TTC after miscarriage thread 10

[mummatara]

@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MIW01 @MrsCristiano @Pancake92 @pangolin84 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers

Sorry if I forgot anyone ❤️ also hope I've done this right 😂

@TheBirdintheCave I see a squinter of something!🤞🏼🤞🏼

@MrsCristianoX can deffo see those lines on that test. Especially the FRER!! Lots of people can get spotting when the period is due… Have you done anymore tests? Ugh just a sodding waiting game. I’m sorry. No way to know other than wait.

@Indianna2006 it's just soo frustrating 😭 no I think it's over. I was doubled over with pain yesterday at the beach then the spotting started hours later

@MrsCristianoX sorry this is happening, it’s such a shitty process 💔

@TheBirdintheCave I can see a shadow of something there! Fingers crossed for you x

@MrsCristianoX I'm sorry about your spotting :( I really hope it stops!

I’m 12 dpo today, had a BFN at 10 dpo on a cheapy. I’m already sick of it and this is only the 3rd cycle since the MMC. Might test again tonight but I know it will be negative. Getting flashbacks to the year we spent TTC DS and just feeling drained.

@MrsCristianoX I am so so sorry 😣. This is the second in a row isn't it if it turns out to be another CP? I'm not sure what causes such early losses or implantation failure. I'd definitely talk to the GP and see if they can refer you to a gyno or the RMU. Sending hugs your way 😘😔 xxx

@MrsCristianoX really hope that spotting stops 🤞🏼

@pangolin84 oh lovely it's so hard maybe try taking some time off tracking etc? Easier said than done I know. I think you said you have quite a bit going on atm which is probably adding to your stress too sending big hugs and love ❤️

@pangolin84 it's the shittiest of all situations. I'm in a fair bit of pain hoping it settles soon xx I feel you lovely xx

@bunnykins123 it's an autoimmune suppressant but not commonly used in community pharmacy for pregnancy. Most patients who use it with my pharmacy anyway have rheumatoid arthritis or lupus. I think you need blood checks a fair bit at the start..off to Google now 😅 hopefully this makes all the difference xx

@MrsCristianoX urgh I’m sorry I hope you’re ok xx

@MrsCristiano and @pangolin84 I am so sorry seriously so frustrating sending you both big hugs ❤

@MrsCristianoX I am so sorry, I'm sure I'm joining you on TTC again, I feel like my AF symptoms are on their way. Mega bloated, tingly sensation 'inside' and no sore boobs what so ever. Think I'm out this month. Waiting to test tomorrow or Monday but not feeling hopeful at all!

@pangolin84 it's so hard isn't it. The year seems to be flying by but each month TTC feels like a lifetime 🥺 xxx

@FfayeN I always had tingly boobies when pregnant! I wouldn't discount yourself just yet 🤞

@pangolin84 it's shit. Totally shit. I feel exactly the same. You're not alone 💕

@MrsCristianoX that FRER looks good to me? That alongside the line on the CB look promising but understand the spotting is confusing. Hoping the spotting eases off 🤞 thanks for the update regarding the meds - I've read online that it causes hair loss so not looking forward to that fun side affect. Why couldn't I be prescribed something that helps make me look and feel like a 25 year old again?!

Flashy smiley face today and so the fun starts. God I'm so not up for it. Anyone feel that way?! 🙃

@pangolin84 I really understand what you mean. It took us 8months to conceive and I was so stressed about it for most of that time then we MC. This last 10 months has worn me out me emotionally. Just started ttc again now after my first AF & I'm petrified it's going to take us another 8 months or longer. Just going to try my best to not track for at least a few months because it doesn't help with the stress.

@MrsCristianoX so sorry love 😔, is it defo AF as you can get spotting in early pregnancy x

Well I knew I was pretty much out anyway after BFN’s this week but AF turned up bang on time this morning so I am officially out and back on CD1 for cycle number 6 😔 I guess only positive is that, apart from 1st one, my cycles since the MMC have all been exactly 28 days long so body must be doing something right?
Please let this next cycle be the one 🙏🏻

@emhope Sorry AF arrived :( Fingers crossed for the next cycle!

Well ladies I went for a scan it was inconclusive. Sac looked pretty empty to me 🙄 she said she could see yolk sac and what might be a foetal pole but she would put me closer to 6 weeks which is almost 3 weeks difference I should be 8+6. Now need to call the EPU. Can't believe it feel so gutted knew it felt too good to be true that is happened so quickly after the MMC

@mummatara I am sorry to hear this but maybe you need a second opinion and get another check. There is still hope because if she is saying 6 weeks. Please keep us updated

@emhope sorry AF has arrived next cycle I am hoping this is not the case again for you ❤

@emhope I'm so sorry AF showed. It's always so hard. Take care of yourself 💕

@mummatara oh no! I wouldn't loose hope just yet, sometimes these little beans are quite sneaky and don't show on scans until a bit later on. I agree with @Daisy155 perhaps you could get another scan for a second opinion?

@mummatara I remember that feeling so well. I'm so sorry you're having to go through this :( Is their follow up plan to have another scan in a week? I second what the others have said about another opinion, especially if you've had no signs of another MMC. ❤️

@mummatara this is heartbreaking. Dates/growth can be different but if you're sure on your dates I wouldn't want to send false hope as it is a big difference. Thinking of you and hope you get some answers very soon. Sending huge cuddles 🥺 xxxx

@Mariabombia it's AF now. I just want to scream into a pillow because they did both have lines. But they were faint and it would probably have happened anyway.

@mummatara god I did not want to wake up to this news. Was it a private scan? If it was external it might not be accurate enough. I fully get why you are stressing and hopefully the epu retest soon. I'm thinking of you xx

Oh @mummatara @MrsCristianoX I’m so so sorry. You’ve been through enough already, this is SO UNFAIR and its just the icing on the s* cake. Thinking of you and sending hugs xxx