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8 dpo BFN first response

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Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 12:25

Hi all, I am 8 dpo today or possibly 7 as can’t be sure what day I ovulated. Got smiley face 30/8. Dtd 31/8 and 1/9. Was determined to wait until my period was day late to test but couldn’t resist today as heard some people get bfp as early as 8 dpo. Feel so sad now and angry for not waiting. Anyone else in same boat. Just pray this is my month.

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Jaysdream7 · 14/09/2020 08:30

Hi lovely, I r started spotting all day yesterday normal for me before AF. Fully expect her to be in full force by tomorrow. Don’t have any preg symptoms. Can’t understand why I got two false positives then lots of negatives? Oh well on to next cycle x

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unCliche · 14/09/2020 10:22

Sorry ladies to hear about all this spotting! Mine turned into AF, which is annoying. Won't be trying again until next year but at least it was a new and fun experience for me. Do update with any news in case the spotting doesn't turn into AF for you guys. I have my fingers crossed either way!

Brightlightangels · 14/09/2020 10:56

@Jaysdream7 ohhh no very sorry to hear this as well jay .i KNOW its like a wind up really ,its might well be that the tests was faulty it does seem very unfair.

Brightlightangels · 14/09/2020 10:58

@Jaysdream7 i do fully wish u the best for the following month and moving forward it JUST SOMETIMES makes u want to try even harder next month xxx

Brightlightangels · 14/09/2020 11:00

@unCliche hello hun sorry ro hear as well dont lose faith. Even thou u said u are not going to try till next yr now it may well happen next month who knows when ever u dont try it just happens also wishing u the best xxxx i will also update my results i still have untill sunday

Brightlightangels · 14/09/2020 11:06

Oh sorry i forgot to say as well that its such a hard situation to speck about and its not spoken about enough but the more we speck about it is the more it helps us to allow that emotion out rather then in which DEFINITELY helps its like self healing which many of people may not know .i pray and hope for all of us to get the strength to continue in which youve all veen very brave in specking about your experiences xxx

Danielle2494 · 14/09/2020 21:20

Sorry to take over! Just need some advice. I'm 10dpo today. Yesterday started spotting pink but just had alot of pink when wiping! Does anyone know if this looks like implantation? (Sorry in advance for the tmi pic!!)I have had weird pains but not bad enough to take meds for!! Tia xx

8 dpo BFN first response
Jaysdream7 · 14/09/2020 21:41

Aww that’s looks promising to me! All the crosses xxx

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DaisyDolls · 15/09/2020 05:03

Hi 👋
I’ve been looking for advice/support for a few days now and so glad I have come across this page.
I’m currently trying to conceive. I am 9dpo, I tested 8dpo got bfn. Later that day I got sore cramps and light brown discharge, maybe implantation? I’ve got tender breasts, bad headaches and I’m craving different foods. I’m planning on testing again 10dpo (tomorrow) Feel so exhausted and frustrated with this feeling of ‘trying’. All your posts have helped me feel not alone. Thank you :)

Blessinghearts · 15/09/2020 08:00

@daisydolls hello there
In terms of your symptoms hey do seem rather promising and are indeed pregnancy related however just be aware that whilst ypur in your 2ww the body produces a lot of progesterone which can cause a lot if your symptoms that u are having .10 dpo is still rather early however there has been quite a few people who have got a bfp at this time but of course its up to u if u want to test or not .the body can play mind games as well but as mentioned before as u watch your body closely u realise a lot more.how many months have u been trying for

DaisyDolls · 15/09/2020 09:06

Early this morning I woke up with cramps, went to the toilet and had red blood and some clots.
I’m still 6 days before my period due date so
I’m guessing this is a miscarriage? So confusing.

DaisyDolls · 15/09/2020 09:08

This is month 3 since having my marina coil removed.

Blessinghearts · 15/09/2020 10:09

Aww daisy very sorry to hear Because u have the clots i would say u should go to the a and e department plus u have cramps so u can either go today or wait to see /monitor the bleeding .and also take a pregnancy test in the next 2 days hope that helps wish u the best

DaisyDolls · 15/09/2020 11:27

Thank you. What would the need for a pregnancy test be now? I’m in a lot of pain so I’ve contacted GP and waiting for a call back.

