Second thread for ttc!

[NicoleR14]

@dizzy85 @ArjaD @donnat89 @sungirl11 @Nmew I need to have a look see who else is on our last thread lol

Ah that’s something positive! Nope, with all the current situations going on, I spoke to my midwife, but she never said anything apart from she’s sorry! I’ve never suffered a miscarriage until this, so wasn’t aware of what to expect or anything! I’m assuming because the bleeding has stopped that everything has cleared out!x

@Bubblybonbon well I really have no experience with it either, I can just go with what happened to my friend. Good luck xxx

@Bubblybonbon and feel free to join us crazy ladies on here, we're all in it together 😁

Gonna attempt to get an early night tonight my sleep pattern has been so awful I really need to try get it back to normal !

@Bubblybonbon hiya!! I'm so sorry for what happened to you! I have a friend that had a mc at week 12 and she took 2 months off as recommended by the midwife and next cycle she got pregnant with just one bed roll! Haha so it is possible! She is now 13 weeks again and all perfect and has a healthy boy on the way. So stay positive xx

@NicoleR14 I am also due AF on the 27th! I’m now 7dpo and I’m trying to see it through to missing af before testing due to an early miscarriage last time! Xox hope you’re doing good

@ArjaD congratulations!!! Only just seen your fantastic update 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Hi I'm new here hope you don't mind me joining.
We are TTC (trying to conceive) our 1st baby. I got my coil out last July and no positives yet though had relaxed on the trying since December but now we're back.
7DPO and I've had a few twinges. I've also been very emotional the last couple of days not sure if this means something

Morning!! 18dpo/4-5 days late tested again and bfn 🤭 but noo sign of nothing here! My husband now is convinced he has put the bun in the oven haha just not yet showing as too early... how positive huh? After this the fall will be bigger if nothing hahah aw well! I'm convinced af has played me up! We have a dinner in the game... who will win? (I hope he does 🙈)
How are you all doing?

@Sungirl11ooo how exciting! Do you usually have af this late? Maybe you implanted later so it’s not showing up the hcg yet. You tried first response?

I’m now 8dpo and woke up with sore back and slight nausea and still have an elevated basal temp.🤷🏼‍♀️ Feel like it’s a massive guessing game atm. Xxx

@Hopefulmummie it's all so different for each one of us. I tend to find i was less emotional the first month or so until the hormones really kicked in. Then I got what my hubby affectionately called the 'b*tch hormone'. He loves it because it was never aimed at him but it made me so feisty I got lots of stuff done, like a free new garage door after an argument with the company that fitted the original one, and I won several arguments with the energy company and garage etc at the time. He says this hormone saved us a fortune so he's hoping it will be the same this time 😁 my life is so exciting, honestly.

Hiya @Sophiehannah95 !! I have never ever been this late before... max is cd30 once... and it's cd33 today (not a lot tbh.. but 3 days more than ever!).
I know af is not there because i have NO symptoms at all.. and i do feel her when she is there (maybe she gives me a surprise who knows?).
I had a little poke this morning (sorry tmi) and first thing i checked is if i had any blood or brown discharge or anything... nothing at all 🙈
Today day 2 of migraine and nausea thought... that is why my hubs is so positive 😂 (i am also very gassy and i haven't eaten anything gassy or had fizzy drinks at all).
I am a bit more realistic thinking she is a miss like Nicole.. but we have decided to test again on Monday as it will be just over a week late for sure.
Idk when i ovulated exactly as i didn't do opks so could be anything 🤷🏻‍♀️
Fingers crossed 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@dizzy85 I've herd that's quiet normal though your lines are deffo dark enough I think it's just everything growing I think it's the same for @ArjaD everything just growing I think it's something we just can't help is being a bit paranoid when it comes to this! I've woken up this morning with horrible pains in my breast and cramping in my belly I had quiet bad cramps last night and I had thought maybe af was arriving but I've woken with nothing and still cramping it's so strange!

