TTC Waiting room stay as long at you like part 4

[fruitloop79]

Oooh, my first big thread

May I begin by saying I wish you all the bestest of luck!

Ok, shall I attempt to update the list?

lobsterlass Are you sure! How did you manage to feel that. I can only ever feel the very tip, It would never occur to me that it went any one way or the other!?

So sorry for you noam Just met up with a friend today who told me that she has had 2 CP's following her MC in October How awful for her, then I come on here and you have had one too
Assuming that is what has happened, sorry to be making assumptions

Quite sure twinklingfairy. I can always find it, not that I'm looking every 5 minutes you understand. Just when I try, it's quite easy.

I recently found out as a result of an MRI that I've a retroverted uterus. I don't know if that's got anything to do with it.

It does the high/low thing, but it's really skewed at the moment. Knowing my luck it's an AF indicator.

Well AF arrived this morning, right after I'd done a test (how does it know?). I'm going to bid you all adieu-- I've not been trying that long but I think it's time to accept that the fact I weigh the same as I did when I was 38 weeks pregnant with dd is not helping! So I'm off to try and sort that out. It's been great seeing all the advice and support on here; best of luck to you all!

Eleveld CD1 Cycle 2 TTC#1
Scaryhairy CD3 Cycle 6 TTC#2
HattyYellow CD3 Cyce 5 TTC#3
Abbymeg CD4 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Fairysnuff CD4 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Sandies CD5 Cycle 4 TTC#4
PicknMix CD5 Cycle 7 TTC#1 (mc Jan '07)
Bucky CD8 Cycle 9 TTC#1 (MC Sept 06)
07mumstheword CD8 Cycle 10 TTC#2(CP July+Sept)
LittleSquirt CD10 Cycle 8 TTC #1 (MMC Jul 07 - Asherman's)
Mrsei25 CD10 cycle 3 TTC#2
ClairePO CD12 Cycle 4 TTC#1 Post MC Sept 07
GreenGlassGoblin CD12 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Clouisewood CD15 Cycle 3 TTC#2
Anniemac CD16 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Madoldbird CD17 Cycle 6 TTC#3
Spink CD18 cycle 7 TTC#2
GryffinGirl CD18 cycle 13 TTC#1
cluckyagain CD18 cycle 2 TTC#4 (post CP dec 07)
Glastochick CD19 Cycle 4 TTC #1
Grinningbee CD19 Cycle 2 TTC #1 (MMC Oct 07)
Shreksmissus CD21 Cycle 14 (since mc nov. '06) TTC#2
MrsBish CD21 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Pistachio CD23 Cycle 3 TTC #2
LobstersLass CD24 Cycle 1 TTC#1
Hedgepig CD25 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Teeheelady CD25 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (mc Oct07)
sydneyB CD25 cycle 2 TTC#2
toytownmum CD26 Cycle 7 TTC#3
Treats CD27 Cycle3 TTC1
MummyAnnabella CD27 Cycle 1 TTC#2
dressedupandnowheretogo CD28 cycle 1 TTC#2
Fruitloop79 CD29 cycle 3 TTC#2
Musicgirl CD29 Cycle 2 TTC1
Sambrads CD30 Cycle 8 TTC#2
Cricri CD30 Cycle 4 TTC#1 (mc Sept '07)
MissusH CD32 Cycle 6 TTC#2
JollyBear CD41 Cycle 3 TTC#1
Emmsy CD43 cycle 3 MC3 TTC*4
Mibbes CD43 Cycle 2 TTC#1

