Anyone looking for a friend

[Sammiantha2020]

Hi Ladies, any of you out there around cd 8 looking for someone to chat with during the rollercoaster ride that is ttc? A lot of my friends already have kids and I’m feeling a bit left behind. xo

@Sammiantha2020 I honestly don't know how us women do this everything month! For me this cycle has been the worse. Im CD22 and due af on the 28th. My cycle is the same as you usually 30/31 day. I use the green opks from amazon which I find really good well I did last month when I got the positive opk. This month nothing. Can i ask when you usually ovulate? Do you ovulate the same time every cycle?

I always get af exactly 14 days after I ov, last month I had a 33 day cycle & ov’d cd 19, then this month I ov’d cd 12...so guessing I’m due af on Thurs. Not sure if I’m a good example though as my body might still be going a bit mental.
I’m 100% fed up...I’m not sure how we do it either 😔 x

@Jenna30ttc yeah it's a nightmare waiting and not having a clue what is going on.

@Sammiantha2020 @Wintergal without sounding patronising we must be fucking angels to keep doing this to ourselves 😂. I hope we all get some good news soon x

I am with you we all deserve good news soon

Do you ever think if we just gave up... it might just happen if relaxed? Sometimes I wonder if being too stressed messes with us x

Yeah I did wonder that too! And am ground now to be a little more relaxed about it if that's possible

I’m feeling more & more stressed each cycle... I’m defo going to try being a bit more relaxed during my next...anyone with me? Tho obv I’d much rather you ladies got BFP’s this month ☺️ x

@Sammiantha2020 @Wintergal definitely! Ive heard a lot people say and read that they got pregnant when they least expected it. But I have no idea how to be relaxed when you also need to know when you are ovulating. My SIL came off the pill In October and got pregnant straightaway and she didn't even track! I would say that's pure luck. So frustrating though when we try so hard. I have been stressed this month so I don't think that helped me this month. 🙄

I am with you! Let's try and keep each other relaxed next cycle!! I've updated my apps (I know last minute) and it's now saying I ovulate last week 16th!

@Jenna30ttc maybe it’s just worth giving up the tracking and dtd every 2nd day after af is finished until like day 20. I’m truly fed up of thinking about it x

Actually no make that the 14th lol

@Wintergal let’s do this! I’m still holding out hope for you tho x

Aw thank you! It may still be your month too! But let's get in the chilled bus together! X

@sammiantha2020 I'm up for that next cycle. 🙌🏽

I honestly don’t think my mind thinks about much else... time to start living again. What’s for us won’t go by us x

Yeah I think it becomes to easy to put all your focus on it! X

Yea I’m done over analysing everything! Here’s to the next, more relaxed cycle! Enjoying time spent with my other half again without worrying about when next to dtd! x

@Sammiantha2020 this ttc has consumed my life for the last three months and I hate it. The relaxed approach is just what I need. On to the next cycle. 😊

@Jenna30ttc yea we can chit chat and more fun things & obv here to ask Q’s along the way/ if we’re having a bad day x

I am liking the sound of this. Sorry to annoy people again this morning I feel so sick and I feel so warm!

@Wintergal how many DPO are you?

Only 7 so I think it's nothing

@Wintergal I think you should test at the end of this wk, sounds promising! Af has arrived for me so a 24 day cycle 🤯 x

Aw that was short but at least you can move on to the next cycle quicker. Yeah I will if am still feeling like this.