Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

8 dpo BFN first response

149 replies

Jaysdream7 · 08/09/2020 12:25

Hi all, I am 8 dpo today or possibly 7 as can’t be sure what day I ovulated. Got smiley face 30/8. Dtd 31/8 and 1/9. Was determined to wait until my period was day late to test but couldn’t resist today as heard some people get bfp as early as 8 dpo. Feel so sad now and angry for not waiting. Anyone else in same boat. Just pray this is my month.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
12
MJM1608 · 10/09/2020 12:01

@Brightlightangels sorry wasn’t sure if that message was for me? I fortunately haven’t had a CP & my digital test was positive this morning 😊 thank you though!!

Symptoms have been cramp, some nausea (like butterflies), vivid dreams & peeing lots! Hope your BFP comes soon! xx

Sohe · 10/09/2020 12:21

Hi @Brightlightangels Iv had strong cramps On and off for the last few days. Quite painful which has made me panic abit. Lot of white CM around DPO 5-7ish, little bit of nausea not sickness but like butterflies, and sore nipples today.

What DPO are you now? Thanks, I’m just hoping it all sticks this time x

Brightlightangels · 10/09/2020 12:26

@MJM1608 hi when i mentioned the cp sorry to hear that it was going out to sohe byt i just didnt put @ .sorry ,oh ok u have quite a few symptoms there what about discharge sorry for tmi xx

Brightlightangels · 10/09/2020 12:28

@MJM1608 ty hun wish u the best

Brightlightangels · 10/09/2020 12:36

@sohe ok the cramps are normal in early pregnancy your body is just getting into that pregnancy mode as long as there is no bleed it should and will be fine hun.yes the nausea is the worst its horrible really and the sore boobs as wellbut all of these symptoms are very positive even thou it can make u feel uncomfortable. I think im 8 dpo so i must of ovulted on the 2nd of this month of course

Brightlightangels · 10/09/2020 12:40

@MJM1608 @Sohe whats been your cravings so far

ShalomToYouJackie · 10/09/2020 12:44

I didn't get a BFP on a first response until 13dpo. I tested at 8dpo, had implantation bleeding later (thought it was AF) that day and had a BFN on 10dpo still. Not even a hint of a line.

You're not out until AF arrives

Brightlightangels · 10/09/2020 13:10

CORRECT INDEED IT JUST SHOWS HOW DIFFERENT WE ALL ARE ,AND HOW DIFFERENT EACH PREGNANCY IS XX

Jaysdream7 · 10/09/2020 21:50

Wow congratulations to both of you!! 😃😃😃💙

OP posts:
Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 11:22

@Jaysdream7 how u getting on hun , have u resisted testing x

Jaysdream7 · 11/09/2020 13:36

@Brightlightangels hi lovely. I am outside chemist now waiting for it to open as forgot shut for lunch. Will let you know soon as 😬. 100% DONT think this is my month I have been pregnant before and I have always had symptoms and have absolutely none. The sensible me is saying save your money wait until you are late. That would be Tuesday or Wednesday but me being me I just can’t stop myself esp as I saw that super almost invisible line few days ago. I’ll post what I saw again xx

8 dpo BFN first response
OP posts:
Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 14:07

@Jaysdream7 ahh bless your heart sweety ok sure its like 90 per cent of u feels its a no but im sure there is a side to u that feels just maybe thats why i always say never say never every pregnancy is different but as u said u always get symptoms so yes i agree with u plus to be honest with u when u see people getting there bfp early it makes u want to test as well .so on that note to be honest with u i tested yesterday which would of make me 8dpo ha ha bfn that which teach me so lets wait girl untill are due dates or even one day before what do u say are u with me lets be strong because lets just say we are for example then the embryo is already there we just have to find out within a certain amount of days /weeks im going to be doing some meditation before i go bed for a few mins that will help .sending u some healing for strength and positivity xxx

Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 14:14

@Jaysdream7 that looks neg but the first response always give evp lines which leaves u to think well there's a line mmm yeah early for us still . I keep craving certain things like chicken wings and mds kept on going loo last night it might of been because i had 3 sips of lucozade last night before i went bed around 12 30 .lol lucozade can make your bladder over active lol well maybe its in my head will see wen judgement day comes

MJM1608 · 11/09/2020 14:29

@Brightlightangels thanks!! No cravings yet, only roughly 5 weeks+5, actually have lost my appetite!!

@Jaysdream7 fingers crossed, I still don’t get two clear lines from first response & only had my first BFP at 19 days dpo so you never know!! 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Xxx

Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 14:42

@MJM1608 oh wow lost of appetite ok it may well come more later on . when i was pregnant with my son i was like a shark ,with my daughter it wasn't too bad really i just had a love for milk and mds .and with the cps yes my appetite increases along with cravings

Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 14:55

@MJM1608 try and eat some thing small hun ,dont mean to sound like your gp good luck xx

Jaysdream7 · 11/09/2020 14:58

Just tested again and BFN! 😪
Oh well I just think for me I know when I am. I have been pregnant 11 times.
Pray will work next Month as at 40 don’t have long left. I have always shown up a strong second line on first response at much earlier.
No more tests for me and fully expect AF. Good luck to you all!! Hopefully will be back with some good news next month. Xxx

OP posts:
Jaysdream7 · 11/09/2020 16:41

Just checked the test I had thrown away as was negative an hour ago but now it shows a super faint line?

8 dpo BFN first response
OP posts:
Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 17:29

@Jaysdream7 omgggggggg wow u see just p[footballwait a bit never say never mother nature is very weird i do wish u the best come on get innnnn girl haha

Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 17:36

@Jaysdream7 even thou they do say not to read it after 15 mins or so but when u do see the test after a time and it shows u that its promising .so u could imagine taking the test with your very first urine fingers well crossed xxx yes ill be 39 soon so the quality of are eggs is like a hit and miss and a pregnancy is even more precious especially when at these ages as time does run out .so lets continue with the positivity

Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 17:38

@Jaysdream7 dont know where the football word came from lol got so excited for u meant to say get innnnn

Jaysdream7 · 11/09/2020 18:51

Ha ha that make me smile!!! Goooaal lol! I give up with this pregnancy thing. I did take the test part and put it back together so prob invalid xx

OP posts:
Brightlightangels · 11/09/2020 20:44

@Jaysdream7 ha ha i know it does seem like a challenge indeed but look at it in this way all good things in life like what we want and desire ectt can always take time we will get there in the end Smile xx

Jaysdream7 · 12/09/2020 10:21

Girls I’m out took another test this am and complete BFN again. Will teach me to not tamper with tests! I just wanted to see that line so bad.
Lesson learnt for next cycle. I have spent about £90 on preg kits!! 😪

OP posts:
Sohe · 12/09/2020 11:06

@Jaysdream7 I know what you mean I have spent around £100 on tests. The wait is too much for me and I know I’ll cave in so I bought loads 🙈 x