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Trying to Concieve 10 ... the LUCKY thread!

729 replies

BeckiF · 15/09/2004 14:14

OK ladies .... here we are. Forgive my upset and tears, just struggling at the moment. Another bfn this morning

Anyway ... we MUST have gradulates beofre Christmas and one of them HAS to be me!!

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ebbie22 · 26/09/2004 10:53

yeah,so that makes me think if i did it once i can do it again...Its doing my head in as I dont want to waste anybodys time if i should just wait but dont want to keep leaving it...Has anybody been in a same suituation?

MrsWednesday · 26/09/2004 11:26

Ebbie22, I haven't been in your situation but if I was, after 8 months I'd be going to see the doctor. That might be because I'm a very impatient person though - 8 months seems long enough to me.

I think doctors prefer couples to have been trying for a year before they do anything - is there any chance you could fib a bit?

Tania2 · 26/09/2004 11:31

Tessiebear the answer to your question about if you can convieve when you have endo it YES i did it took a very long time though. i have been told though that if you have treatment that it helps. i suppose the only thing that iam concerned about is that my tubes may be blocked but the chinese herbs iam taking is meant to help that and i have found that they are helping with the uncomfortable ache that i have always had in the past. Had some bleeding today but only when dh and i had an afternoon quicky while ds was sleeping had nothing since only 2 more days to wait till af arrives dont feel anything this month only that i got pissed quickly last night and iam a little tired. who knows fingers crossed.

cp3 · 26/09/2004 18:51

Well af due today and no show as yet, but it will cos ive been ravenous the past few days and eaten everything i can lay my hands on which i usually do before my af.Ive even worn white trousers to help it along

Hope everyone is ok

Cobweb · 26/09/2004 19:04

Hi girls, had a good party

I managed to avoid the alcohol issue because everyone got drunk so quickly that I could hide what I was drinking and most of the time I served myself. Was drinking very weak Archers and lemonade and when everyone got drunk I switched straight to lemonade

Told my DH this morning that I was late and we got a test on the way home from Tescos which I did this afternoon. Well there is such a faint pink dot that now its made me unsure.

The Unichem one that I did last Thursday and was the first wee of the morning was a definate blue postive line.

What do you think?

Worried Cobweb xxx

Whimsy · 26/09/2004 19:06

Ebbie22, I am sort of in your position I only have one ovary and tube due to a very large cyst in 2000 and having it removed. I was told that it wouldn't affect my fertility. We had been trying since 1998 that's how they found the cyst. Nothing was happening and we were told it was unexplained infertility. We eventually conceived DS through IUI, but have been told we should be able to conceive no 2 without treatment. We've been trying 6mths.

cp3 · 26/09/2004 19:07

Dont fret Cobweb thats two +'s youve had. You got any symptoms yet?

ChaCha · 26/09/2004 19:29

Evening Tessiebear and Tania2,

They say that a pregnancy is the best thing for Endo but unfortunately the Endo is the cause of infertility in most of us. It's a vicious circle. My osteopath has me on a wheat free diet and have been trying that now for some time, hopefully with good diet, no caffeine and another op i will be in with a chance. Fingers crossed xx

Good luck to all waiting to test

Cobweb · 26/09/2004 19:41

CP3 well I have sore boobs and feel sicky, but not sure if that is all in my mind or the start of AF as the symptoms can be so similar.

I know I shouldn't be so negative, its just I am so scared of another failure and its torture.

Thanks babe xxx

cp3 · 26/09/2004 19:51

But Cobweb you must be pregnant mind you i was sceptical when first fell with ds. Two weeks later i couldnt keep a thing down and heaved at any smell sweet or sour and was scepital no more.

What do you want to do? Another test? If its any help mine were always faint no matter how much i tested and i tested loads, How about you go to the docters tomorrow and put your mind at rest. This worrying wont be good for you or baby Look ive turned into your mother now

childmindersam · 26/09/2004 19:55

OK im just adding myself on here as a goodluck thing! HAve been trying for over a year and had blood test to find out why i hadnt concieved which showed i was actually pregnant! Unfortunately had a mc at 7 weeks in july. Am starting to move on and have decided to try again! Atleast me and my dh know we can concieve now!

cp3 · 26/09/2004 20:09

This has been a lucky thread so far with three graduates this month i think and quite a few either ov ing at mo or waiting to test or a bit late like me.

Goodluck to you childmindersam, ill def watch out for you to see how you get on.Are you trying this month or leaving it a bit longer yet?

Wifeof · 26/09/2004 20:19

AF today
(but had a lovely weekend )

childmindersam · 26/09/2004 20:20

Did say that i didnt want to try this month but that seems to have had a reverse psychology effect on my dh who has found his sex drive again! Lucky me. If it happens it happens.

cp3 · 26/09/2004 20:24

Sorry wifeof, Hope your ok. .

Cobweb · 26/09/2004 20:32

Hugs to Wifeof and Childmindersam xxx

CP3 thanks for being an ear tonight +++hugs+++

I think I am going to re-test tomorrow and see what happens. I wish I hadn't used the one today and waiting till the morning.

What I will do is buy a double test and do one tomorrow and if I am unsure probably wait a few days and do the other one later in the week xxx

childmindersam · 26/09/2004 20:33

thanx all!

Twiga · 26/09/2004 20:42

{{{hugs}}} Childmindersam and wifeof.

Cobweb, you can't get a false positive so you're definately pg. Try not to worry too much and if you do post on here, we're all here for you . Take care of yourself x

Threads been busy over the weekend, welcome to anyone who's new, and if you've got a public holiday tomorrow (it's maybe just an Aberdeen thing?) - enjoy!

Twiga · 26/09/2004 20:43

Has anyone heard from Cyndii? She was posting on tcc..9

ebbie22 · 26/09/2004 22:15

Best of luck to you chilmindersam,fingers crossed that you will be lucky...
Cp3 has a.f appeared yet?
Thank you for all the advice you have given me still think i should just wait...
Whimsy I too had a large cyst,was yours left or right..Are you ok now?

Tania2 · 26/09/2004 23:53

Iam going to say it cobweb Congratulations as they say you cant get a false positive.
welcome newbies hope you get lucky on this thread.
CD 27 today no sign of af yet not used to having no signs that i cant read into being pg well just have to wait till tomorrow if no af in the morning i will test!!!! ohh that just made me nervous but you watch i will test get a BFN and boom af arrives. anyone else close to testing yet?

Tania2 · 27/09/2004 06:52

Bugger Bugger Bugger af just arrived a day early. started to feel alittle crampy been going to the loo all day checking and boom just like that well at least she didn't keep me waiting now i have to hope its a heavy one according to my natrapath it means you release more eggs if heavy she is expecting this one should be heavy cause of the herbs. oh well just means that i can have drinks at best friends wedding and not feel bloated and fat in my bridesmaid dress. shit there goes another month b4 i know it it will be a yr ttc feeling really down just want to cry. cant beat myself up over it didnt really think it could happen this month only started the fertility herbs last week here's to next month.

Hulababy · 27/09/2004 08:19

Tania

I had another temperature rise today (second running) so looks like I may have OV'd on CD 17 or 18 approx. Not expecting anything on this first month, but I bet next two weeks really drag on!

cp3 · 27/09/2004 08:58

Hula you know you need to bd just before that temp rise dont you?

No af for me yet Ebbie but not gonna test till a week late as sick of seeing that bfn line.

Sorry to hear your news Tania and im sure you will look lovely at your friends wedding. What are these herbs you are on, ive never heard of fertitity herbs [dunb expression]

cp3 · 27/09/2004 08:59

[dumb expression] even