Feb Bus Pt 2

[Hatepickinganame]

Not sure if someone made a second thread, i couldnt seem to find one. Went to post on the old one and it had been closed! Will tag who i can remember off the top of my head, please tag the others or add me to the new one if there's a thread i missed 😊

@MrsTwentySeven @paintfairy @Anon87 @notetaker

Sorry @Bumblebee413 and @Hatepickinganame . At least you can move forward now with things - onto the next month!. I hate this limbo bit!

There you are guys!
Omg. I am going crazy. I will be testing on the 28th of Feb i think...
Right now I am taking the ovulation tests, I can't wait to see some sort of surge...?
I am drinking Proceive Plus like it's the tastiest thing in the world (it is not). I want to get pregnant so bad😩😐❤️

@MummyBearBoo Depends on how sensitive your test is? If you can manage to do a 4 hour hold before testing, it might show anyway (depending on how many dpo you are?).
Or you could just wait. 😂

Sorry to hear about the BFNs and arrival of af for some.

It isn't necessary a case of not ovulating... You probably did ovulate but even with everything in place and seemingly perfect alignment of egg & sperm, pregnancy only occurs like 30% of the time...

The fact that people get pregnant so easily is a shock really...

Ive been catching up and so many of us are so hard on ourselves for these outcomes. We're not being fair to ourselves. Let's be kinder to ourselves, our bodies are doing their thing and they will get there... Its nothing we're doing wrong it's just the way it goes sometimes.

So although it's hard to be patient (I'm in the tww as we speak and broody as hell so I get it 110%) we have to try to be kinder to ourselves at least.

We've got this girls... Our time will come and it will be even more exciting as a result of all the waiting! Xxx

Hey all! So much to catch up on! Had a quick look back and sorry about the BFNs and AF☹️

Femometer confirmed today I ovulated 3 days ago!! So so early for me on CD12 so I am 3DPO! Nice surprise as it will make the TWW shorter but just hope we caught it as we only DTD twice!

@Sausage1990 thank you for that. You're absolutely right :)

So I caved I'm 17dpo and I am sick of wandering if my AF is gonna show up now I'm 3 days late plus I really want wine with dinner but won't I am pregnant so I decided to test! Now I've got the nail biting 9 week wait for the genetic test to see if the baby is healthy or not if not I will have to have a 3rd TFMR coz the baby would suffer and they probably wouldn't makes it past 5 weeks when it had to breathe on its own if I proceed 😢

@MummyBearBoo tentative congratulations my dear xxxx

What is the genetic abnormality?

Is chromosome 19 called myotonic dystrophy abut like a slower acting MS -I have it but didn't start with symptoms til my teens - my legs are weak and my stomach muscles don't work properly but it gets worse by generation so if I have a baby with it they would be symptomatic from day dot and if they survive to full term in many their intercostal muscles don't allow them to breath so they don't survive long if they do manage to get past this they are severely physically and mentally disabled and would be in for as long as they live. I would feel selfish being a baby into the world to suffer! Xx

Sorry to hear of AF/BFN @Hatepickinganame and @Bumblebee413, hope you're okay. My motto is 'keep going' which I am preparing to tell myself when I test...

Felt like absolute crap the past few days. I do normally get a bit of that around AF and the week before, not sure if I normally get it this early on though. Been so moody and emotional and I'm now getting really werid dreams every night which I remember when I wake up. Anyone else getting this/had this before getting a BFP?

Also all the best for your journey @MummyBearBoo! So exciting!

@MummyBearBoo I hope this is it. So sorry to hear of the journey you’ve had to go through. Here is me complaining after one attempt at TTC and I look at your journey and feel so selfish for even complaining! I really hope the tests are fine and you go ahead to have a healthy baby. Got everything crossed for you. We are all here if you need to chat / vent. It’s the beauty of an anonymous platform!

@Dreamer022020 I have been having VERY vivid dreams too! But at 15DPO and BFN...I’m probably just having a standard dream 😂🤷🏾‍♀️

Weird* Not werid! Haha

@MrsTwentyEight It's good to know I'm not the only one! They may be standard but when is AF due? You never know! The most vivid one so far for me was that I had a baby girl... But DH wouldn't tell me what she was called and I was so angry! Brains are so odd.

@dreamer022020 imagine you actually do end up having a baby girl 😍 ahh! 🤞🏾
AF was due on wed/ thurs and no sign of her yet...so I’m late but BFNs all the way 😭 How about you? When’s yours due again?

@MummyBearBoo congratulations on your pregnancy and I've every crossed for you for the tests.

@Dreamer022020 (apt name!) and @MrsTwentyEight I've also had vivid and strange dreams but can't be confident that's not just normal for me!

@professorastrocat when are you due AF?
Haha I’m the same. I’ve stopped trying to symptom spot now. Just given up for this month.

Thanks everyone at least this time I was in my first month of TTC unlike the 5 months the time before for me to get BFP but I'm 35 already and feel like I'm running out of time if this one isn't ok!!
@Dreamer022020 -I get vivid dreams and feel emotional when I'm pregnant but doesn't usually start until symptoms start at about 5 weeks for me xx

Evening everyone! Mind if I jump on? I came off of mumsnet sometime last year after driving myself slightly insane with TTC. Not sure if there are any names still here that I recognise! I've lost count of what cycle I am on but i need someone to bring me back down to earth...
I have been feeling terrible these past few days to a week, headaches, feeling dizzy, fatigued. Today I have been having cramps and when I went to the toilet I am spotting. I never have spotting and my cycle is always regular. I am 9DPO, AF due Thursday. As you can imagine my mind is racing!

Hey guys, how are we all? Still no af here, if it doesnt show tomorrow i will have to test monday morning just to confirm im not pregnant and it is just late 🙄

Any more bfps?

@MummyBearBoo just seen yours, congratulations and fingers firmly crossed that everything turns out ok x

@Louise190 I remember you!! Because we have the same name 😊 welcome back! Your symptoms sound promising, are you planning on testing before AF arrives or waiting to she is late?

@whatsthecraic91 heyyyy! How are you doing?! I'm currently on the train home from London, my partner is buying a test as we speak 😂 if I'm not pregnant then my body is playing extremely cruel tricks!

@MrsTwentyEight due mon or tues...

@Hatepickinganame don't know how you haven't tested!