TTC GRADUATE LIST (we WILL be on it)
Sarahnh BFP 3-Dec [CD24 Cycle 11 TTC#2]
TwilightSurfer BFP 6-Dec [CD26 Cycle 1 TTC#2 (mc Nov 07)]
Foghornleghorn BFP 6-Dec [CD42 Cycle 2 TTC#3]
Holly78 BFP 11 Dec [CD? Cycle 1 TTC#3]
Pennybenjamin BFP 15 Dec [CD23 Cycle6 TTC#1]
Kiddiecare BFP 19 Dec
Nooneputsbabyinthecorner 25 Dec [CD?] Cycle ? TTC#?
Lockets 27 Dec [CD32 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Hopefully 28 Dec [CD27?] Cycle 1 TTC#1
Excitable 29 Dec [CD36 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Starlight 29 Dec [CD39 Cycle 2 TTC#2 (MC Oct 07)]
Kirstygem 29 Dec CD28 Cycle 4 TTC#2
Meglet 30 Dec [CD27 TTC#2 POST-MC:NOV07]
Biglips BFP 03 Jan (CD24 cycle 2 TTC~#2)
BabyFever BFP 12 Jan [CD31 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Becaroo BFP 12 Jan [CD30 Cycle1 Post-mc TTC#2]
Digitalgirl BFP 13 Jan [CD33 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Kate2179 BFP 14 Jan CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#1 post mc Oct07
Neveronamonday BFP 16 Jan [CD? Cycle 2 TTC#2]
Colabottle BFP 18 Jan [CD42 Cycle ? TTC#2]
theowlwhowasafraidofthedark BFP 18 Jan [CD50 Cycle 7 TTC#1]

good morning all !!!!

how are you all doing???

oh babysinthegarden dont go but you know your always welcome here when you start ttc again!!!

we no crack with me i am just waiting on af to come so i acn start my second go at clomid hopefully this will be my month fingers crossed

Morning ladies !

never great to hear you so positive, feel free to let off steam any time - that's what we're here for .
mybabysinthegarden, sorry TEW got you and that you're leaving. Good luck with your plans and ttc when you get back.
Hi sambrads hope TEW shows so you can get on with your next cycle. I know the feeling as on day 5 of spotting - just want to get back to the top and get on with it - CD44 is riduculously long for me.
any news from you missus ? I can't believe we are still propping up the list !

never you are not bringing the thread down atall - it is perfectly natural that you are going to be up and down.
It must be torture for you and I'm sure many of us are familiar with the deluded feeling (although not for a moment am I saying I undertsand how you feel because I don't). Even when am sure AF on her way I still quietly have fingers crossed. I have clutched at all manner of straws in the past - I think when you want something so much your mind just plays tricks.
Sorry if that is just a random ramble... it was supposed to help

I have updated the list...can't believe I am on CD9 already!!!

Eleveld CD2 Cycle 2 TTC#1
Scaryhairy CD4 Cycle 6 TTC#2
HattyYellow CD4 Cyce 5 TTC#3
Abbymeg CD5 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Fairysnuff CD5 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Sandies CD6 Cycle 4 TTC#4
PicknMix CD6 Cycle 7 TTC#1 (mc Jan '07)
Bucky CD9 Cycle 9 TTC#1 (MC Sept 06)
07mumstheword CD9 Cycle 10 TTC#2(CP July+Sept)
LittleSquirt CD11 Cycle 8 TTC #1 (MMC Jul 07 - Asherman's)
Mrsei25 CD11 cycle 3 TTC#2
ClairePO CD13 Cycle 4 TTC#1 Post MC Sept 07
GreenGlassGoblin CD13 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Clouisewood CD16 Cycle 3 TTC#2
Anniemac CD17 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Madoldbird CD18 Cycle 6 TTC#3
Spink CD19 cycle 7 TTC#2
GryffinGirl CD19 cycle 13 TTC#1
cluckyagain CD19 cycle 2 TTC#4 (post CP dec 07)
Glastochick CD20 Cycle 4 TTC #1
Grinningbee CD20 Cycle 2 TTC #1 (MMC Oct 07)
Shreksmissus CD22 Cycle 14 (since mc nov. '06) TTC#2
MrsBish CD22 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Pistachio CD24 Cycle 3 TTC #2
LobstersLass CD25 Cycle 1 TTC#1
Hedgepig CD26 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Teeheelady CD26 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (mc Oct07)
sydneyB CD26 cycle 2 TTC#2
toytownmum CD27 Cycle 7 TTC#3
Treats CD28 Cycle3 TTC1
MummyAnnabella CD28 Cycle 1 TTC#2
dressedupandnowheretogo CD29 cycle 1 TTC#2
Fruitloop79 CD30 cycle 3 TTC#2
Musicgirl CD30 Cycle 2 TTC1
Sambrads CD31 Cycle 8 TTC#2
Cricri CD31 Cycle 4 TTC#1 (mc Sept '07)
MissusH CD33 Cycle 6 TTC#2
JollyBear CD42 Cycle 3 TTC#1
Emmsy CD44 cycle 3 MC3 TTC*4
Mibbes CD44 Cycle 2 TTC#1