Morning ladies

I've taken 2 tests this morning

BFN on FRER but I think a VVFL on IC Ave attached
Photos as not sure

Will test again Sunday see if anything changes xx

@Donnat89 I get faint lines on cheapies every month which must be evap a Hun so I'd go with frer to save heartache 😭😭

@shelly10111 that's what I'm thinking I've not had them on these ones before but FRER is more reliable so will go with that .

Xxx

Yeah sorry Hun it could well be @Donnat89 but I get them every month and it really upsets me as I cling to the hope and always come on my period :( xxxx

@shelly10111 no you are right I'm having lots of left sided pain this morning as well argh I just want the next few days over with ! Xxx

@Sungirl11 I got looooads of gas too!! Sorry tmi... But i still have it, oh i don't know but I have a good feeling for you xx Nd for @Donnat89 too. I do see a line on the IC. But wait till you see one on the frer, it's early days. I'm worrying because mine showed so early it is twins 😳 I'm a twin and so wad my dad. 😳😳

@NicoleR14 morning, yer I'm hoping it's all ok in there 🤞🏻it's so worrying but I've just got to chill out and wait and see now, always waiting for something on this ttc journey😬. How are you feeling? Have the cramps stopped? That does sound strange, I really think you should take a test and check coz if it's positive it'll be a good surprise but if it's not then it might help af come by finding out what's what. Xx

@ArjaD I'm Literally waiting it out now will test again on Sunday see if there is any change . I'm pretty certain it's an Evap
Line or something though .

I've got very left sided pain this morning and back ache but I had a crap nights sleep Tossing and turning so might be why

Lol TWINS ! well you will soon find out I would love twins ! X

@ArjaD haha hope your feeling is right!
Aw my twins!!!! That would be awesome (maybe not for you haha) ♥️♥️
@dizzy85 when something is new everything feels wrong right? It's in our nature to worry and we have grown up worrying about everything, specially when it comes to be a mom! Stay positive 🔝🔝
@NicoleR14 how strange! Maybe ovulating? I would deff take tests... just to confirm. Let us know how you get on and deff write this down to pass on to dr if it continues.
@Donnat89 i too think i see a line but i don't know about these tests... keeping it all crossed 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Hi, would It be ok if I joined this thread? We’ve been TTC our 1st with no luck as yet. I know there’s so much sad news in the world at the mo I feel guilty for worrying about this..but I have felt so unbelievably deflated each time it’s a BFN.. in the scheme of things we haven’t been trying very long but I’m fairly young and naively thought that when we were ready it would just ‘happen’ (stupid I know). AF due in just over a week, would you say testing early is a good idea or best to just wait and see if AF makes an appearance?

@Thack19 hi and welcome , don't worry the way you are feeling is the way most feel when TTC . I've felt like this many times . I was taking a more chilled approach this month but the closer I get to AF the harder that is . I'm due in 5 days now and tested this morning another horrible BFN .... so I'm just waiting and will likely retest on Sunday but fully expecting another month of disappointment.

Try to stay positive , testing early in some ways it's good so you know sooner but it cans slo cause stress if you get a BFN so you still hold out and see if AF comes anyway . If I had more willpower I would wait until AF didn't show but I don't so end up testing early every month . I am determined to try not to next month ! Xx

Hi @Thack19 and welcome!! We are all worried about it here even thought what is going on in the world! So nothing to apologise about!
Nicole is also very young and is the same as you... so again i'm not very confident that age helps tbh.
We have two bfp this month... one was 11dpo and the other almost a week after missed af with bfn before! So you never know what can happen 🤷🏻‍♀️
If you are really impatient (like all of us crazy women here) maybe at 11dpo give it a go? And if bfn don't loose hopes ever! Try after missed af and so on. I'm 5 days late now 18dpo and bfn (never been this late). Not loosing hope until af is here.
We are here to coach each other so don't hesitate to write if you need. Stay positive 🔝🔝