Blessinghearts · 15/09/2020 13:41

Because it might be implantation bleeding hence why i said taking a pregnancy test in 2 days time ok good luck wishing u the best x

Blessinghearts · 15/09/2020 13:55

@daisydoll the gp will hopefully help u but knowing them they will just give u pain killers u actually need to know why u are in pain so a scan and your bloods being taken would help a great deal ok as mentioned before hope u are good

SOCF · 29/09/2020 17:26

I just stumbled accross this feed, and it's been 2 weeks since anyone commented... Dying to know how you call got on? Did the dreaded AF show up after or did anyone get their longed for BFP? Fingers crossed for you all xx
I'm currently 5 DPO and I don't know how I'm going to control myself and not test until AF is due 🙈
Wish me luck! Xx

unCliche · 29/09/2020 17:54

AF showed up for me although she only lasted for 2.5 days. DH and I will start trying properly after my next AF in October. That being said, I feel like I ovulated later than I thought I do (11 days LP??) this month and DH and I DTD so let's see if we get a little surprise at the end of the TWW although not expecting much Grin

DaisyDolls · 30/09/2020 10:08

I’m still unsure if my last bleed was AF or early miscarriage. It last 3 days and definitely looked & felt different from my usual AF. Its been 15 days since this happened, I’m now 3 DPO. I have tender breasts and Light cramping. I’m
Not sure if it’s possible I could of conceived again so soon? Does anyone know?
My partner leaves next week for work and isn’t back until Xmas, so this is our last chance of TTC this year 😢

Sohe · 30/09/2020 10:50

Hi @SOCF. unfortunately my BFP turned into a BFN, but think I may have ovulated in the last day or two so currently on my TTW again.
@DaisyDolls yes it is possible to conceive straight after a chemical. I’m hoping for a sticky on this month. Although fertile signs where not as strong as last month so not sure if that means anything or not. Good luck and let us know how you get on! X

DaisyDolls · 30/09/2020 11:22

@Sohe thank you 😊 I find this forum so helpful and supportive. It’s nice to know others feel and understand what we’re all going through.
I’m really sorry about your loss. Fingers crossed we both get our BFP in October 😁
I’m now also on my TWW. We’re moving home next week so I’m hoping that keeps my mind occupied. I’m a serial tester! But going to try hard to not test until 8th October as that’s when the clearblue calculator said I could start to test although I know this is still early x

SOCF · 30/09/2020 11:32

Oh really? So sorry to hear that girls... I have my fingers crossed that you all get that BFP soon!
This is our first cycle TTC so I'm reading literally everything I can find about symptoms at different DPO's and how to cope during the TWW. I think I may have dived in too hard as I feel like I'm stressing myself out.
We've wanted a baby for the last 2 years but we made a pact that we would buy our forever home first, which we are getting the keys to in the coming days. I just want so badly to start our family now... I'm 30 (nearly 31) and my younger sister and cousins all have kids. I keep getting asked when I'm going to have kids and nobody understood our plan to build a stable home first. Now I'm putting that pressure on myself and I can't help myself.
Reading eveyones stories and experiences is helping lots so thank you all for sharing! There can never be too much information in my opinion.
Baby dust to you all xx

Jaysdream7 · 30/09/2020 12:14

Hi ladies I am also 3 dpo I got my static smiley face Sunday and Monday so that’s based on Sunday ov when I had a lot of cm. I had funny boob pains and feel tired but I get this a lot near cycles and ovulation so not reading into it. I think I had a chemical last month also as had faint positives but then a 3 day bleed that was more clotty than my usual period.
I am a serial tester and tell myself I won’t test early as I get too obsessed but in reality I just can’t help myself!! Good luck ladies let’s do this 🥰🥰

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DaisyDolls · 30/09/2020 13:05

I have nausea & unusual random boob pains plus a heavy feeling in bottom on my tummy today. Im
unsure if it’s all in my mind lol.
I’m same as you, too scared to look in to it too much.
We will all be crazy testing next week 😂
We’re in this together 💞
Xx

Jaysdream7 · 30/09/2020 13:21

Oh god what are we like! I hate this. I can test as early as 9th I’m so nervous already. Aww got you lovely 😊 in this together xxx

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