TTC GRADUATE LIST (we WILL be on it)
Kiddiecare BFP 19 Dec
Nooneputsbabyinthecorner 25 Dec [CD?] Cycle ? TTC#?
Lockets 27 Dec [CD32 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Hopefully 28 Dec [CD27?] Cycle 1 TTC#1
Excitable 29 Dec [CD36 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Starlight 29 Dec [CD39 Cycle 2 TTC#2 (MC Oct 07)]
Kirstygem 29 Dec CD28 Cycle 4 TTC#2
Meglet 30 Dec [CD27 TTC#2 POST-MC:NOV07]
Biglips BFP 03 Jan (CD24 cycle 2 TTC~#2)
BabyFever BFP 12 Jan [CD31 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Becaroo BFP 12 Jan [CD30 Cycle1 Post-mc TTC#2]
Digitalgirl BFP 13 Jan [CD33 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Kate2179 BFP 14 Jan CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#1 post mc Oct07
Neveronamonday BFP 16 Jan [CD? Cycle 2 TTC#2]
Colabottle BFP 18 Jan [CD42 Cycle ? TTC#2]
theowlwhowasafraidofthedark BFP 18 Jan [CD50 Cycle 7 TTC#1]

NOAM please don't feel bad about feeling bad . I've had a MC and it is the most horrible thing ever. Having any dream shattered is horrible without having the awful physicality that goes with a mc/cp/blighted ovum....

You be sad for as long as you need to...we will be here to cheer you up .

noam nobody gets slapped here for feeling down after a loss, it isn't self pity its grief and sadness. I still get times of feeling very down after 4 months so don't you worry about telling us how you feel.

OK what is a retroverted uterus? Because I just had my smear done and the nurse said my cervix tilts backwards and when ttc we should raise my hips and aim for as deep penetration as we can, and experiment with positions.

never am still waiting for AF - did another test on Sat but BFN, day 5 of pre-AF spotting now and temp dropped today so I think she is finally on her way - lazy b!tch.
ClairePO that reminds me that when I went for a smear once the nurse commented on my cervix being at a strange angle she didn't elaborate though...

Hi Pistachio, my (almost) cycle buddy!

I found out as the result of an MRI for a back problem. It was reported as a supplementary finding.

I went to see my doctor and he said it's more common than being left handed! One in four apparently. Doesn't cause any problems with pregnancy as the weight straightens it all out. It's sometimes linked with difficulty in getting pregnant due to positioning - but most people have no problems.

hi girls, shouldn't really come on here today feeling really low.
mibbes another negative this morning, not that I'm surprised! I did'nt want to moan as some girls go through these long cycles every month, but just one last rant, here goes... soooooooo pissed off with it all,it's wrecking my head! I woke up last night and had a short interval of sharp stabbing pains,they only lasted about 5 seconds each and it happened about 4 times. I really thought it could be implantation pains as I am sure I am 7dpo I googled for ages and couldn't find any 'official' sites that state implantation pains really do happen, and my pains were high up, just beneath my belly button,to the right side, so that doesn't tally with much? I only ended up worrying myself as I am now starting to think 'ECTOPIC' as you dont always produce a poss on the hpt? desparate for AF to show or a BFP as this is getting me down!, rant over now... how are you girls doing? The weather is better today, don't you think?

