Second thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

@dizzy85 @ArjaD @donnat89 @sungirl11 @Nmew I need to have a look see who else is on our last thread lol

@NicoleR14 how can that even be possible 😢😢 something odd is happening, defo take the positive test to the gp and ask for bloods. Hope you're ok Mrs xxxxx
Sorry for you too @Sungirl11, but it's still not over for either of you girls🙏

@ArjaD I will on Monday I'll give them a call and tell them what's happened I am completely heartbroken and hubby isn't awake I dread telling him he was so excited but was scared to be!

@NicoleR14 oh I'm so sorry, this is honestly why we stopped using frer, I was getting bright pink lines most months and then faint lines so always thought we were in with a chance :( it's because the levels are so low they basically pick up anything and we all have a certain amount of hcg anyway 😭 xxx

@ArjaD I've taken bright pink lines of frer to GP and they don't do anything, I had one bloods done and my levels were just below 20, it's really common to have chemical pregnancies like basically every other pregnancy ends in a chemical so I wouldn't put yourself at risk at this time in the world also xxxx

I'm totally devastated with myself this has got to be the hardest journey we have been though!

@NicoleR14 I'm really really sorry❤️ this is such a tough journey in so many ways. We are all here for you xxx

@shelly10111 if you were getting bright pink lines on frers most months then I would see a different doctor as although chemical pregnancies are common if you keep having them every month the dr should be investigating as it could be a sign of low progesterone. And the amount of hcg we naturally have in our bodies without being pregnant isn't enough to trigger a line on a pregnancy test. So maybe get them to check if you've had more than 3 as my dr told me after 3 losses they will investigate xx

Well as for me i had a crap day yesterday as I've been spotting so instantly thinking the worst now but I just have to wait and see how it goes I guess 🙄

@ArjaD lovely to see on the digital ☺️ xx

I have again same symptoms as last week... so i think af is coming a week late 🤦🏻‍♀️

@NicoleR14 awww I'm so sorry , how unfair is that . I would defo be asking doctor for a blood test as that's not right I feel for you I really do .

@ArjaD nice to see the clear blue !

I'm feeling a littler better today have excepted it's another BFN month and just sort of dealing with it . I am going to test one last time tomorrow and then will just wait for AF

XXXX

@NicoleR14 I'm really sorry I can't believe it. What an awful month you've had how stressful. I hope the dr can give you some answers.
@dizzy85 stop thinking the worst, try and relax and not be full of anxiety trust the process everything is going to be fine ♥️
Sorry about your bfn @Sungirl11 but you're not out yet! Love the clear blue @ArjaD turns out you are 'that kinda folk' haha it made me laugh when you wrote that about getting pregnant during this time.
Can anyone help me? I've been going out my mind I still haven't got my peak result my ovulation date was predicted yesterday and here are my opks left to right thurs - friday I had a negative opk Wednesday and today. Do you think I just haven't ovulated? I'm usually the same every month I've got myself in a right mess. Xx

@Bbutterfly Thankyou I am trying to stay positive but I think having the losses before has messed with my head and seeing the spotting doesn't help coz I had that in my mmc but hopefully it's gonna be ok.
I'd say some of your opks look positive to me esp the 14:19 one. So perhaps your just about to ovulate if that was from Thursday or Friday? Do you get any ovulation pains or cm xx

@dizzy85 of course previous will mess with your head, it's so hard but just know that this is meant for you this time and it will be.
The 14.19 one was Thursday afternoon. So I've covered myself Thursday night and Friday. I'm glad you've said that, I thought I felt some twinges yesterday but it could have well been my mind messing with me. I get very little cm I used preseed this month for that reason. Thank you I feel so much better just reading your message you know xxx

@Bbutterfly 🤞🏻I do hope so❤️. That's ok glad you feel a bit better, I'd say that one looks how my positive opks usually are, I've only had one that's ever been completely as dark as the control line and I've done a lot of them tests, I normally get similar to yours and then I can tell coz I get ovulation pains and some ewcm but I don't get that much of it. It sounds like your covered but maybe just get a few more in there for luck 🤞🏻xx

@Bbutterfly i agree with @dizzy85, that Thursday afternoon one is positive I'd say. Mine always look like that too, I've never had a darker line than that.

@dizzy85 I've had tests but they all came back perfectly normal :/

@shelly10111 aw that's good, I think it is just one of those horrible things unfortunately and some people end up with problems and some don't. How are you getting on are you still waiting? I keep forgetting where everyone is at where there's so much going on x

I'm 4dpo atm :/

@ArjaD thanks so much. I really thought I was out but you've both given me a boost! How you feeling today?
@shelly10111 that's good at least you know! Xx

11 DPO here , testing tomorrow . Fully expecting a BFN .

I have backache usual AF symptoms for me and haven't experienced any thing I could link to a possible BFP so I just know I'm
Out .

But still as we say not out until AF comes , like a crazy person I still on to that little bit of hope until she is here I think it helps get through these days that seem like they never end ! Xx

@dizzy85 aw no.. i can't imagine how crazy your brain must be going... have you called the Dr? My friend went to A&E when she was 4 weeks something because she bled and got a scan done and saw a little lentil. Not sure what to recommend honestly... 🙈 it's all so difficult! We are here if you need to shout anything.
@shelly10111 wow you are just starting the wait... one week to go for the craziness!

@Donnat89 i'm sorry for your bfn... don't give up! It can happen anytime and it is still early.
@NicoleR14 how are you? We are all thinking of you ♥️ stay strong!

@shelly10111 I hope the tww goes quick for you and ends in a bfp 🤞🏻

@Sungirl11 I am driving myself mad to be honest, I'm gonna see how it goes over the weekend and either way I'm gonna call the doctors on Monday, I'm hoping that's just the type of body I have as I do spot a lot before af so maybe I have a sensitive cervix🤷‍♀️ god knows. But I'm preparing for the worst but hoping for the best. Thankyou 😊I've just told my 2 sisters about it coz they've both got kids so I feel abit better now they know and I can ask them stuff too.
What a nightmare.
Has your af still not shown?

@dizzy85 I hate being negative but just don't feel like it's my month as always, super stressed which doesn't help xx

@dizzy85 no she hasn't! I have been constipated so i went to the loo this morning and as it was hard and i had to make a bit of an effort so when i wiped there was some very yogurty cm with a bit of pink blood and i thought she was coming as i have some ovarian pain but it's gone milder now and nothing at all when i wipe. I just do think she might be there and will show now any moment!
Glad you can speak to your sisters and get some relief from them too. xx

@Sungirl11 how annoying I really hope you you get some answers soon either way .

@dizzy85 I hope everything will be ok ,
I can understand why you are getting by stressed though

@NicoleR14 I really hope you are ok stay strong xx

Defo not out @Bbutterfly, looks like a normal healthy ovulation in my book.
Aw @dizzy85 my friend just called and was just telling me how she got her period the first 3 months of her pregnancy like clockwork and it was surreal! She has a healthy 11 year old boy now though! Weird huh, guess no 2 are ever the same!
@Sungirl11 and @Shelly10111 I'm crossing it all for you ladies xxx

Hi ladies I've been having a good cry to myself all day but I've came to myself and accepting it just isn't happening for me this month again hopefully af arrives on the 28th so we can start again 🤞🏼