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8 dpo BFN first response

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 12:25

Hi all, I am 8 dpo today or possibly 7 as can’t be sure what day I ovulated. Got smiley face 30/8. Dtd 31/8 and 1/9. Was determined to wait until my period was day late to test but couldn’t resist today as heard some people get bfp as early as 8 dpo. Feel so sad now and angry for not waiting. Anyone else in same boat. Just pray this is my month.

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Nic2020 · 30/09/2020 13:35

Hi

I hope you don’t mind me jumping on this thread?
I’m currently 6dpo and driving myself mad... I feel like I’ve got cramps and aches in the bottom of my back.. I don’t know if it’s AF symptoms early or what? My AF is due next Thursday so could it be too early for that? I’m like everyone else symptom spotting, thinking the worse and driving myself mad! Doesn’t help I’m also feeling like I’m going to kill someone right now 🤣 I’m thinking it all must be early AF symptoms
Thanks xx

kerry0000 · 30/09/2020 15:28

Hi hope you dont mind me posting on here. Im 7dpo today and have been having cramps on and off for a few days. I dodnhave thrush a few days ago and its gone now after taking stuff. I also that thrush can be normal cos of the hormones. I did do a silly test today and it was negative. This is my temperature chart. Could be that I have implantation today maybe. Xxx

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Jaysdream7 · 30/09/2020 21:51

Hi ladies, hope this is your month! So hard not to symptom spot although it plays with my mind as my symptoms come and go and so like AF symptoms. Such an emotional journey trying to get these Bfps at times xxx

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DaisyDolls · 30/09/2020 22:20

I’m feeling very hormonal tonight, think my symptoms are getting stronger. This wait until 8th will be horrendous😫 never know if it’s early symptoms or AF on it’s way. Let’s keep each other going. Xx

DaisyDolls · 01/10/2020 14:11

How’s everyone feeling today?
I’ve slept so much today, my boobs are so painful, nausea and just feel all over so emotional.
I keep googling and reading 6dpo is too early to have any symptoms! I’m so frustrated xx

Jaysdream7 · 01/10/2020 14:28

Hi @DaisyDolls they are all good signs though. I have zero symptoms today at 4 dpo like nothing at All. In the past when I have been pregnant but 6/7 I have def had symptoms. Implantation can take place from 6. Fingers crossed I would be excited if I was you. I cling on to any sign xx

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DaisyDolls · 01/10/2020 15:31

Thank you so much for your kind reply 🥰
I’m just so scared and frustrated. Feel like testing but I know it’s too early x

Jaysdream7 · 01/10/2020 17:25

I did today at 4 dpo just because the test was just there 🤣🤣🤣🤣 xx

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DaisyDolls · 01/10/2020 18:20

Me too! BFN today but still feel like absolute crap! 😭xx

Jaysdream7 · 01/10/2020 18:24

Still super early try again in few days maybe holding out hope x

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Jaysdream7 · 01/10/2020 20:15

Ladies a quick question about cm. around ovulation I had lots of egg white cm but since then nothing at all. I keep reading that a sign of pregnancy is increased discharge. Is anyone experiencing more than normal or have experience of this. I think I do recall having more in my last pregnancy x

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DaisyDolls · 01/10/2020 21:33

I’ve never had or noticed CM around ovulation, I read things about egg white etc but it’s not something I’ve ever noticed. I’ve always had a lot of discharge when pregnant. I’ve also read some women get no discharge after ovulation and before finding out they’re pregnant. The internet’s full of different information. I wouldn’t look too much in to that side of things.
My heads fried with it all tonight. I’ve been crying to my partner thinking I’m going through early menopause (I’m 37)
I’ve made an appointment with my GP for Tuesday. It can’t come quick enough. Xx

Jaysdream7 · 01/10/2020 21:45

Hi lovely. Aww hun sorry to hear that what makes you think that? I’m 40 if it makes you feel better. Do you have other children ? You are only 6 dpo don’t lose hope xxx

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DaisyDolls · 01/10/2020 22:10

Yes I have 4 children, from my previous marriage, I’m very blessed. I’ve never actually tried like we are now (I’m with a new partner who Doesn’t have any children)
Last month I felt the same as I do now then had a chemical, well I think that’s what it was.
Previous to that I had large ovarian cysts that I had to get several scans for. They seemed to come away themselves after my coil removal.
I’m worried now my hormones are so unrecognisable to me, I’ve never experienced this In my previous pregnancies. Just really confused. Sorry for the rant 🙈 Do you have children? I truly hope this is your month ❤️Xx

Jaysdream7 · 01/10/2020 22:21

Bless you. Hormones can be the devil. I suffer badly with mine too. I have 2 beautiful sons. My world but would love 1 even 2 more close together. I knew last month wasn’t my month had this feeling and feel the same this month. I have had many loses also. Each pregnancy I have felt pregnant literally by now. Especially cramp, food and drink aversions but I just know I’m not. At 40 41 in jan I feel this maybe a struggle although I fell twice once in March (mc) and April (medical termination ). I pray that wasn’t my last hope. I tried so hard this month. Tracking ovulation, dtd in all right days, taking vitamins but don’t think it’s happened xxx

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DaisyDolls · 01/10/2020 22:32

It honestly isn’t easy is it, I’m so grateful for my babies I have now. I’ve had 2 losses also, one chemical and one medical. The urge to conceive is so very strong isn’t it! Once it’s in your mind it’s like an obsession. I feel like I knew last time, had all same symptoms as this time but it didn’t work out. I just feel like this next weeks wait will be horrible. Don’t give up hope this month, you just never know and our bodies seem to like to challenge us with different symptoms it seems. 😂
I truly hope this is both our months 😘❤️Xx

Jaysdream7 · 01/10/2020 22:53

Me too sweetheart!!! 🌈🌈💙💙 good night x

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DaisyDolls · 03/10/2020 15:21

Hi ladies,
I had a chemical miscarriage on 15th September. 12 days later I started to feel tender breasts, nausea, headaches, and tiredness.
It’s now 18 days since my loss and my symptoms are getting worse. I feel so ill and my breast pain in unbearable.
Another BFN today.
Can anyone relate or does anyone have any advice?

bitheby · 03/10/2020 17:36

@DaisyDolls Worth contacting the early pregnancy unit in case not everything came away in the miscarriage and you are still retaining tissue. They can scan you. In my area referral is via GP.

Jaysdream7 · 05/10/2020 10:25

Help! I am 7 or 8 dpo but this is the second day with these line from clear blue early. 4 tests have shown these lines. First response was negative. I am officially too early or test apparently Wednesday is the earliest but surely these all can’t be wrong. You will have to zoom super faint but def there X

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Sohe · 05/10/2020 11:29

@Jaysdream7 I think I can see something on the second one but if it’s is there it is very feint. Maybe wait til Wednesday like you said and retest. It’s only two days away! I’m 6/7DPO and trying to hold out til Sunday/Monday! I’m usually an early tester too so I know it’s hard x

Jaysdream7 · 05/10/2020 11:39

Thank you! Look at this one ...I’m losing the plot!! 🤣🤯

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Sohe · 05/10/2020 12:39

@Jaysdream7 yes it does look promising! Good luck. Let us know how you get on. Try putting the tests down for a day or two then re test. Easier said then done I know but you have to wait for the hcg to start Rising. X

Sohe · 10/10/2020 17:39

@Jaysdream7 how did you get on Hun? X

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