Nomore - you're not the exception to the rule - its just that shoes has found a string where there are a number of us who don't manage it immediately. I mean, look at me - took 6 years before ds (Shoes, sorry, long story why I'm on this thread even though I have ds, but want to stick around as I feel at home here!) - and now 18 months down 2nd time...
Shoes - re UAE and 'knocked up' - well, you know what he can do about that don't you! Sounds as though you just need to get the dress to go with one of the pairs of shoes!
Sounds fantastic, although a bit daunting in some ways. Will you be away for Christmas?