June 2021 TTC BUS ;-)

[Lollipop25]

New June Bus as requested ladies 🤗
Hope I've tagged everyone, if not just come over anyway!!

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@ForGoodnessCake
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@timeisnotaline
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@AlmostLondoner
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@Willow1982
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@Missy95
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@ChickPR
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@Jefferson5
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@Quinn26
@Fiep
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@Sophiederuges
@Capricorn8990

[quote timeisnotaline]@Angie887 I’m 38. Im shocked my periods have started varying though - ageing and the fertility impact is real!! I have 2 boys already.[/quote]
I think that's part of ageing unfortunately
For the last 2 years my periods started being anything from 30 to 63 days I was horrified! Luckily since I started eating healthy, taking pregnacare and conceive plus ovulation support last 4 months it's been between 29-33. Massive improvement.

[quote Capricorn8990]@Missy95 that's amazing 🤩 love your self control! Definitely best to wait. Do let us know.

I'm feeling very selfish and a horrible person today. I found out my partners friends and his partner is pregnant yesterday. They told them all at an event and I'm so glad I wasn't there cos when my partner told me abruptly I burst into tears. I've been feeling very unusual lately and not myself and the reaction was horrible despite being happy for them. My partner didn't understand why I acted the way I did and he just doesn't know how to comfort me. I'm exhausted today from crying. I know stress doesn't help conceiving but I'm a natural worrier and I have anxiety and OCD so I really cannot stop.

Hope everyone is okay and get their BFP soon xxx[/quote]
I understand how frustrating it can be when it seems to work for everyone but us. We're human so it's normal to desire what other people get 😂. Try to think and put in their shoes and think how happy you'd be if it was you. They maybe could have been trying for a long time. We never know what's behind people's victory. Sometimes it helps when we feel other people's happiness. Positive mindset attracts amazing things and eventually it'll be your turn to give those amazing news ❤️.

I've been trying since February and I already have 2 children conceived first attempt. I do get frustrated sometimes too because this time around isn't happening as fast as I hoped. But I know it'll eventually happen I just have to persistent. And this whole journey is making me appreciate even more the gift of being a mum.

Keep positive and do your best to make things happen because it'll eventually happen. We'll be here every step to support you ❤️❤️

Hi @Kaz1987 started ttc in sept 2020, mc at 5/6 weeks in feb and bfp again 28th May ☺️

@Capricorn8990 your definitely not selfish or horrible, my DH told me that his brother and SIL were expecting a few weeks before my BFP, I was devastated too. It's like all your hopes and dreams have been given to someone else. You have to be a great actress throughout this ttc journey, congratulating others when you feel like you've been slapped in the face. Your time will come 💓take it easy on yourself

@Angie887 I'm trying so hard to be positive, but waiting for a start date on a promotion at work and to be told it won't be until September when I applied and interviewed in February and April - it's just hard 😞 I'm going to go out and get a card and a present for them both. I don't think I can see them both yet because I'm just a bit up in the air emotionally, waiting for someone to call me back about counselling.

Thanks for your lovely message and kind words. I hope you conceive soon ❤️

@Lollipop25 everyone keeps telling me to be calm and chill out but as someone with anxiety who stresses over the what ifs it's really not that easy and I wish I could slap myself out of it. I am not a very good actress so I'm going to distance myself for a while but gonna go get a card and present later and post it through or get my partner to do it xxx

Thanks @Angie887
When you started taking it did it make your first cycle longer. Not sure if I’m hoping for a late positive or just getting my hopes up! Now day 8!
I don’t want to fall into being a ‘serial tester’ I’ve had 3 previous consecutive MM so I’m very conscious. Had lots of tests and all come back fine but that was nearly 3 years ago.
Spreading lots of baby dust to all you lovely ladies xx

[quote Capricorn8990]@Missy95 that's amazing 🤩 love your self control! Definitely best to wait. Do let us know.

I'm feeling very selfish and a horrible person today. I found out my partners friends and his partner is pregnant yesterday. They told them all at an event and I'm so glad I wasn't there cos when my partner told me abruptly I burst into tears. I've been feeling very unusual lately and not myself and the reaction was horrible despite being happy for them. My partner didn't understand why I acted the way I did and he just doesn't know how to comfort me. I'm exhausted today from crying. I know stress doesn't help conceiving but I'm a natural worrier and I have anxiety and OCD so I really cannot stop.

