Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

[Skl2021]

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@JuniperAndTonic thinking of u xx

@JuniperAndTonic thinking of you!🤞❤️

@calimc83 Hi; was thinking about you. I started counselling, too...well, re-started counselling...between my job as a counsellor and talking to a counsellor I talk about feelings all day lol. I hope it's helpful; I've found it really, really useful to talk about it all.

@JuniperAndTonic I'm so hoping this is completely benign. Joining the virtual hand-hold.

@MO22 Great idea about gifts; I'm going to copy that.

@Ganesh2022 you must be all counselled out! Do u find it really helps? I'm hoping they can give me some techniques to help me deal with my obsessing and overthinking..do u think that's possible? X

@JuniperAndTonic Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🏻

@calimc83 I spoke to DH and we’re going for the more relaxed approach too. I’ve had 3 cycles since my MMC of temping, OPK’s, DTD every day and using Preseed. It’s clearly not working for us and it’s not sustainable long term. I feel like I’m experiencing extreme high’s and low’s each month and mentally it’s just exhausting x

@JuniperAndTonic another virtual hand hold, thinking of you, hold on xx

@calimc83 honestly the gifts are little bright spots - I'm thinking about a Botox and brunch session with some gals post AF this month! This is my first proper cycle since MMC in Dec, so I've got myself into a tizzy, but trying to remember that it's a journey and there's life to live in between. I've had four therapy sessions and it's been quite arresting but also quite helpful! I had some low level anxiety post everything and it's been a god send for coping mechanisms.

@BlueForYou3 Same!! Some real highs and then you just hit rock bottom..god it's hard. I'm moving into month 3 of TTC..how do we not obsess? I was saying to my DH, one of the issues we face is we DTD to fall pregnant..it's never just for 'fun'..don't know how to get past this...x

@MO22 that's interesting re the therapy. Did u go private? I'm definitely there with anxiety....I don't think I'm anxious permanently..but I know me obsessing about everything isn't helping at all and I know I'm an over thinker. I love your thoughts re TTC being a journey...going to keep that in mind! X

@calimc83 nice to see you back, and that's great about the counselling 💕

@JuniperAndTonic I have everything crossed for you, we're here if you need to talk ❤️

@calimc83 It’s so difficult isn’t it? I think self care is really important, whatever that looks like for you. Also trying to be present in the moment and not let your thoughts get caught up in the past and/or future. I know I have a good life and a lot to be grateful for, I just need to keep reminding myself and start enjoying it again x

Hope you've had a good birthday @Skl2021 ☺️

Welcome back @calimc83! I have taken a much more relaxed approach this cycle and it's actually doing me the world of good. No opks, still temping but only so I know when ovulation has happened (not obsessing before about dtd at the right times etc). Dtd when I have even the slightest hint of ewcm and just seeing what happens. I'm the same as you in the fact that dtd doesn't really happen just for fun (because of kids, work, life generally!) but I'm really trying to make a concerted effort this month to make it more fun and spontaneous, with no mention of 'fertile days' or ovulation. Fingers crossed the relaxedness helps.

@JuniperAndTonic I'm so sorry. I really hope all is okay. Thinking of you ❤️

Just wanted to make sure people knew we were over on the other thread :)

@arianasky Hey! Good to be back ( though I'm gonna try not to be on too much 🙈😆) hope all is well with u xx

@BlueForYou3 yes!! I definitely need to remember that..I've a great life and have 2 beautiful children who I'm forever grateful for.I can't allow myself to get caught up in the past/what could have been ( must remind myself of this regularly 🙈😆) xx

@Cruz86 Thanks! Ahh glad it's helped...hoping it helps me as well. Going to go with my bodies signs...🙈..told my DH he needs to make an effort to initiate things as it's always me pestering! 😆 x