TTC after miscarriage thread 10

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@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MIW01 @MrsCristiano @Pancake92 @pangolin84 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers

Sorry if I forgot anyone ❤️ also hope I've done this right 😂

Excellent news @LuckyMoonstone 🤞🏼

@MrsCristiano still so early, hopefully tomorrow will be different but if not plenty of delightful drinks on holiday!

Is 3DPO too early to test? Asking for a friend???? 😂😂😂

@FfayeN asking the wrong girl 😂😂

@FfayeN I had the tiniest faint line on a one step this morning..tomorrow will be the decider xx

@MrsCristiano Good luck! I hope there's a stronger line tomorrow :D

I got pregnant in September 2019 and September 2021, and in September 2020 I was already pregnant, so September is a very pregnancy-associated month for me. Really hope I don’t break the streak 😂 but I don’t feel like we’ve tried very hard this month, not sure I’m in with a good chance

@TheBirdintheCave thanks lovely Xx

@MrsCristiano ohh that sounds promising fingers crossed for tomorrow 🤞🏻

I still feel exhausted today, and keep getting really hot….so hard to know if it’s possible symptoms or just because it’s been a sunny day and I’ve been doing housework all day 😂 sooo tempted to test, I have cheapies and FRER in the cupboard 😬

@emhope that sounds so like me. I'm so hot and my boobs aren't exactly sore just uncomfortable... I've only one FRER left, unlimited cheapies though and a clearblue. Might do the clearblue later (it's not a digital) 😂 I feel really scared all of a sudden

A faint line at 9DPO is good @MrsCristiano, everything crossed for a sticky one this time 🥰🥰🥰.

When are you going to test @emhope?
Xx

@MrsCristiano exciting! What a potential great start to the holiday.

I started spotting yesterday, so I am out. Kind of worried that I'm only 11dpo, I cannot deal with 4 days of spotting before AF actually arrives.

Actually feel okay at the moment!

@FfayeN I don’t know…I could try later or maybe tomorrow morning! I’m just so scared of seeing another BFN though and then still having days to wait for AF…

@emhope it is a tough one lovely, only you know how you will feel if it comes up either way, plus you still have a few days to go yet until AF ☺️ xx

@emhope either way it's hateful. I hate this part. So much luck for testing lovely your symptoms sound good but try and hold out longer than me 🤦‍♀️ I'm in a pickle atm 😩

@MrsCristiano I know what you mean...you pray to see the line and then when you do it brings on so much worry and panic (and then the little bit excitement you just can't control but fear is wasted 😩).
Put simply, it is turmoil. However, a necessary evil to have what we want 😔 xx

Ooo that's so promising @MrsCristiano 🤞🏻 i know exactly what you mean though, it's all so bloody stressful imo. Hope you have a fantastic holiday & you get chance to relax and unwind 💕

So my first AF came today since mc! It's the first af since ttc I've actually been happy about 😬 it seems quite light so far which I'm quite surprised at !

@Mariabombia honestly sometimes I just love it when AF comes (especially after multiple bfns for me in the past)!

Hope you're all recovered from the thrush and are ready to go this cycle..honestly there's so much goes on in this thread! Glad you are feeling positive 😊

We DTD O-5 and O-4 this month. Not even close to actual peak 🤷‍♀️ sometimes I wonder about OPKs. I defo felt ovulation cramping at least 3 days before who knows what goes on in our bodies (well my body is a mystery) xx

Actually DTD last night. Poor DH was looking sexually frustrated 😂🙄

Apparently no one actually knows whether the O pains happen before, after or during ovulation or even if it's the same for different people. I wish it was more precise 🙁

@TheBirdintheCave I mean I can totally see how different people may vary even in different cycles it's just so random. The EWCM starting for me is when we start trying. I have a little for a couple of days when we DTD but then nearly a flood which always coincides with peak. I never DTD around peak..the EWCM flood puts me off 😂 the cramping since ov has been every night and really sore like stabbing pains followed by cramps. None tonight🙏

Sorry ignore my rambling..you are close to me in ovulation or what I now call 'expected ovulation 🤣' do you think you will wait to test? I fly tomorrow 🙌 I really had to test DH will be 'why no wine' ?? I hope I can give him a positive story tomorrow xx

Absolutel worst sleep of my life last night. Had to get up every hour on the hour for a pee. Then mouth felt awfully dry. More water then the cycle repeated. Anyway clear blue on a half hr hold this morning. It does look a tad grey but came up instantly. So who knows. 🤷‍♀️

@MrsCristiano Clear Blue's are so hit and miss. I've had a few lines like that come to nothing but then another one when I was actually pregnant 🤷🏻‍♀️

I woke up feeling quite sick this morning so I took a cheapie but BFN. I'm guessing I'm 10dpo today so I think I'm now out 🙁

I'm really starting to worry that this is an annovulatory cycle. Since the miscarriage I've had sore boobs after I ovulate. So far nothing of that sort at all this cycle.

@emhope Any joy for you?

@MrsCristiano ahh really hope this is the start of a BFP for you. Are you going to test again today?

@TheBirdintheCave I haven’t tested yet. Had really vivid dream last night that I tested twice got BFP’s so now all I can think about is testing! Won’t have a very long hold yet though as had to get up for loo at 5am! Maybe I will give it another hour and then just test…

@emhope I've got six tests packed! Only one FRER so saving it for Wednesday..day before AF. I'm sweating like a beast it's unlike me. I hope so too!!!

Good luck for testing lovely 🥰

@MrsCristiano hey!! I'm still following from afar. Been reading your posts over these past few days. I'm feeling super super positive for your BFP. Wishing u all the luck in the world and have the best holiday xxx

@Mariabombia my first period after mc started off normal and then was so heavy after the first day! I felt relieved it came on time and at least you have a cd1 now!

@MrsCristiano @TheBirdintheCave good luck testing both of you ❤️