oooh no CB Emmsy so sorry to hear you so down .
I suppose in a twisted kind of way I am lucky in that I know TEW is on her way (thanks to spotting). I can completely empathise with your frustration at long cycle (obviously as we are cycle buddies !!). I have been torturing myself thinking that if this stupid cycle had been a normal length then I'd be at opk stage of next cycle by now but here I am still waiitng for AF .
I have to say that for me it has been a great help having you (and Kate before she graduated ) as cycle buddies to take me through this epic journey.
I know you are testing most days but perhaps if you leave it a day or 2 then try again - at 7dpo it is still too early for a BFP anyway so even of you are PG it will not register yet. Even at 10dpo it is early so hold off until the weekend then test away !
From what I have read about ectopic PGs the pain is severe so please don't worry unduly.
I have everything crossed for you xx

evening girls
how has everyone been today??
NOAM dont worry about feeling down we are here to help you through any hard times so please feel free to rant/vent etc and alose i totally understand the feeling of wanting to test again. i had a MC 5years ago and about a week after i found a test in a drawer and decided to do it (i had had a scan that confirmed MC BTW) it was BFN of course and it was like i was back to the start of the awful feelings. i know how hard it is but try to resist the urge at least until you feel stronger in your self. i didnt and regret it it was, however one of the main reasons that i forced myself to come to terms with it and move on so in a way it helped in the long run HTH in some way {{{{hugs}}}}}
lobster and anyone else talkin about funny uterus problems... i was told by 2 differnt sonographers that i have a left lying uterus which is a possible cause for difficulty gettin pg due to positioning probs. i found that i had left handed back pain during pg and they told me it was due to this
sounds quite common so not to worry
xx ei xx

that was meant to say ALSO not alose

Hello ladies, not posted for a while but have been looking out for you all

NOAM so sorry to hear your news, wishing you lots of luck and love for your next cycle, and you have my permission to punch anyone who says anything 'helpful' like "at least you know you can get pregnant" which is what I seemed to get A LOT after my mc, or maybe you are a more tolerant person that me Take care {{hugs}}

mibbes & emmsy really hope the epic cycles sort themselves out one way or another soon. emmsy from what you said even if it is ectopic - which it SO ISN'T, but even if it was - it sounds to me like it'd be too early to be giving you any pain yet anyway. They thought my mc might have been ectopic for a while so I did quite a bit of research. More likely to be implantation pain!! Keeping everything crossed for you both (and for myself too ) xx

Hi Kate great to hear from you - hope all is going well with your wee bean !
Well the wait is finally over for me and AF arrived properly last night, so CD1 at last !
I think Emmsy may have a few days to wait as if FF is correct she will find out what is going in (get her BFP) this weekend - I have fingers tightly crossed for you Emmsy .
Why has it been so quiet around here ? Ladies where are you ?

