Feb Bus Pt 2

[Hatepickinganame]

Not sure if someone made a second thread, i couldnt seem to find one. Went to post on the old one and it had been closed! Will tag who i can remember off the top of my head, please tag the others or add me to the new one if there's a thread i missed 😊

@MrsTwentySeven @paintfairy @Anon87 @notetaker

@paintfairy thanks. My updated app even now says monday was a bloody fertile day 🙄 if only id known 😂 its probably a good thing for now though, think we need to work on us for a while since hes still not bloody talking to me.

So OH has gone from not wanting kids just yet only a month ago, to this morning where he suggested I create a DTD calendar for him for my next ovulation 😂. So glad he seems to finally be on board as I've been wanting them for years!

@juno231 ah thats good news then. Fingers crossed it happens quickly for you.

Someone please come and disconnect my internet to keep me off google... apparently theres a 4 in 100 chance of getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate. Not clinging onto straws in the slightest..... 😂😂😂😂

Haha @hatepickinganame that's hilarious! And thanks I hope I don't take too long either as I'm terrified of early menopause (my mum got it at 31 and it can be hereditary).

Just had a read through the Feb bus graduates thread and it made me all fuzzy inside to see so many of us with BFPs this month!

@Hatepickinganame you kill me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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This is madness.
I tested yesterday (probably 9dpo, and in the evening, silly). Obviously BFN. Cried. This morning cried but didn't test. At lunchtime I had to run to work because I spent so much time in Superdrug looking at tests. Tomorrow I might test again although I have no symptoms apart from quite painful cramping yesterday.
I googled everything that i can think of, what a waste of time! Grrrr!

Is eating copious ammount of food an early sign of pregnancy? 🤣

Oh.
I want a baby 🤰🏼💗

I can't remember who I said I'd update about Pre-Seed but we've used it a few times this past week and I think it was totally fine, so I'll be happy to keep using it next cycle if no BFP this time.

We did find it to go sticky quite quickly though if using for foreplay, so ended up using normal lube for that and preseed internally (a bit awkward to do whilst already DTD but only took a minute). Hope that helps

Crossing my fingers for more bfps to roll in next week for you all!

@Hatepickinganame Any chance is a chance! 😂

I found pre-seed just disappeared quick if using it externally. I use a normal one generally but I've refrained during fertile week. I don't really need it that week though as I have plenty of my own. Lol. I just used a fair bit though if needed (yeah like its not expensive!). I think I've enough for next month.

I'm 9 dpo. Tender boobs on and off but I do get that. No spotting yet (I usually get that) and I'm hoping it'll hold off. Had a weird pain earlier but I can't decide if it was bowel related or not. 😂 Not cramping, more an actual pain. Left side. Came on and off for half an hour or so. Nothing else to report.

@Adrianoska ha welcome to the crazy club. Im now googling unlikely conception stories, you know the ones that sound like oh my aunt's sisters niece once got pregnant from sharing a bath that he boyfriend masturbated in and she was still a virgin... 😂😂😂 its mostly boredom googling now.

But yes, the food is a sign, it was the first sign for me with my last. A colleague actually said to me are you eating again and i did a test the next day. Positive obv.

@paintfairy yes thats true but highly unlikely i think...

Girls! I had some brownish spotting this afternoon! I am 10dpo and had cramps yesterday and today... Now... i never had any spotting before period. Could this be implantation? Or is my period super early... My breast got tingly this evening. I tested last night and it was negative obviously. Oh what a painful process...
I will test in the morning again perhaps..?
Xxx

Nah... It looks like freaking AF now 😢😢😢😢

@Adrianoska Does AF always come that soon?

Gah 11DPO and I got my BFN. I guess you'll be seeing me on the March bus too!

😭😭😭
I am devastated.

Last month and this month my cycle was only 24 days long.. Why so short?
I am so upset. Now I think it will never happen. My husband is going to be too sad... I don't want to tell him.

Oh god. There are not known issues with neither of us but I am 36 now so I panic.

He has no kids. I have two. I already am considering letting him go so he can have a family he wants and deserves. I am so upset...

We have been trying only for 3 months, I know, but hurts nevertheless...

What do i do?

Xx

@Adrianoska I'm so sorry AF has arrived. Don't do anything rash you are emotional at the minute and as you say it's only been 3 months which isn't a long time so just think positively that it will happen for you soon 💜

@Juno231 sorry about BFN you're not out to the witch shows!

BFN for me this morning too so I have defo ovulated late! Which sucks as we only DTD the 4th & 5th day before the new ovulation date 😐 just hoping AF stays away now until after Wednesday as I have my doctors app and might get my internal scan 🤞🏼

@Adrianoska so sorry af has arrived. I second @whatsthecraic91 dont do anything rash while youre upset, and talk to your oh about it all. Speaking as someone who's currently about to lose my own oh cause he thinks its best for me, its really not. Feel sad, cry and break stuff if you need to! Hope youre ok. X

Sorry for your bfn too @whatsthecraic91 fingers crossed you get your scan!

Wow. Calm down people. 😂

@Adrianoska - short cycles are ok. As long as your luteal phase is 10 days. So you should be able to get pregnant. Are you ovulating earlier than you think? I'm taking shatavari - might be with trying that or agnes castus? Your OH would likely be horrified if you let him go. Life isn't all about this?

@Juno231 I'd not necessarily expect a BFP at that stage?

@whatsthecraic91 more waiting. Grrr. I'm happy I'm not spotting yet (usually do) but I too am wondering if I did ovulate late. Still not sure. And won't be until AF comes.

@Hatepickinganame wtf?

Sorry been gone so long!!
What have I missed?
@Hatepickinganame my AF finally arrived CD43 - nearly two weeks late....
On the plus side, never am I going to go crazy and POAS so much ladies!! Going to take a break from TTC until April (I know...December baby but I don't mind ! I am a January baby myself and think there are far more important things to worry about haha)
Period being super late I am putting down to my weight gain so getting fit first.
How are you all ? BFPs I've missed??

@Anon87 and @Hatepickinganame aww thank you for missing me!! :P

Woah woah what am I reading
Everyone please be rational and try to stay strong
TTC is hard but life isn't JUST about raising a child....you don't have to let your other halves go because of it !? I think we are all just super emotional due to the stress of it all but remember to look after your mental wellbeing and visit your GPs if you find your moods are low...please, please ....we cannot bring life into this world without loving our own lives and selves!
Sorry to be so dramatic and cliche but ....mental health is too often overlooked and it shouldn't be....yours or your OHs....

@MrsTwentyEight I was beginning to think you'd disappeared!

And April would not be a December baby. 😂😂

Oh good God @paintfairy I have no excuse for my brain haha
Erm so January baby like myself it is

Oh I see..duh thats why everyone is taking a break in March
I'm on a serious diet so I'll blame hunger for this haha
@paintfairy how are you getting along? Save me having to scroll through and tell me where you're at with your BFP wait ?

Definitely feeling a bit fed up. I might need to step away from the apps and Mumsnet 😂🙈 CD30 here, 12DPO and BFN so I cant see this cycle being the one unfortunately. Waiting for af. Think I need to pour my energy into other things and start focusing on the positives! You definitely live a distracted existence when ttc.