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TTC after MC - May 2020 Part 2

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VP91x · 13/05/2020 18:09

Hey ladies,
Just doing a new thread as we are about to max out on the other one.

@SmileyT
@Mommybear05
@Sallyjo27
@HE88
@Ejb86
@Hayleylou89
@Renna
@Dipsy77
@mumoftwobeauts

Will keep tagging if anyone is initally not on this. Xx

Hi, to anyone else who would like to join. 👋👋
I am on Cycle 2 TTC and on CD15 following SMEP plan this month, tracking BBT and using OPKs xx

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VP91x · 24/05/2020 08:55

@2020wish have you continued temping etc? I really am sorry this has happened xx

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2020wish · 24/05/2020 08:57

No I didn’t even temp today cause I told myself I would stop once I got the digital as it didn’t want that fear of expecting the temp to drop every morning and just wanted to enjoy it. I really regret not taking it now :(

Wishingfornumber2 · 24/05/2020 09:50

@2020wish sorry to hear that. Could it be a faulty test maybe? Are you going to test again? X
@Hayleylou89 I haven’t had any more today so clutching at straws it is implantation 🤞. So happy for you that you have got your positive! X

Jazper · 24/05/2020 10:11

@Wishingfornumber2 and @VP91x
I got my static smily!! Thank you for encouraging me to keep going xx

@2020wish
I don't post much but have kept up with your journey and I'm so sorry to hear you got a negative result this morning. Hoping it was a faulty test and there is a positive outcome for you this month ❤️

Doughnut100 · 24/05/2020 10:13

@2020wish sorry love. Tests can vary slightly in sensitivity though. And if af isn't due until tomorrow, a digi might not pick it up. Can you buy some easy@home 10miu tests off amazon? They are good for tracking your progression if this pregnancy sticks. And if not you can use them next month. It's so difficult dealing with disappointments over and over again, I know how you feel x

@VP91x no follow up bloods for me, I had an ERPC so they do a scan while you are in the operating theatre to make sure there are no products left. x

Wishingfornumber2 · 24/05/2020 10:20

@Jazper yay!! How many flashing smilies did you get? Enjoy your peak 😉 x

VP91x · 24/05/2020 10:22

@Jazper ahh brilliant news!! How many flashies did you have in the end? Are you following SMEP? Lots of DTD for you!

@Wishingfornumber2 fingers crossed for you too that it was IB!

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VP91x · 24/05/2020 10:24

@Doughnut100 ahh! I had a crap time with my ERPC because I still had some retained tissue. Hope you get your clear positive xx

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SmileyT · 24/05/2020 10:26

@2020wish I'm so sad to come on and read this news... I know there is nothing to say that will make you feel better but sending you loads of love. I'm hoping and praying that it is a faulty test and your little bean is still holding on xx

@Doughnut100 fingers crossed for a nice strong line for you next week 🤞

Jazper · 24/05/2020 10:28

@Wishingfornumber2
Thank you 😍 any tips on sneaking in a quick BD with 2 young children in the house greatly appreciated 🙈😂
6 flashies before peak today. I know it's not masses in reality but I'm not used to tracking ov and it just felt like it would never happen.
If we're not successful this month, I will use cheapies along with digital in June as I tested twice a day from my first flashy and in hindsight, wasted so many sticks 🙈

Doughnut100 · 24/05/2020 10:47

@SmileyT thank you x

@VP91x damn I thought they scanned and so it was less likely to have retained products with an ERPC! Sorry you had a crap time with it. I'm not too worried fingers crossed as my lines have been fading away to almost nothing. Thanks for your earlier well wishes x

Hayleylou89 · 24/05/2020 10:59

@2020wish really praying this is a dud test and u got a bfp when u test next!! Surely it cnt happen again x

@Wishingfornumber2 Thank u lovely, it means alot... AF was due today - No Sign of it ...I plan to suprise my mum tomorrow for her bday with a weeks digital test too! 🙏🌈💖

Hayleylou89 · 24/05/2020 11:00

@Wishingfornumber2

Thats really good news the bleeding hasn't continued if it was iv it will show on test ina Couple of days... when do u plan to test? Xx

Re6ecc4 · 24/05/2020 11:09

I feel so rubbish today.
Boobs started hurting yesterday. Which is usually a sure fire sign of AF.
4 days to go

HE88 · 24/05/2020 11:12

@2020wish sorry to read this I really hope its a faulty test keeping everything crossed for you and sending lots of love your way xx

2020wish · 24/05/2020 11:15

Cant get out to get one as no where opens to 1. Feel so down. Don’t feel like af is coming. Really praying with everything I have it’s a dud test

VP91x · 24/05/2020 11:27

@2020wish Amazon are doing a triple check pack for £8.75 with delivery by tonight (where I am based) xx

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VP91x · 24/05/2020 11:28

@Re6ecc4 TWW symptoms are the worst because they can mean either way! It's a rollercoaster xx

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VP91x · 24/05/2020 11:30

@Jazper those sticks go quickly dont they haha, but great news that you got your static.

I suppose either early morning, nap time (depends on ages of your children) or after bedtime. We always just stuck to after bedtime!! Xx

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2020wish · 24/05/2020 11:40

@VP91x it’s all next day for me as I’m Northern Ireland. Going to head to Asda in about an hour. I’m raging I tested at all today

VP91x · 24/05/2020 12:19

@2020wish ahh, okay. Hopefully it all turns out OK. Keep us updated ❤️❤️

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Jazper · 24/05/2020 12:38

@VP91x
Not following SMEP specifically but I have read up on it out of curiosity after hearing about it through you ladies and I think we unintentionally pretty much have. Having said that, I think I've been instigating dtd more than I usually would so perhaps I've subconsciously followed it...
I'm trying not to include him too much in tracking ov etc as feel it will put the pressure on him.
Girls passed napping now so will tap him up at bed time 😋😁
Anticipating the tww. You're close to testing now aren't you? ☺️

VP91x · 24/05/2020 12:45

@Jazper haha they get spoilt with the amount of DTD. They'll miss it when you're pregnant and can't be bothered.

Ah, almost. The time is dragging now. AF is supposedly due on Saturday. Unsure when to test. I've got so many tests in the house 😂xx

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Wishingfornumber2 · 24/05/2020 13:10

@Jazper yes it feels like forever with those flashing smilies doesn’t it! I wish they would provide more sticks or make them cheaper! X

Wishingfornumber2 · 24/05/2020 13:16

@VP91x @Hayleylou89 have just had a lot more blood 😣. There was nothing at all this morning and then just now could feel it coming out (sorry tmi!) I was going to test tomorrow. I think AF is due tues going by my last 4 cycles but app on my phone says it’s due next fri. Think I am out now though. X

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