TTC after miscarriage Thread 11 🤞🏼✨

[Indianna2006]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MrscristianoX @Pancake92 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers @mummatara @ChloeN @Luna57 @everythingzrosie

New thread ladies!! Wishing you all lots of luck 🤞🏼🤞🏼✨

please tag anyone I’ve missed it was just quick and rough xx

@MrsCristianoX 😂 as if we would scroll past you lovely ❤️ you can rant all you like it's a total lotto with private companies. I only have it as have been here for 21 years and my boss is a control freak and can't stand anyone having to wait for the nhs and possibly be off work for any longer than needed 🙄 handy but also somethings just are not necessary to go through private healthcare for 🤷🏼‍♀️ he never sees it this way though his first comment is always ring bupa 😂

Rang again and I am on a list 🤣 so could be any time before 8 that they ring me back

@LuckyMoonstone oh my word 😳 that wait is torture....she could have told you that in the first place though 🤦🏼‍♀️

@LuckyMoonstone I blame covid. Seriously though that's ridiculous 😡I'm sure you are past yourself. Those FRERs go negative very quickly with a chemical.

@LuckyMoonstone how fustrating!! Hopefully they don’t keep you waiting too long!!

When she first said I’ll ring you back, I naively thought she was just going to check some notes and then ring me straight back! But I get they’re busy, at least I am actually written down on a list at the nurses desk and not just relying on one person to suddenly remember ‘oh damn I never rang that woman back’ 😂 I’m sure if I said I was bleeding or in agony they’d sort something out. I’m at home all evening now so got my phone on loud so I don’t miss the call

I’m having more ewcm today which is mental 😐 I only ever get it during ovulation or early pregnancy. I can’t possibly be approaching ovulation with all this hcg still in my system. Might DTD tomorrow just in case 😅

@LuckyMoonstone how dark are the OPKs?

Erm I was up to 0.67 this morning from 0.36 yesterday which is high for me

@LuckyMoonstone have you tried using a opk? I think if it was me, I would hold on ttc until you know exactly what the situation is with this HCG. I'm a total worry wart though so if you feel comfortable, totally ignore me 😂

@mummatara I get it through work, I'm senior in HR so have a really good package 😂 but like I say, check what is included as some things aren't such as maternity care etc. You may have all that included and if so, get alllll the tests!

@MrsCristianoX that's so rubbish. So it's entirely at your own bosses discretion? Isn't that quite unfair?!

My body is doing my nut in this cycle, AF due tomorrow and stilllll getting this stupidly light brown discharge. Has anyone had this for a few days before AF before? I never get spotting this long 😠

not that it adds much more info lol but here’s a photo

@bunnykins123 well it’s not like I can get double pregnant so might as well cover all bases 😂 I absolutely would not DTD if I was bleeding or in a lot of pain

@LuckyMoonstone that's a high reading! This is usually mine day b4 peak.

@bunnykins123 if you are a good looking man all will be paid for🙄 Oh HR I love this! Couldn't do it myself it would totally stress me out

@MrsCristianoX yeah same here, never goes above at 0.2 until like the day before

@LuckyMoonstone I would maybe DTD but gently and if you're lucky it might be a 10 second explosion (unless you are in pain obviously) 😘

How is DH coping with this? I think mine would be stressed out.

@LuckyMoonstone it looks like you're due to O soon! Haha I honestly don't know if you can or can't, as I say big worrier over here 🫣

@MrsCristianoX it's not too bad, has its highs and lows! I do wonder if the stress of my job does add to the stress of ttc!

Jesus I thought I was bleeding then but it’s loads of ewcm! This is so bizarre

@LuckyMoonstone that’s so odd!! I had ewcm when still testing positive on pregnancy tests too though, I thought it was my body trying to ovulate

@ChloeN well the only time I have ewcm apart from ovulation is early pregnancy, I’m talking like a few weeks in not around BFP time. It’s all bloody mental 😅

@LuckyMoonstone could it poss be the pregnancy hormones dropping enough for you body to start trying to ovulate again? Mine was after I’d bled from mmc but I still had positive pregnancy tests

@ChloeN maybe but everything else is worrying me as well like my boobs hurting and the nausea. It’s literally like being pregnant but with the added concern of these weird pains I keep getting. Not enough for me to think something’s happened/internal bleeding but it’s enough to worry me that might happen. Scared that at any minute I’ll get an explosion of pain.

Anyway I’m in the EPU at 10 tomorrow! Work are gonna be so fed up of me and my problems 😅

@Indianna2006 that is a good point, we do already have most of the things you'd need for a new born, we lent it all to my friend who is then keeping it all for us for when we need again.

@MrsCristianoX that's literally what I say about the big things in life. I've always thought that it would happen when the time was right.

@bunnykins123 you're right there, there is never a right time 😂 especially financially! I'm an accountant, you'd think he would just let me deal with the finances haha.
@mummatara I would say he would be happy with a bfp, I mean he's the kind of person that if he didn't want another child, he'd make sure it didn't happen!
@Luna57 yeah definitely gonna give it a go and see what happens tonight 🤞

Thank you all for your lovely responses, @MrsCristianoX said you were a lovely bunch and you definitely are, thank you for welcoming me 😊

@LuckyMoonstone thats true forgot you were having pregnancy symptoms! Thank god epu have you got you in🥳 maybe you’ll be on track for some answers!!

@bunnykins123 sorry I meant to reply earlier but only spotted brown the first 2 cycles after miscarriage. Never since and it stressed me a lot

@LuckyMoonstone glad you are getting seen again x good luck tomorrow 🤞god maybe don't DTD tonight in case they scan you internally again 😳

@MrsCristianoX oh yeah good point 😂 not tonight then!