sorry for myself, but I'm coming up to what would have been my first due date of the year had I not MC back in March, it's also my DC's 2nd birthday next week and then I've got my 12w scan next week, too. I've had hardly any symptoms at all the last week and a half or so either which is giving me wobbles in itself. My DH is having a very stressful time at work atm so I can't really chat to him about any of it either because he is already on edge with him MH. 😭

@MrsCristianoX id written myself off for a successful pregnancy this month anyway so I don’t feel too bad tbh!xx

Does any of your partners take vitamins? Can’t remember if I’ve asked this already!🤣

@LuckyMoonstone I've just read the updates on today's thread, I'm sorry you still don't have answers, it all sounds very confusing.

@mummatara I'm sorry to hear it's confirmed. It's so rubbish! Hope you're feeling okay (might be a stupid thing to say 🤦🏼‍♀️)

@ChloeN my DH doesn't take any vitamins. Not towards TTC anyway, he'll do vitamin D in the winter months.
What vitamins do you take?

@ChloeN DH takes vit d 800iu, ubiquinol (because let's face it he's no spring chicken) and a multivitamin. Never seen a man as keen to take a vitamin unfortunately I keep forgetting to remind him 🙈

I'm a bit crampy 🙁 fabulous

@ChloeN My husband takes vitamin C, cod liver oil, selenium and the Wellman TTC tablet.

@MrsCristianoX yes a small silver lining in the crap situation I'm really hoping for third time lucky 🤞🏼 the EPU reiterated today they would keep a close eye on my next one to see how it's progressing.

@LuckyMoonstone thank you ❤️

@Indianna2006 gosh you really did go through it 🙈 well I'm going for surgery if still nothing in the 2 weeks. They have offered MVA this time which wasn't an option last time so I'll have a read of that info and see if it sounds ok. I'm not doing medical management there's only a 70% success rate which in my mind isn't that high 🤷🏼‍♀️

@Margo34 wow that's a lot of reading 🙈 thank you I'm trying to be I def have the odd wobbly moment but mainly I think I just have to get on with this crap situation. I'm trying to make some changes too which hopefully will work in our favour. I'm sorry your having a wobbly day big hugs ❤️ we were talking about Christmas which would have been our due date for the first MC it made me feel super sad. All your hormones won't be helping try not to let it all get on top of you and you know we are here if you need to virtual scream!

@MamaSJ15 thank you I'm ok I've had a couple of weeks to wrap my head around it so todays verdict wasn't a shock it was just confirmation at least plans are in place now and we can carry on TTC once again. Can't wait to go back to POAS 🙄 not

@ChloeN I've just finished reading it starts with an egg and DH is now taking Ubiqionol 200mg, naturelo multivitamin for men, omega DHA extra 2000 mg and R-lipoic acid 240mg. He used to take the multivits but for some unknown reason stopped probably because he ran out and forgot to order 🙄

Without writing a reeeeeally long message, everything is basically fine. There’s nothing there to be seen. HCG is 41. Will go back Thursday and hopefully it’ll be dropping. Nurse said the pains could be from my body just going back to normal, but I have had a cervical swab to check for any infections etc as it was quite painful when she pressed down on my left side. Oh and as someone else said, the ‘cyst’ was leftover from the egg that got fertilised (if she’d explained that a bit clearly the first time I would’ve realised what she meant lol). So the pains could be from that dying off as well I guess. As for the darker PT lines, not really sure, could just be hormones fluctuating before they fully drop off. I’m not going to keep testing now, I’ll do one in like a week or so. Oops this did end up being a really long message!

@LuckyMoonstone phew thank goodness all is ok and hcg is low xx

@LuckyMoonstone thank goodness hcg is low. That will deff now tail off. What a bloody odd bod you are though 😂😂
bit that’s a bit of a relief. Although annoying as waiting for body to resolve. But better news than a worse outcome.

@mummatara yes I wouldn’t bother with medical management again. It was bloody awful. And didn’t properly work. Deff go for the surgery if nothing has happened in the two weeks hun. Xx

@Indianna2006 im glad there’s nothing going on but I am very annoyed at my body for being so bloody awkward about it! Why is it faffing around 🤣

@LuckyMoonstone longest chemical pregnancy ever tbh 🙈 hopefully another week it be gone 🤞🏼

@LuckyMoonstone glad the appointment gave answers ❤️

@LuckyMoonstone I'm really glad you got the reassurance you needed! Fingers crossed the next blood test shows the HCG reducing and you can move on from it all 💕

@mummatara I'm so sorry that it's been confirmed. I guess, like you said you already had time prepare but it's still not a nice thing to go through. Got my fingers crossed the next steps happens easily and quickly 💕

@bunnykins123 how are you doing? Or did I miss a message🙈

@MrsCristianoX I'm ok. AF started today so feeling properly bummed out. Urgh. 😥 how you doing??

@Indianna2006 it’s absurd. My first MC was about 6 weeks along and I bled for best part of 2 months! Everything about me is sluggish 😂

@bunnykins123 thanks lovely I'm sure when it happens I'll be a hot mess prepared or not 🙈 I'm getting my head prepped for giving up dairy and sweets for a Mediterranean diet I was going to start yesterday but there is so much food in my house im so loathe to waste it 😂 so it's gotta go first

@bunnykins123 oh no.. Sorry lovely xx im ok 6dpo now. On/off sore boobs and a bit of cramping. Not holding out much hope here 🙁

@MrsCristianoX ah I've got everything crossed for you 🤞 it's still super early. Have you tested yet?

@mummatara ah I'm about to change my diet too. I did so much research on holiday and trying to cut most things out now as a result 😓 are you starting to take any new vitamins?

@LuckyMoonstone oh I'm so glad you got some answers. My MC in June took 6w after bleeding stopped for HCG to drop and test negative again (and I only made to just under 6w pregnant that time). Hormones can be in such a headfudge, like MC isn't already bad enough. Stupid wonderful bodies.