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Bus 6 of the Donkey club! Ttc for forever helpful supportive ladies for endo/ivf/mfi etc

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Marvellouslymadmum · 15/07/2021 18:42

Climb abourd donkeys 😂

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Tofu35 · 23/09/2021 09:07

I can't believe I'm getting to post this, after two+ years of very routine sex, PO(many)S, and gubbing vitamins every day.
I got my first ever faint line this morning. Sensible head says I need to test in a few days to make sure it gets stronger, but I'm just so happy to see something other than a bright white window!

Sorry for being off thread for a while! TTC forum detox was required.

crazycatlady1981 · 23/09/2021 09:31

@Tofu35 good to hear from you! Oooh that’s amazing news!! Fingers crossed the line gets stronger over the next few days!! 💕

@MIW01 yeah it was a bit insensitive, although I know she meant well by it and was trying to come up with alternative solutions to our issues! I don’t think she realises that adoption is possibly an even harder process than ivf!! We are very much in the camp of having a biological child or no child anyway so if ivf doesn’t work, we’ll just stay as a family of 2 (plus a thousand rescue animals!!) x

Annny27 · 23/09/2021 10:39

Incredible news @tofu35 :D let's see a pic of the test - I love seeing them haha :D

Tofu35 · 23/09/2021 12:29

@annny27 here you go! A cheapie Sainsbury's one, so I'll need to get the big guns tomorrow/at the weekend to make sure! We're trying to be realistic and not get too excited, but this is the first BFP we have had since trying, so its difficult!

Bus 6 of the Donkey club! Ttc for forever helpful supportive ladies for endo/ivf/mfi etc
Annny27 · 23/09/2021 12:37

That's more than a faint line! A proper bfp 🎉🎉🎉🎉 @tofu35

How many dpo? And any symptoms

becarefuloutthere · 23/09/2021 13:01

@Tofu35 congratulations 🥳 definite bfp there! Hope you have a smooth pregnancy x

Tofu35 · 23/09/2021 13:05

@annny27 15DPO, managed to hold on to the wise donkey wisdom of not testing early so waited until my period was due.

Symptom wise, probably less unusual ones than I usually feel/Google obsessively. So its sore boobs/nipples, some cramps but not as long lasting as usual PMS cramps, few pinching feelings on my right right. Of course now I've done a test, I've felt queasy but that might just be mental 😂

Tofu35 · 23/09/2021 13:15

Thanks @becarefuloutthere, how are you getting on?

One of the big steps before getting IVF was having my MMR jab (parents were secret anti-vax when I was a child, didn't know this until I had to get proof of vaccine to show the GP for referral). Various slow downs (me wanting to get my two Pfizer jabs/the GP sourcing MMR etc) meant I finally got the jab...this month. Typical. Although after reading the NHS site has helped with any initial worries about the risks of having it in early pregnancy.

5DollarShakes · 23/09/2021 14:16

Hi All - im back and had a name change (I was CreativeThinkerTequilaDrinker).

Happy to report that our first FET was successful and I'm 6 weeks pregnant 🤰🏻 first scan tomorrow so holding my breath for that. Hardly any symptoms which is always a worry 🤞🤞

Good luck to the other FET-ers, you got this. I was really daunted by the proceedure and 2ww but it actually it went by quite quickly so don't worry.
I'm here if you have any questions and MY GOD I hate these pessaries...😏😏
Hope everybody else is doing ok, it's such a long road xx

5DollarShakes · 23/09/2021 14:17

Congratulations @tofu35 xx

Tofu35 · 23/09/2021 15:07

Thank you @5dollarshakes, and good luck for your scan tomorrow!

crazycatlady1981 · 23/09/2021 17:06

@5DollarShakes omg!! What wonderful news!! No more tequila for you!! 😀 did you have natural or medicated fet?
It’s an exciting day for the donkeys!!! Makes me feel hopeful for going into the transfer tomorrow!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

becarefuloutthere · 23/09/2021 17:52

@Tofu35 good thank you, suffering a bit with pelvic n back pain when I walk so waiting on physio referral at mo. Wearing a belt when out n about now.
@5DollarShakes wonderful news! Many congratulations 🥳
@crazycatlady1981 good luck for transfer tomorrow! It's all going on for the donkeys isn't it 😃

