Ttc after miscarriage 🤞🌈✨ lucky thread 3!

[Skl2021]

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@arianasky yes I just don't want them to say oh it might not be good news as your measuring behind. Just need to keep it in my head that I know I should be and that it's ok. Yes I don't think I will be the same at scans again. I might just say I don't want to see anything until I know everything is ok. Used to get excited about scans and now I dread them! IL never forget the words I'm sorry there's no heartbeat 😥 it's haunting xx

@Skl2021 I know what you mean, scans are just ruined forever now 😕

@PamelaDoov just devastating isn't it. Never think it will happen until it does. 💔 Xx

@Skl2021 I know it was horrible I went for a private scan at 8 weeks and all was fine measuring a day in front then at my 12 week scan I found out no heartbeat. They scanned my stomach first and it was taking a long time and I said to her there's nothing there is it? And she made me go to the toilet to have an internal and I knew what had happened it was awful 😢 crying my eyes out while having the internal scan I'll never get over it it was traumatising 😞 I know I'll be a bag of nerves before the next scan 😞

@arianasky our stories are nearly identical! that's exactly what happened to me. Private scan at 8 weeks seen heartbeat. I remember them saying to me oh now we have seen a heartbeat chance of miscarriage is really low so your safe 🙄 so we told most family. then I had scan at 12 weeks and she sent me to toilet as she had to do internal and I said on the way out it's not good news you should be able to see it clearly now. Do you think you will have early scan? I want one to know everything is ok but like you say I'm scared of scans now 🤦 x

@arianasky how terrible 😞 I always look straight at where the heart is when I go for scans, first thing I do, so I saw straight away there was nothing happening, but I lay there in silence hoping it was just some horrible mistake until she actually said it.

@Skl2021 I'm sorry, I was the same it was awful. 😞 I have to have one at 8 - 10 weeks on NHS as they thought after my d and c the pregnancy was a partial molar pregnancy so they need to check for that earlier this time, I want a private one earlier aswell but then I think well it only shows your ok for that day and after last time so i'm in two minds about having one or not? Are you going to you think?

@PamelaDoov oh I'm so sorry that happened to you 💕

@arianasky I'm 50/50 ATM I want one to check everything is ok im just a scaredy cat. I will see how I feel in a few weeks. See if it's sunk in by then 🤣🙈 x

@arianasky so happy for you! ❤️

@aesgriff I have the same right now, sore boobs started very early. Who knows??

I have cramps the third day in a row, and I'm only 10dpo (but didn't track, but my AF never showed up earlier by more than one day). The cramps are not bad as in I need to take pain killers, but bad enough that I feel like crap and just want to cuddle in my blanket. Did anyone of you had the same? I mean it started around 6 days before AF...

@Skl2021 I'm the same I want one to know it's the right positioning size etc but the same as you I'm scared too, guess we have to take it day by day 💕

@Bundaberg84 thank you 💕

@Bundaberg84 didn't get cramps sorry just felt like I had s cold and shitty for a few days. Xx

@arianasky how's today's test xx

@Skl2021 morning, hmm well the FRER looks exactly the same as yesterday to me so? And I got a not pregnant on a clearblue weeks indicator, when I was pregnant in the summer same happened at 11DPO and then I got a 1-2weeks on 12dpo but obviously this time I'm now worrying 😞 what do you think of the lines?

Still flashing. Still no peak. Still fed up!

@arianasky I think the 11 dpo line is easily darker than the 10 dpo

@arianasky so u got a not pregnant this morning? After a pregnant yesterday. That frer is definitely stronger! You can see the line clearly today xx

@PamelaDoov sorry that bloody thing is still flashing 😩 it's so frustrating when things don't happen. Keep going 💕 xx

@Skl2021 ah thank you I must have line eyes then 😂 I did yeah but I used a clearblue weeks indicator one this morning, the one I had yesterday was the digital early detection one, so I'm not too worried at the mo as the weeks indicator one is a higher hcg detection hopefully It'll show tomorrow 🤞🏻

@PamelaDoov thank you my eyes are going funny I think from staring at tests 😂🙈

The line looks darker to me @arianasky x

@arianasky yes I was going to say maybe it's not as sensitive! I wouldn't worry that frer is definitely darker! I know how u feel tho I felt terrible all week comparing lines 🤦 it's destroying! Still worrying now! Your still early aswell! Xx

@PamelaDoov grrr those bloody OPKs! What CD are you? X

@Bundaberg84 I’ve had sore boobs yesterday and today (4dpo today) but I read online that progesterone is the likely cause. If you still have sore boobs/cramps after 10dpo it’s likely it’s a good sign x

@aesgriff cd32, if cd1 is the day I had my baby delivered. CDs don’t mean much this month as it could happen any time.

Cd 36 actually!

Thank you @Cruz86

@Skl2021 oh I know I'll drive myself insane now 🙈 as soon as I get a 1-2 weeks on CB then I'll calm down a little, and I'll prob do a FRER every other day until I get a dye stealer then and do the CB weeks one once a week until I get 3+ if I even get that far 🙏🏻🌈 how are you feeling today?

@PamelaDoov after my D&C I ovulated on CD45. I understand how frustrating the wait is! X

@arianasky yes it's hard to stop once u start. I'm glad I didn't try them weeks indicator ones as it would of been another thing to stress about 🤦 I'm not doing bad. Were away for the day doing things for my little ones birthday so had something to keep me busy! Do feel like I have a water infection tho 🙈 for some reason I only get them when pregnant? Does anyone know why?! X