TTC after miscarriage thread 10

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@AwayWeGo22 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @FfayeN @Chellooo @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Luna57 @Margo34 @MIW01 @MrsCristiano @Pancake92 @pangolin84 @TheBirdintheCave @theblueflowers

Sorry if I forgot anyone ❤️ also hope I've done this right 😂

@FfayeN I’ve done numerous tests all BFN just excited for AF now 😂 we’re due to go on holiday next week too so it would be just my luck for AF to arrive then

@Luna57 enjoy your holiday! I plan to drink my body weight in wine next week when I'm on hols..(if bfn)

@bunnykins123 I would be the one person who would die taking a smuggled dose of prednisolone 😂

Does anyone here watch Ambulance on BBC1? Tonight’s episode was quite sad. If anyone is planning on watching it, you might want to skip the last job they go to (about 10-15 mins before the end) if you feel that hearing about an MC will be too upsetting.

@LuckyMoonstone this must have been fate. Turned it off with 20mins to go to DTD. Thanks for the heads up though.

So tonight's mission was a bit more challenging...still not in the realms of you 45 minute-ers @MrsCristiano and co 🤣. But I think that's us for this month, DH can't deal with the pressure and wants it more regular so he doesn't know when it is. Trouble is in the TWW I'm so consumed it's the last thing on my mind. Not too mention my bits are feeling a little tender (TMI!!!)
Next time I'll see hubby will be 2dpo so not sure it's worth it.
Managed -7, -5, -3, -1, 0 🤞🏼

Enjoy your holidays @Luna57 and @MrsCristiano and make the most of being able to relax with some wine or a few G&Ts x

@emhope Oh my goodness that’s quite a shock development. How do you feel about it?

@LuckyMoonstone I had it on in the background (never watched it before) and yeah, that was very upsetting. The whole programme was depressing and I even work in the NHS. Frontline staff are absolute superheroes. My DH happened to walk in during the MC story and said “er, do you really want to watch this?”. 🤔 No I don’t but I can’t unsee it now!

@FfayeN That seems like excellent timing to me, good work!
I know what you mean about not wanting to DTD in the TWW. Definitely had enough of it by then 😂

@pangolin84 I am obsessed with ambulance shows, I think they are all just incredible. They did have a warning at the start of the show that it included an MC so that was good of them. Me and DH both found it very sad to watch.

@pangolin84 absolutely! 5 times a month should be plenty to keep them going surely!!! Wouldn't be near that if we weren't TTC so I figure he should be grateful and get what he's given 😂😂😂

@FfayeN those are good dates for a potential pregnancy! Fx for you 😘
I will do a test before Barcelona I think but all cramping has now stopped. Very strange.

@emhope oh god. It's never nice to hear of miscarriage. No matter the circumstances. Hope you are feeling ok xx

@FfayeN 😂 44 minutes too long for me. Romance is dead in my house

@emhope oh that's such sad news, I hope you're ok 💕

@FfayeN does anyone even dtd in the TWW?!! That's my time for early nights and absolutely no uncomfortable sexy lingerie! Your timing looks good, fingers crossed!

@MrsCristiano god please don't take my advice in that case 😬 I would say cramping is good!

@TheBirdintheCave honestly that's such good going, big pat on the back to you and DH for managing so many days in a row!!

@Mariabombia absolutely no idea - it was either sausages or avocado but neither strike me as particularly dodgy foods 🤷‍♀️

@bunnykins123 😂😂 absolute fair point about DTD after ovulation.. not in my house anyway 😂

Urgh who is DTD during the TWW, what’s the point 🤣

I am glad I'm not alone in this! They do feel the pressure though don't they 🙈. One job to do....one job!!! 😂😂😂

BFN at 9DPO. I also feel like I'm coming down with something.

I am definitely with you all on the no sex during the TWW. DH tried last night and I was having none of it. He actually asked if our sex life was going to be one week every so often! I just find it so hard to get in the right mind frame.

Soo my peak was definitely yesterday as my results are coming down now (but still high) but I didn’t get my usual temp drop last night. I always get it the night after my positive OPK, but it’s still hovering around the baseline 🫤 this has really thrown me off

@LuckyMoonstone omg lol - couldn't agree with you more! Do you temp in the evening too? I always thought it was more accurate to test in the morning?

@theblueflowers it's still quite early, don't loose faith just yet 💕

So glad we all agree that dtd in the TWW is a no-go 😂 thought I was just being reeeeally stindgy with DH!

@LuckyMoonstone that's odd, but a temp dip doesn't always happen for everyone, so maybe this time it's just that? Have your temps been trending downwards?

@bunnykins123 rationally I know it's early, but because I got a positive at 9DPO before, I always put myself out at this point. I'm feeling okay about it though!

@theblueflowers true but it's down to when the eggy implants. It might be in your previous pregnancy, eggy implanted earlier. I've had pregnancies where I didn't get a positive until 11dpo so try not to feel too disheartened - you are not out yet 🤞💕

@bunnykins123 @theblueflowers i use the ovusense overnight so it’s very accurate. I’ve just been zig zagging around the baseline for ages. Normally I would expect to find a really big dip this morning but I haven’t which worries me 😕

7dpo today and I've woken up with a cold. Joy 😷Still, rather now than right before our holiday.

So today is a good day after the weeks of sadness we have had after loosing Leo! I went for my 6 weeks check up and all my hormone levels are back to normal including my iron levels are even above the normal range after getting the iron infusion done.

I had a scan done as well and one of my ovaries is bulkier than the left ovaries which means the right ovaries has cysts. My prolactin level is also quiet high around a thousand. And they will be checking if I actually have PCOS so I will have bloods done again in a few weeks.

However the most important and why I am so happy today I have been referred back to the IVF and fertility clinic because I never ended up using it as I found out I was pregnant on my first appointment for the treatment! I feel like a light is starting to shine through. I have also been told I can try again from next month if I am mentally ready, because from the scan everything looks really good from the c section! But they would have wanted me to try in December/ January! But as I will be closely monitored, plus having a c section again and also having had issues conceiving quickly they understand the rush! I am relieved and happy today! I can’t wait to join you all in trying ttc next month xx

@LuckyMoonstone we're on the same ovusense group! Can you show your graph in combined view? It does look like they are trending downwards which is in keeping with pre ovulation. You should get and answer with tomorrow's temp of you have ovulated.

@theblueflowers yeah it might just be that it’s taking me slightly longer to ovulate from the LH surge. I don’t know how to put all my graphs together, but I always get a big temp drop the morning after my positive OPK, so that should’ve been this morning. They never increase straight from the baseline, there’s always that big dip first. If it’s not tomorrow either then I’ll be really concerned