5DollarShakes · 23/09/2021 18:26

Thank you @crazycatlady1981 and @Becarefuloutthere 💕💕

Good luck with your FET, I feel so positive for you!
I opted for a medicated cycle so the clinic could control my cycle, but all the medication really isn't fun..obviously I'm just happy it worked though! Good luck tomorrow, dont do what I did and nearly wet myself during the transfer! It wasn't the magical moment it shouldve been 😆... But on the upside the embryolist was impressed with my pelvic floor muscles!! Xx

Motherofkittens28 · 23/09/2021 18:44

@Tofu35 congratulations! I'd say that was a definite line, stronger than my first bfp line was and I am nearly 12 weeks now.

@5DollarShakes congratulations! Such wonderful news!

Motherofkittens28 · 23/09/2021 18:46

@crazycatlady1981 good luck for tomorrow! All fingers crossed!

Tofu35 · 23/09/2021 20:39

@motherofkittens28 wow, 12 weeks!💕

Marvellouslymadmum · 23/09/2021 21:00

@Tofu35 oh congratulations! So pleased for you!! Everything crossed for you

@5DollarShakes congratulations!! So lovely to hear 🤞🏻 for your scan tomorrow

Good luck for those having their fet tomorrow! Hope it goes well

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Clomid1 · 23/09/2021 21:43

Hi Everyone,

Can I join too?
Been trying for 2 years on clomid now second round. Ttc baby number 1, I’m 30 years old. On 1dpo today.

Annny27 · 23/09/2021 22:01

@5dollarshakes oh wie another bfp that's amazing lovely! Best of luck for you scan :D

@clomid1 welcome to the group! I am 29 ttc#1 for 2.5 years now (2 miscarriages and waiting for surgery to remove endo)

Best of luck for this cycle!

Theawkwardblonde · 23/09/2021 23:21

@Tofu35 massive congrats! Welcome to the BFP club.

@5DollarShakes glad to see you back and congrats!

@becarefuloutthere good luck with the pelvic and back pain. I hope you get some help. I'm suffering quite bad with sciatica but midwife says that's normal 🤷🏼‍♀️ got stuck in the bath the other day because of it 😂
Hope you're keeping well!

kerrym87 · 24/09/2021 09:31

Congrats @Tofu35 and @5DollarShakes! We're just waiting for confirmation of ivf funding for cycle dec/jan, spoke to manager about dropping to 24 hours too.
Just increased metformin again to twice a day (hello dodgy gut!) Another round of letrozole to start tomorrow on cd 3 (more side effects), inofolic alpha sachets twice a day....I'm rattling with tablets now....the things we try!
I am just really not feeling optimistic about the letrozole as they've said we need icsi.....if the sperm can't even find an egg in a petri dish on their own really can't see how they'll get all the way up to my tubes successfully.....suppose its worth trying everything in meantime but OH count varies wildly, only 2-4% morphology and 30 % motility 😔

So nice to see some positives and fingers crossed for the rest of us!

crazycatlady1981 · 24/09/2021 09:52

Thanks for the luck ladies! Heading off to the clinic soon! 😀 Excitement has overridden anxiety now!!!! Just hope it thaws ok!!🤞🏻🤞🏻

@clolo good luck today!! 💕x

@5DollarShakes good luck for your scan!🤞🏻x

5DollarShakes · 24/09/2021 10:24

@crazycatlady1981 good luck! You got this xx

thislittlebird · 24/09/2021 10:25

Congrats to @Tofu35 and @5DollarShakes!

@kerrym87 what Letrozole dosage were you on? I had zero side effects on either Letrozole, the trigger injection or the progesterone. I just finished my first cycle and got a bfn today but they want me to test again on Sunday too, so I have to keep up the progesterone. We have the same sperm issue, I don’t think his sperm are getting where they need to be (SA has varied from 9-24% motility iirc) but we’ll probably try one more IO cycle with our private clinic before IVF.

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