Mibbes CD1 Cycle 3 TTC#1
Eleveld CD3 Cycle 2 TTC#1
Scaryhairy CD5 Cycle 6 TTC#2
HattyYellow CD5 Cyce 5 TTC#3
Abbymeg CD6 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Fairysnuff CD6 Cycle 7 TTC#2
Sandies CD7 Cycle 4 TTC#4
PicknMix CD7 Cycle 7 TTC#1 (mc Jan '07)
Bucky CD10 Cycle 9 TTC#1 (MC Sept 06)
07mumstheword CD10 Cycle 10 TTC#2(CP July+Sept)
LittleSquirt CD12 Cycle 8 TTC #1 (MMC Jul 07 - Asherman's)
Mrsei25 CD12 cycle 3 TTC#2
ClairePO CD14 Cycle 4 TTC#1 Post MC Sept 07
GreenGlassGoblin CD14 Cycle 6 TTC#2
Clouisewood CD17 Cycle 3 TTC#2
Anniemac CD18 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Madoldbird CD19 Cycle 6 TTC#3
Spink CD20 cycle 7 TTC#2
GryffinGirl CD20 cycle 13 TTC#1
cluckyagain CD20 cycle 2 TTC#4 (post CP dec 07)
Glastochick CD21 Cycle 4 TTC #1
Grinningbee CD21 Cycle 2 TTC #1 (MMC Oct 07)
Shreksmissus CD23 Cycle 14 (since mc nov. '06) TTC#2
MrsBish CD23 Cycle 1 TTC#2
Pistachio CD25 Cycle 3 TTC #2
LobstersLass CD26 Cycle 1 TTC#1
Hedgepig CD27 Cycle 13 TTC#2
Teeheelady CD27 Cycle 3 TTC#1 (mc Oct07)
sydneyB CD27 cycle 2 TTC#2
toytownmum CD28 Cycle 7 TTC#3
Treats CD29 Cycle3 TTC1
MummyAnnabella CD29 Cycle 1 TTC#2
dressedupandnowheretogo CD30 cycle 1 TTC#2
Fruitloop79 CD31 cycle 3 TTC#2
Musicgirl CD31 Cycle 2 TTC1
Sambrads CD32 Cycle 8 TTC#2
Cricri CD32 Cycle 4 TTC#1 (mc Sept '07)
MissusH CD34 Cycle 6 TTC#2
JollyBear CD43 Cycle 3 TTC#1
Emmsy CD45 cycle 3 MC3 TTC4 TTC GRADUATE LIST* (we WILL be on it)
Kiddiecare BFP 19 Dec
Nooneputsbabyinthecorner 25 Dec [CD?] Cycle ? TTC#?
Lockets 27 Dec [CD32 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Hopefully 28 Dec [CD27?] Cycle 1 TTC#1
Excitable 29 Dec [CD36 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Starlight 29 Dec [CD39 Cycle 2 TTC#2 (MC Oct 07)]
Kirstygem 29 Dec CD28 Cycle 4 TTC#2
Meglet 30 Dec [CD27 TTC#2 POST-MC:NOV07]
Biglips BFP 03 Jan (CD24 cycle 2 TTC~#2)
BabyFever BFP 12 Jan [CD31 Cycle 2 TTC#1]
Becaroo BFP 12 Jan [CD30 Cycle1 Post-mc TTC#2]
Digitalgirl BFP 13 Jan [CD33 Cycle 4 TTC#1]
Kate2179 BFP 14 Jan CD36 Cycle 2 TTC#1 post mc Oct07
Neveronamonday BFP 16 Jan [CD? Cycle 2 TTC#2]
Colabottle BFP 18 Jan [CD42 Cycle ? TTC#2]
theowlwhowasafraidofthedark BFP 18 Jan [CD50 Cycle 7 TTC#1]

Sorry AF got you Mibbes, but good to no longer be in limbo and able to start a new cycle I guess.
Fingers crossed for you Emmsy.
CD32 for me but I'm determined not to test until next Monday (last cycle was 35 days). No symptoms really - I feel tired and have been having vivid dreams for the past week but I'm determined not to read anything into this!
Hope everybody else is OK.

HCB mibbes I'm so pleased that your AF has arrived! Obviously a late BFP would have been fantastic but at least you can leave this cycle behind and concentrate on the next Did your temp drop a lot?

emmsy like mibbes says it is too early to test but implantation pains can happen (or so I've read). Fingers crossed for you.

cricri Good luck with not testing! Fingers crossed for you too.

Hello to everyone else

I'm still here and still no sign of af, am sneaky posting cos my boss is around today.

Haven't been on the ttc boards as often lately as trying not to obsess. Will test at the weekend if af doesn't arrive....