@crazycatlady1981 yeah, I think it's for the best. I was ok with the idea and then I completely lost it last night. I need one focus at the moment, and not a whole bunch of stressful distractions. I feel like a weight has lifted today, I don't have to worry about how he's going to get the right day off and if he'll be able to stay with me in case I get OHSS etc, that's before I even get to worrying about house and move stuff.
I'm definitely pleased with the doctor so far. Hopefully the ivf will go well under him, but it's nice to know we have his number if I do have any issues.
Another country sounds like a huge amount of work and not something to be dealing with before that transfer. I'm not someone who likes change and moves, a move 5 minutes away is very stressful to me, another country might break me lol.