TTC - Ovulation etc.

[MrsRosaline]

@newtolineofduty @hoola23 @LittleDoveLove @wannabeamummysobad

Think we need a new thread as I tried to post on the old thread and it wouldn't let me!! Please tag in anyone else I've missed who may want to join us here!

@hoola23 I know I don't care who gets pregnant as long as it's one of us! 😂😂😂 xxx

@newtolineofduty that's how I feel! 🤣🤣🤣 but I also just have a feeling it could be you!! I bloody hope so!

Feel like AF is about to appear! Got that horrible feeling in my stomach! Keep nipping to the toilet 🥺

I'm feeling a little worried as I'm wondering (given I've no cramping today) whether the cramping I had yesterday and the day before was implantation which would have been classed as late implantation (12/13 dpo) which is associated with VERY high risk of miscarriage, so I've been googling lots about implantation today and hoping you can get cramps a few days AFTER implantation! I was doing so well until weds! X

@newtolineofduty yeah you can cramp the whole time, doesn't necessarily mean it's implanting when you have cramps

Ohhhhhhh do a test!!!!!!!

@hoola23 the good thing about doing a test today would be that if it was nice and dark I'd be reassured that implantation wasn't yesterday! However if it's light I won't know whether it's due to it not being FMU or due to very late implantation which would worry me! Also, it sounds silly but I don't want to do a test whilst DSC are here because it means I don't have the time/headspace to be upset/process/talk to DP! They don't go to bed until 9ish either and I don't want to do it that late otherwise I've no time to process before bed! So the conditions have to be just right! So I'm currently thinking Sunday evening when DSC aren't here and DD is in bed! That'll be the earliest opportunity when all the conditions to get a BFN are in place! I'm pretty sure AF will be here before then 😂 xx

It HAS to be someone's month this time round!! One of us HAS to get a BFP!!!!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@newtolineofduty I think totally the same!! 🤣🤣 crazy how we have to plan these things so much!! I agree with you POA though. Keeping everything crossed for you!!!!!!!!! Xx

@newtolineofduty @hoola23 I can't do tests when DH is around anymore...and that's bloody hard because he works from home now 😂🤣 can't do it in school either, so I have to wait until he's out for a run or he's nipped to the shops. Just as you said @newtolineofduty - if it's a BFN I cannot deal with the "you're testing too early" "you said you would wait" "you're putting too much pressure on yourself" chat afterwards.

@CShandy01 totally relate to that! Xxx

@newtolineofduty I actually read that spotting when your period being due can actually be implantation bleeding so I guess cramps could be the same thing? Either way everything I read suggested that implantation around when period due is nothing to worry about? Maybe I'm wrong!

Thanks @MrsRosaline x there seems to be quite abit of conflicting info so I guess I would just have to hope for the best! How are you doing? Xxx

@CShandy01 @newtolineofduty I'm really good at hiding testing from DH 🤣 it's become quite an art which I have finessed. Or maybe he does know and he just knows to keep his big mouth shut 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I'm OK @newtolineofduty I'm tearing my hair out a little bit because I'm on CD18 and STILL not even a hint of ovulation. 😩 My husband just says to give my body time to heal but it's so frustrating because I just want a new cycle to start now so I can try again!

I know I can imagine @MrsRosaline especially as you were there-you'd done it! Such an awful rollercoaster cxx

@MrsRosaline how frustrating!! Have you had any other signs like ewcm?

I thought I had. I noticed some EWCM on CD13, but it was also blood tinged. I had some today today. But I use Mira and can see the exact levels of oestrogen and LH, and they are still extremely low. No surge yet!

@MrsRosaline I wonder if you'll skip high fertility and go straight to peak! X

I'll share the chart with you. The key is at the top. As you can see the oestrogen started to rise on CD15, and that's when I got a "high" reading on clearblue too. But since then it's gone right back down. I wonder if my body is struggling to ovulate after the miscarriage 🤷🏻‍♀️

You need the LH to rise too for ovulation and so far it's just been basically at zero!

@MrsRosaline that's so odd! Maybe your next AF will just come as normal so a new cycle will just start. Sometimes you have cycles where you just don't ovulate. I hope it sorts itself soon. Defo not what you need after a chemical. Makes it so much harder doesn't it xx

If you've never not ovulated before @MrsRosaline it sounds like you're body is just recovering xx I'm sure it'll go back to normal next month xxx

Yes I have always ovulated every cycle 😐 Maybe it'll just take time. I'm hopeful for a surge tomorrow. Thanks for reassuring me @newtolineofduty @hoola23

@newtolineofduty @CShandy01 I can defo feel my AF is about to start now. Got those familiar AF twinges. No spotting though which I normally get

AF defo on way I have cried on 3 separate occasions tonight