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NicoleR14 · 12/03/2020 12:11

@dizzy85 @ArjaD @donnat89 @sungirl11 @Nmew I need to have a look see who else is on our last thread lol

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Donnat89 · 16/04/2020 14:26

@NicoleR14 oh bless you try to relax , i know it's hard too . When will you get TY e results

I'm testing tomorrow , I'm dreading it as know it's gonna be another BFN ....

But hey will just move onto the next cycle ! I hope my AF comes on time this month ! X

NicoleR14 · 16/04/2020 14:28

@donnat89 i think it will be Monday the 27th just before my next af! I hope these ladies rub off on you and you get your bfp as well it would be so lovely to see! If not then I do hope your af comes on time so your not left waiting and wondering this has been the most horrible 3 weeks of my life!

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Donnat89 · 16/04/2020 14:31

@NicoleR14 yes I'm hoping so ! I can't imagine how you feel ! I was 4 days late last month and it drove me mad , I don't know how I would be if I was as late as you . I hope they get your answers soon ! X

ArjaD · 16/04/2020 14:48

@Sungirl11 aw you're not out though, so many women don't even get a bfp till they are several weeks late.
@Donnat89 sounds like a plan. I got a vvfaint line yesterday afternoon on the frer at 10dpo but I never got anything with my first till 14dpo.

Sungirl11 · 16/04/2020 15:00

Thanks girls! I'm 17dpo today according to my app. Which i don't know because i didn't do opks.
Will have to wait and see.. either she is super late or i'm a miss like Nicole. 🤷🏻‍♀️
Or i'm suuper lucky and get a late positive (i wish right?) haha

NicoleR14 · 16/04/2020 15:48

@sungirl11 I do hope it's just a late bfp for you! It would be lovely to see more bfps here!

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ArjaD · 16/04/2020 16:06

I'm still hopeful for your bfp too @NicoleR14, doctors have been wrong before xxx

Sungirl11 · 16/04/2020 16:17

I have just spoken to a Dr.
My progesterone is perfect (27.3/28) yay!
He told me to test again next week, and if still neg to keep testing and wait till next cycle. He said that most women don't get bfp until at least a week late (apparently that is the most common, not like @ArjaD haha) If then af doesn't show to call again. But if during this time i feel poorly or bad to call again so they can look into it, and to write down all my symptoms. I found he was super helpful and calming.
Will have to wait until Monday to test again.
Hope everyone gets those bfp early!! Because as Nicole says the wait is just terrible!

Donnat89 · 16/04/2020 16:22

@Sungirl11 I'm pleased
Your doctor was helpful and at least you e had positive news

Sounds like Your DR is really helpful !hopefully by next week your have some answers and that is interesting about most BFPS not being until a week later that is worth baring in mind .

I'm still Hopeful for @NicoleR14 too !

Xxx

ArjaD · 16/04/2020 16:35

@Sungirl11 OK, that's good news! If only all doctors were like that xx which test did you use last time?

Sungirl11 · 16/04/2020 16:43

@ArjaD i tested with FRER! But i have read also that some women don't get same results on the same tests than other women... my husband will bring some from hospital for next week.
Idk it's all very uncertain! He did apologise for being told it was not important by the secretary... he said i shouldn't have got that answer as i did need to know the results because i have high bilirubin and i'm not immune to Rubeola. So i need to get vaccine before getting pregnant (if that is possible) if not i have to be very careful when preg. And also need to get more blood tests to check my liver. 🤷🏻‍♀️
So who ever i spoke to on the phone and said it was not important to speak to a Dr then had no clue what she was talking about!!

