11dpo thread 🧡

[Sparkle2020]

A thread for anyone who’s 11dpo. Mine was a bfn today so kind of counting myself out, anyone else either bfn or bfp? X

So sorry @Donnat89 but I suppose at least you know for sure. I know everyone says there's always next cycle but it's true. Hope you manage to have a good evening at least

I'm gonna test 2moro morning and be done with it.

Good luck namechanger. This journey is so up and down I’m so glad to have found ladies who are going through it too. I don’t want loads of people knowing in real life because I feel it will put more pressure on. I am seeing my best friend from uni in a couple of weeks and will tell her but other than that I’ll keep quiet.

@Namechanger0800 I'm ok tbh I feel better knowing rather than all the not knowing of the last few days . I know i will get to BFP eventually so whilst it's gutting I'm actually ok and just relived to know !

Good luck for tomorrow I really hope you get your BFP

@peachypetite I agree my best friend and my OH are the only people I will talk to this stuff about as like
You said otherwise it feels like so much pressure . And this thread tbh has been a life saver for me !! So I hope I can talk to you guys again next cycle ! Xxxx

I'm officially out this month now! Congratulations to all the BFPs ladies 😁 and I will see some of you crazy poas bunch next month no doubt! 🙌🏻

@SS123456 bless you one more day and I will be officially out ! And will certainly enjoy catching up next month xxx

@Donnat89 🤞🏻you get your BFP this month, there is still time! If not I'll join you next month 😁

@SS123456 that would be wonderful but doubt it ! Haha yes you will ! Xx

Ffs - just tested again with my second FRER and it's another v faint line although came up just within end of the time limit. You can see it if you shine a torch on it? Def can't on the other one I did on Friday.

But surely if was positive line should be stronger now - am on CD24 and pretty sure ov early so am 13/14dpo??

If it is a positive it's clearly not viable and prob a chemical pg. earlier spotting has vanished completely now.

Not sure what to do now - wait for AF or continue testing ....

Hi @Namechanger0800 that’s so frustrating! But don’t count yourself out yet, you never know. I’m currently on CD28 and forcing myself not to test as I’m so afraid of a BFN. I tested on CD25 and it just upset me as I inevitably got an BFN. It’s so hard to resist the urge but if was you I’d try my best to wait a few days and hopefully your line will get darker and stronger!

@Namechanger0800 maybe wait 2 days and then test again in the morning if still no af. you’re not out until af shows up! Xxx

@Namechanger0800 fingers crossed hun ! I would wait a day or 2 and test again , if AF doesn't show up within a week I would then go doctors and discuss ?

I am patiently waiting for AF due tomorrow ! Just wish it would hurry up this last few days has dragged thankful to be busy at work so least I'm not thinking about it in the day !

Xxx

AF has shown up right on time ! Quite relived ! On to the next cycle now ! Good luck to those still waiting I hope
You get your BFPS ! Xx

Thanks guys - the line is clearer now the test has dried as in you can see it in daylight but is still very faint.

I know you shouldn't read them after the time limit but I now have 3/4 tests showing a faint line and 2/4 of them coming up in the time limit. BUT none of them are very clear at all so to the non crazy just glancing at them they look negative. Day 25 today and no sign of af - am usually 26-28 days so I think it's a waiting game now. No symptoms of af or pg now!

Am out this morning but am going to buy some cheapies and test everyday to see if anything is going darker. Otherwise it's a negative or a chemical pg.

@Donnat89 in a way it's good your AF has come now? At least your cycles are regular and you can move on. In a way I wish mine was here as well.

@Namechanger0800 yes it is in relived means my dates are all correct as has a few cycles it's been off so nice to be on time!

Good luck with your tests I hope they keep getting darker ! X

Thanks - have done another yesterday and BFN but again can see the line outside of timeframe. Wondering it it's actually evaporation lines I'm seeing! Gonna do another now

@Namechanger0800 ohhh that's so annoying , I had this the other day and I'm definitely not pregnant . Fingers crossed 🤞 keep us updated ! Xxx

Thanks just done another cheapie and negative but again can see a shadow where the live should be - no colour though so I think they've all either been evap/ line eyes or possibly a chemical pg but the FRER is much more sensitive than the other tests so should have been positive if the other lines were picking up a pg - the other ones are detecting at 25.

I think I've gone crazy though shining torches and examining them 12 hours after doing etc so am prob seeing where the line would be? Anyway this isn't healthy so I have bagged up all the tests I've done and chucked them in bin as I keep going back and looking for lines trying to work out if there's colour there or not. None of them look positive at a brief glance so have decided that's my answer.

Have a bit more spotting so am now hoping period comes by the weekend.

And i am promising myself not to test unless I'm actually late as have been awful all week!!

@Namechanger0800 I know how you feel I was exactly the same last week ! It's horrible !

I have sworn I'm not doing any early tests this cycle ! My AF should be finished by Sunday so planning plenty of romance this cycle haha !

Hopefully you have a definite answer soon xxx