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Anyone else 9DPO?

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dreamerkr · 29/05/2020 12:05

Hey guys, so I’m 9DPO today and I tested this morning with an IC and got a BFN. We used SMEP (mostly) this month, Preseed during the fertile week and ovulation tests, but I don’t think I’m pregnant. We’ve been trying for almost a year, and it hasn’t worked. Last June, I had a miscarriage after getting pregnant without trying at all. And now it just isn’t working. Oh.. I’ve been taking the Seven Seas trying for a baby pills this month too, even though I’ve forgotten to take them a few times.
I’m 9dpo today, and since this morning I’m getting dull cramps in my abdomen. It isn’t really in my lower abdomen either, although at some times it feels like it is. The cramps are mostly in the middle of my abdomen, just above and around my belly button area. I don’t have any other symptoms, except maybe tiredness. I’m always tired these days really early, but that may be because of how lazy I’ve become in this lockdown lol! I’m really bloated too, but I always become bloated for some reason after ovulation.
Is anyone else 9dpo today?

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dreamerkr · 30/05/2020 21:21

@CocoaN yeah, I do have another test for tomorrow but idk.. I really feel like AF will start soon! I have the cramps I always have before AF. Thank you so much! ☺️

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DoubleFunMum · 30/05/2020 21:32

So happy for all of you with your BFPs this month! This thread has actually cheered me up tonight. I got a BFN this morning at 9 dpo. I did think there might be the tiniest hint of a line but thought I might be kidding myself. want it so bad after a miscarriage in February. Going to try again tomorrow. 10dpo seems to be a good day for testing! Fingers crossed for everyone.

dreamerkr · 30/05/2020 21:42

@DoubleFunMum hey! I hope you get your BFP soon! I had a miscarriage almost a year ago, and I have honestly lost hope now because we’ve been trying on and off for the past year and nothing’s happened. I hate getting evap lines! One second I’m feeling excited and the other, I know it’s an evap and I lose all hope again. This is so difficult 😭
Do you have any symptoms this month?

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dreamerkr · 30/05/2020 21:43

9dpo is super early! I hope you get your BFP this month ☺️ x

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DoubleFunMum · 30/05/2020 21:53

@dreamerkr, I know 9dpo is a bit early but I have no symptoms at all (except bloating, pretty normal) so feeling despondent all round really. I'm nearly 39 so expecting it may take a while!

dreamerkr · 30/05/2020 22:15

@DoubleFunMum how long have you been trying for? Are you trying for your first too? I don’t have many symptoms either tbh. I’m bloated too, but I always am before AF. I’ve had mild cramping which usually happens before AF too. And today, I had cramping in my lower right abdomen, I was worried it could be my appendix or something!

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DoubleFunMum · 30/05/2020 22:32

@dreamerkr I should have said, congrats on your BFP. It is a definite line for sure! I already have 7 year old twins. Have always wanted more but financials didn't allow after the whole twins bombshell. That pregnancy was a nightmare, ended with them being delivered 12 weeks early, though thank goodness they are healthy. Was really hoping for an easier time this time round. Started trying last Nov and got preg 2nd month trying, but sadly ended in miscarriage at 9 weeks. I knew we were so lucky to get a BFP so quickly last year and now thinking it may have been a fluke at my age! Hoping I haven't left it too late!

dreamerkr · 30/05/2020 22:45

@DoubleFunMum wow! 12 weeks early? Hopefully you’ll get your BFP really soon! And doesn’t the line in my FRER look like an evap to you? At first I thought I could see a hint of pink but then I wasn’t so sure looking at it again! It’s all such a headache, haha.

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DoubleFunMum · 30/05/2020 22:59

@dreamerkr, no it definitely looks like a line to me in the FRER. I'm sure you'll get a darker line tomorrow. Fingers crossed for all of us! Yeah, my twins were 2lb 5oz and 2lb 9oz when they were born and were in hospital for 12 weeks. We are soooo lucky to have them! I was hoping to do it all again without so much stress and enjoy the baby phase this time. Last time I was terrified and the whole thing was a blur. Plus they are such amazing little people, we couldn't help wanting to make more Blush.

slimshadyscousin · 31/05/2020 06:52

@dreamerkr definitely a line there, congratulations! 🥳 so exciting!

CocoaN · 31/05/2020 08:44

Morning all! I tested again on a frer and the line is a bit darker again 😁 can’t wait to do a digital next week once AF due date has passed!

Anyone else testing this morning?! Lots of luck to you all 🤞🏼

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Windyberry · 31/05/2020 09:12

Found a thread with similar situation. Ladies line is line. I test negative at 9 DPO on IC. 10 and 11 DPO I got opk positive and I grabbed FRER and boots cheapie. Got both postive today with FMU. It's my first ttc cycle for baby #2. Lots of baby dust to this group. Attaching progression pictures from 9 DPO till this morning FRER.

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dreamerkr · 31/05/2020 09:30

@CocoaN I’m so happy for you! I might test later this morning too, but I have AF like cramps! 😔

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CocoaN · 31/05/2020 09:57

@dreamerkr thank you! Keep us posted and good luck 🤞🏼😊

dreamerkr · 31/05/2020 10:24

I tested again this morning and the line is definitely there but it’s really really faint. It’s probably an evap, that’s what it seems like, but how can I keep getting evaps? 😕

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CocoaN · 31/05/2020 11:26

@dreamerkr I think it’s very unlikely you’d keep getting evaps. Just gotta keep testing! Are you testing with FMU?

dreamerkr · 31/05/2020 13:46

@CocoaN I keep thinking why the line’s so light at 11DPO, it’s gotta be an evap. Not hopeful 😔

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Whilstwewait · 31/05/2020 18:36

@dreamerkr you may have just implanted late that's what I keep telling myself. People only get early positives if they implant early. You may have only implanted day 9 or 10 in which case the test would be very light. Ive never had an evap on a frer so i think you have a good chance xx

slimshadyscousin · 31/05/2020 18:37

Sorry to hear your line doesn’t seem to be getting stronger @dreamerkr you’re not out yet! Some women’s levels of HCG just increase slower than others. Please keep us updated, I have everything crossed for you 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

dreamerkr · 31/05/2020 18:38

Thanks guys, I hope you’re doing well ☺️

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CocoaN · 31/05/2020 19:00

@dreamerkr yes I agree about implanting early, also I haven’t had a evap on a frer yet. Everything crossed too 🤞🏼😊

dreamerkr · 31/05/2020 19:07

Evap line or faint positive?

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dreamerkr · 31/05/2020 19:08

First I thought the line looked a faint blue but now I’m not so sure..

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Whilstwewait · 31/05/2020 19:09

@dreamerkr faint positive. I did a clear blue and even after half an hour no evap line. I think you're definitely pregnant xx

Whilstwewait · 31/05/2020 19:09

@dreamerkr definitely blue. Id be really happy with that. Congrats xx