ArjaD · 16/04/2020 17:02

@Sungirl11 I tend to find secretaries and receptionists become doctors overnight sometimes without proper knowledge 🙄🙄

NicoleR14 · 16/04/2020 17:46

@ArjaD I am hoping that they are wrong a small part of me wants to believe there's still a small chance of being pregnant but who knows 😂! How are you feeling today?
@sungirl11 glad you herd back from the gp it's good to know they are taking it more serious and helping like @ArjaD said I deffo think that receptionists at the gp become doctors overnight the one I'm with atm if I phone wants to know why and they decide if its important enough to talk to the gp which I think is terrible!
@donnat89 I'm hopeful for you too I deffo think your in with a chance this month!
@dizzy85 how are you doing today has it set in yet?

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Donnat89 · 16/04/2020 18:07

@NicoleR14 thanks hun I'm feeling a little more positive I've had weird shooting pains all day in my tummy area it doesn't last long and could be nothing or all in my head

My back ache is literally nothing but the odd twinge here and there and by now it's constant so will see trying to stay hopefull ! Xx

ArjaD · 16/04/2020 18:22

@NicoleR14 I'm ok thanks, still feeling a bit crampy but it's nothing like af pain. And back pain but my back is never great tbh, old age 🙄🙄 just ordered a load of I maternity bras.

Sungirl11 · 16/04/2020 18:58

@NicoleR14 mine do the same.. today i decided to say it's personal! And she didn't ask anything else... as your health is something private... so maybe try that next time?
@ArjaD love it! Already buying bras haha
@Donnat89 stay positive! This looks like one of those special months... 🤞🏼🤞🏼 fingers crossed for you!!

Donnat89 · 16/04/2020 19:15

@Sungirl11 I really hope so ! Like
You said you just don't know until you get that BFP and AF doesn't arrive ! Just a waiting game now I haven't got much longer to wait so I'm sitting tight and hoping for the best xx

ArjaD · 16/04/2020 19:35

@Sungirl11 I'm worried my boobs will go as sore as last time, i swear to God I could have murdered my husband if he even dared to just look at them... They were soooooo sensitive everything just hurt 😂

dizzy85 · 16/04/2020 20:09

@NicoleR14 I'm ok Thankyou, been getting myself paranoid this evening as I've had a dull crampy feeling and bad back etc and it makes you think af is coming so I'm constantly checking but hoping it's all normal and nothing to worry about, apart from the worry I'm ok😬How are you feeling?

ArjaD · 16/04/2020 20:22

Aw @dizzy85 I've had a sore back and cramping since 2dpo, no let up. I think it must be the womb enlarging to make space for Sprout. So not to worry xxx wait till you can't roll over onto your other side anymore by yourself, in 8 months time 😂 you'll be waking up the hubby to roll you over to ease the pelvic pain 🤣

Nmew · 16/04/2020 20:45

If it helps you both @dizzy85 & @ArjaD I had those cramps and pains on and off for like 9weeks I think. Not fun to have and made me super paranoid but it all turned out to be normal! Now I’m on to new paranoid twinges and feelings haha 😂 never ending!

ArjaD · 16/04/2020 20:51

@Nmew it already feels very different from my first pregnancy, it's so odd. How's your bump coming on? 🙂 Can you see it yet?

dizzy85 · 16/04/2020 20:56

@ArjaD @Nmew Thankyou both that does make me feel better, I think I'm just traumatised from before but I'm determined not to let it cloud this time and try to enjoy it, I still can't believe it's actually happened. Lol not being able to roll over 🙈😂

@Nmew how exciting your gonna find out the sex do you have any feelings at all?

Bubblybonbon · 16/04/2020 21:17

Hi, sorry for jumping in on the post.

I recently had a natural miscarriage on the 9th April. Stopped bleeding about 4 days ago, wanting to try get pregnant when I can. Has anyone tried before their first period, and was it successful? Also is it safe to do so. Many thanks.

ArjaD · 16/04/2020 21:33

@Bubblybonbon so sorry for your loss xx my best friend suffered a miscarriage and ended up pregnant the next month (she was shocked) and had a healthy baby boy. Did your gp have any recommendations? X

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