11dpo thread 🧡

[Sparkle2020]

A thread for anyone who’s 11dpo. Mine was a bfn today so kind of counting myself out, anyone else either bfn or bfp? X

@Namechanger0800 thank you! Sorry for you too if yours is af. Do you know by the way, I read that there’s always 14 days between ov and af so if period is late you ovulated late, does that mean if period is early you ovulated earlier than you thought too? Cause I’m 3 days early :/

Hi Sparkle yes I think that is correct. xx

I'm not sure about it always being 14 days but I'm pretty sure I ov on CD9 going by how I felt and I have had positive opks before when feeling that way. That being said it'll still be early if comes soonish. I'm usually 26-28 days still with early ov on day 9 or 10

Pretty sure it's af - I do spot like this before a period and when pg not had any spotting in 2ww

Wish I could just chill about all this!

Looks like I'm out, AF has just shown up 😩. Good luck ladies! 😁🤞🏻

Awww ladies thinking of you all and big hugs but least you can get back to trying .

I wish mine would show up tbh , back ache seems to have gone tonight but very very dry down there sorry for the TMI . Which usually mean AF is due any day . Also skin starting to get a little break out .

No signs of cramps yet .

Still half heartedly hoping my tests where correct but don't want to get my hopes up to much .

Xxxxx

Just did a negative test.

@peachypetite when is AF due ? Xxxx

Hi girls hope you don't mind me joining! Been trying over 4 years!
Have been getting the v v v faint lines for 2 days now, I'm thinking it's just faulty tests , 10dpo today!
Also I did get bit of blood when I wiped yesterday sorry tmi

Hi Donna it’s due tomorrow, but twsted with a FRER so definitely not pregnant. Also cramps have just started kicking in again. Just had a little cry. This whole process is exhausting and mentally draining. Have you tested again today?

@bethj123 four years - have you been referred for testing? Is that a pregnancy test in your photo?

@peachypetite yes next step is ivf for me! Yes it's a pregnancy test x

@peachypetite no I haven't tested again I'm trying to hold out until Tuesday day before AF is due .

I would say FRER is reliable enough but I'm
Not sure I trust them anymore !

I'm literally just sitting and waiting for me period to come I've decided to ignore the tests and treat them as negative until I'm proved otherwise

@bethj123 I can see very very faint line maybe test with another test in a few days .

Xxxx

My af is so so bad I ended up in hospital last night as I was in so much pain I threw up and was curled up on the floor for hours. and have to go in for scans cause they think I have endometriosis. Would explain a lot really.

I think that test is probably negative as I had a lot of dodgey one steps recently :( good luck though!

Anyone else testing today?

Oh my god sparkle. Hope they get to the bottom of it quickly.

@peachypetite thank you! Me too. Tbf it’s probably a good thing as I’ve often had painful periods that I have to miss work for and I just thought it was the norm but apparently not 🧐

Definitely not Normal and could well be endometriosis

@Sparkle2020 how awful I hope
You are on the mend now and at least they are looking into it and they can help you soon

I feel very very down :(

@Donnat89 thank you! Yes actually makes me feel a bit more hopeful as it may explain why I’ve struggled and may fix things

@peachypetite aw no! Talk to us, we’re all in the same boat! How you feeling?

I just didn’t expect it to be this hard. I think it’s the not knowing too which is tough, who knows if it could be next month, the one after or months down the line and still nothing. And if a negative pregnancy isn’t enough you then have all the shit that comes with your period to make you feel even worse. I just feel very teary, need to pull myself together.

@peachypetite it's horrible isn't it I feel you . I feel like my emotions have been ripped apart last few days and I'm still non the wiser I'm literally sitting waiting for AF now and it's horrible I just want it over I go from being hopeful to being sad to being angry . Like you said it's just the not knowing if someone said to me it will happen in June I could deal with that but I hate the thought of going through this month after month.

@Sparkle2020 yes hopefully it will put your mind at rest a bit and you will get some answers soon .

I really do feel for you all . We are all in the same boat

Xxxxx

Yesterday I had two social events and all involved a lot of babies. Probably hasn’t helped anything. A lot of my friends got pregnant so quickly after their weddings too, I feel like I’ll be the one that struggles. I am going to force myself to go the gym later.

@peachypetite yes it's hard when you have situations like that . So I get why you feel so crappy . How long have you been TTC for ? Xxx

@Sparkle2020 I picked up one of those answer tests today . Had a read about them they are 20 miu like most the others so not great for early testing like FRER which is 6.3miu

But like you said do look exactly like FR just not as sensitive

Hope you are Oki hun try to test as much as possible xxxxx

@peachypetite I totally feel you. Hey if you’re using the gym as a distraction I do that too, it does help sometimes doesn’t it. Such a shit feeling though. How many cycles did you say you’re onto again?

@Donnat89 oh really! Ahhh i see, maybe the they’re the same as the fast first responses then! Have you had any positives today?