Hope everyone is okay and get their BFP soon xxx[/quote]
A close friend of mine announced their pregnancy to me in a really selfish way. I have really struggled coming to terms with it after my loss. You are not alone in feeling that way. You need to look after yourself and be kind to yourself ❤️

[quote Fiep]@Missy95 when I had DD I had a vvvvvvv faint line and it was already much stronger 24h later. I reckon it’s a positive! Let us know what your Wednesday brings.

@WantStickyBean haha I would be peeing on everything I see 🤣[/quote]
Oh that temps me to test again tomorrow! I was since 2am this morning wanting to test! Im not even sure why the urge was so strong!

Congratulations @Lollipop25 😍 all the best on your exciting new venture! Xxx

@Angie887 Well I think my cycles are around the 29/30 day mark, it’s only since TTC that Iv actually taken note!! My last cycle was 31 days, iv learnt so much about my cycles in the last 3 months!! xx

@Capricorn8990 I completely understand how you are feeling, I felt like that last Thursday as one of my friends announced they are having a boy and it got me down. Also yesterday my neighbors had their new born grandchild over in the garden and I ended up going out as I just felt sad as I should have been due the end of the month.

I felt very selfish too, we don't mean any harm it's just our emotional way of thinking. I feel much better today and positive for my new cycle. Fingers crossed for this month! x

Ah sorry @AlmostLondoner it’s not changing my cycle but if I had visible peaks it would be super helpful for tracking them! I just have a nice months history of faint opks showing nothings going on, but it’s helping me to have that as otherwise I’d be wondering if I read it properly and maybe I did see a peak and missed it… it’s super easy to look at them and snap out of that. Plus mark if had sex etc.

@Angie887 what is in those two? Specifically the extra one, I’m taking Elevit pregnancy vitamins and some extra folic acid.

@timeisnotaline I get it. With my first I used to track BBT and it was great but I have such bad sleep now because I breastfeed that I can't get 2-3 hours of uninterrupted sleep to have a proper result 🤦‍♀️ and after covid my cycle has been so bad

Hiya @Willow1982, I’m just back from a family trip and a wee break from here. I’m in the tww now, although there’s not been much action to be honest as we were staying with family 🤣 I didn’t temp this month of use ovulation sticks, it felt good not to be so caught up in it all! Doubt I will test this month as don’t think I have a chance. How you getting on? Are you coming up to your fertile week? You’re away for a wee break too? xx

@Capricorn8990 counselling can be great and they will teach you great techniques about how to change mindset. All the best ❤️❤️

@KN90 in my case it's actually doing the opposite. I used to have such long cycles but now it seems to be much more regular. However I already have a long luteal phase 14 to 15 days and from what I understand these vitamins can make luteal phase longer if you have a shorter luteal phase which isn't my case.
When I was pregnant with my DD all my home pregnancy tests came back negative because I used to test later in the day when my pee was too diluted. Keep us posted xx

@timeisnotaline the vitamins I'm taking? It's pregnacare which contains all the vitamins folic acid and conceive plus ovulation support which contains some extra vitamins and ginger which is supposed to help with irregular periods and support normal ovulation. The combination is working great so far and my cycles have been much more regular for the last few months since I started taking them.

@Missy95 did you test this morning?

@Missy95 I'm sorry she announced it that way to you - she needs to be more considerate.. especially if she knows what's going on xx

@Quinn26 thinking of you and I'm glad you're feeling better. It can be so hard to see people who are pregnant or with their little ones when you're wanting it xx

@Angie887 definitely. I may even just pay for it as I think I would benefit x

I’m feeling quite nauseous this morning and trying not to read into it. Telling myself it’s the burrito I had yesterday / DDs cold. BFN yesterday morning on 12dpo so didn’t test again today, but might do tomorrow if I continue to feel off.

[quote Fiep]@Missy95 did you test this morning?[/quote]

I did, BFN and now AF has arrived 😢😢
Our bodies know how to play awful tricks on us don't they. Devastated x

Really sorry @Missy95 xx

I'm sorry @Missy95 I got bfn today at 14dpo so I'm out. We will get there one day 🤍🤍🤍

@Missy95 oh nooo I was feeling positive for you xxx

@Veronika13 so sorry, you’re not out until AF arrives though.