Second thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

@dizzy85 @ArjaD @donnat89 @sungirl11 @Nmew I need to have a look see who else is on our last thread lol

@NicoleR14 glad to hear from you and good on you having a little cry no one can blame you for that I really hope AF shows for you soon so you can get back to TTC

Xxx

@NicoleR14 aw we're here for you xxx it's making me teary too, what a crap month for you. But onwards and upwards xxxx

@donnat89 @ArjaD thank you ladies just can't help but blame myself I don't think I should of showed my hubby I feel so upset for him!

@NicoleR14 I would have done the same, the whole point of husband's is that they are there to share anything with you and catch you when you fall. Just think about being OK yourself, I'm sure he'll be fine xxx

@NicoleR14 thinking of you, af will come and you can start again 🌸 he is in this with you so don't worry you did the right thing. What a rollercoaster. Try not to cause yourself more stress by blaming yourself etc just know your body will do what it needs to do to regulate itself. @Donnat89 keep us updated on your test tomorrow fingers crossed for you, but remember it's still early! We all do the same and test early I swear it drives us mad even more lol. Xx

@Bbutterfly thanks , I'm not expecting anything as I just have that feeling I'm out this month like all the other months but it is what it is I'm not gonna dwell on it it's disappointing getting the same result month after month but it is what it is

I feel little better mentally today as I've come
To terms with it but had horrible headache all day and slight back ache still - back ache is normal for me before AF but not headache but this could be stressed related who knows !

@NicoleR14 please don't blame
Yourself you did what any of us would do just focus on yourself and taking care of yourself xx

@Bbutterfly is that you around 2 dpo now?

@ArjaD @Bbutterfly thanks ladies he's been the one consoling me all day but for some reason I feel more upset for him than I do myself I still can't get my head around it but hopefully something happens soon deffo won't be taking anymore tests anytime soon!

@ArjaD yes either 1 or 2 dpo I guess time will tell but like @Donnat89 I'm not expecting anything this month. Usually I am convinced I've done everything when I'm supposed to and confident I got the perfect timings but this time I feel different I'm not so confident. Even though every other time has been bfn lol. So disheartening every month getting same thing. You didn't even do anything different this time did you? And still got your bfp! Like you said must stay positive it's a waiting game. Hope all you ladies have a lovely evening 🌷 x

Hi girls! Little update from me at 10DPO now, I’m awake at 4:30am because of stomach aches and indigestion😔 back ache has also returned and sides of my boobs are aching.
Did anyone else notice indigestion? I’ve had it quite bad the last couple of day’s. Constant regurgitation 😕
Xxx

@Sophiehannah95 haven't had indigestion but a lot af people I know say they had it!
@Bbutterfly the only new thing for us was the Preseed, and I also cut down from 3 to one cup of coffee a day as I heard that can have an influence too.

As expected BFN this morning at 12DPO so I shall take my seat on the TTC May bus !

Just wait for AF to arrive now !

Xxx

@Donnat89 sorry to hear that :( wait and see if AF arrives before saying you’re out! :) I’m determined not to test before 14dpo haha

@donnat89 sorry to hear about your bfn! Remember your not out until that witch shows her face! I have been up since 4 being sick I think I might have a bit of a bug or food poisoning I had a kebab last night and now my belly is turning with the thought of anything 🤢

@Donnat89 sorry for your bfn, there's still time though 12dpo is very early even to test still x

@NicoleR14 hope your ok that sounds horrible x

Well I actually think I'm in the slow process of miscarrying. I hope not but I think I can just tell plus I've still been spotting so that's been going on for 3 days now.

Morning beautiful ladies!
@Donnat89 nothing is lost until af is there! If u can (easier said than done huh?) don't tests until some days after missed...
@NicoleR14 aww hun, i haven't had one for ages but they are quite strong so maybe it has given you poisoning. Hope you get very well soon and stay strong sweet!
@Sophiehannah95 i've never had those symptoms either but i wouldn't associate stomach ache and indigestion with early pregnancy... again idk 🤷🏻‍♀️
@ArjaD how are you?? Did u get your 2xl bras? Haha i loved it!
@dizzy85 awww i hope u are not right and just panicking because of your passed experience... i have it all crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼
I know it's not ideal but have you thought of going to A&E and say you are pregnant and are bleeding a bit and worried? They would scan you and look and maybe confirm if everything is ok. At your stage they can already see a little bag with a spot in it. Xx

On my update i still have the slightest ovarian pain as if af is on her way but decreasing like last weekend and no signs of her... it's now a week late! She is deff playing me up that little bt..x 😠

@Sungirl11 yes I'm not going to test now until AF is late which I hope she isn't ! I'm ready for next cycle now !

@dizzy85 I hope not hun , hopefully your just worrying because of past experiences
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@Sungirl11 yeah I got a bunch of maternity bras in for when the boobs get really bad. They shall be strapped in!
@Donnat89 aw 12 dpo is early though, just a waiting game now but I'm still hopeful for you!
@NicoleR14 omg sounds terrible 😣😣 lots of water or milk to calm the stomach.
@dizzy85 aw i would defo go to A&E or phone 111, the stress of worrying alone isn't good.

@Sungirl11 @Donnat89 @ArjaD I honestly think I can just feel it happening and I feel like it's gonna happen today😞 I wish it was just me being paranoid but I think you can just tell sometimes. I'm planning to just see how it goes today and call the drs first thing when they open tomorrow and see what they advise. But the feelings I'm getting in my tummy now along with the spotting I just know that's it.

@ArjaD yes of course still have hope but I'm
Trying to accept it is a BFN and if it's not it will be a wonderful surprise .

@NicoleR14 I really hope you feel better soon plenty of rest and plenty of water ! X

@dizzy85 I really hope you are wrong , try to relax today nice bath and plenty of rest hopefully all is Oki xxxxx

@Donnat89 ❤️ thanks. Will keep everyone updated xxx

@dizzy85 fingers crossed for you hun xxx

@dizzy85 sending you all the bestest vibes ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
@Donnat89 I always took that attitude too, bfn and anything better is a bonus. 🤞

@ArjaD I think it's the best way to be ! Just hope the next few days go quickly and AF comes when she is meant too ! X

@ArjaD Thankyou ❤️ hope your doing ok xx