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TTC buddies needed DESPERATELY thread 2

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dizzy85 · 20/05/2019 14:02

@MrsB899 hope you don't mind I started a new thread as went to reply on the last one and it seems to have hit the limit on 1000 posts 😆

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LuciBee · 28/05/2019 14:56

I’m a bit confused... past couple of days I’ve had ewcm whic is usually my sign for ovulation, but af has only just gone and im only on cd10... I think I’ll do an opk when I get home and see what comes up. I’ve had it for like 3 days so if I have ov’d early I bet I’ve bloody missed it.

Just seems really odd and early?! CONFUSED!

20TinkerBell20 · 28/05/2019 16:32

Just dtd from tonight if you can anyway. Let us know what the OPK says, you may still be in luck!!!
I’ve been got period pains so I feel like I’m out now. Bet AF comes later today 😢

Robbo93 · 28/05/2019 20:20

@20TinkerBell20 yes going by my last few cycles it appears I have a short LP which is something I'm going to have to look at I suppose

I do usually spot a little bit before AF comes so assume she'll arrive in the morning, CD34 😭 I came off the pill in January and although I know it's still early days I am still thinking the worst and thinking I'll never get pregnant 😪 x

Karlzburg · 28/05/2019 20:20

Hope I'm okay to join. Am a newbie to this, aged 26, 1st time ttc on my 3rd cycle from stopping the pill.
Currently enduring AF last day today fingers crossed then another 7 days until predicted ovulation.
Just looking to share this experience with others as none of my close friends are anywhere near ttc & don't know who to talk to.
Didn't realise how much I wanted this until big ole AF arrived in the early hours of Sunday morning Sad was so upset.
Looking on the bright side am able to enjoy my birthday celebrations with an alcoholic beverage Wine& thinking positive that maybe June is conception month for us!
Looking at another 24 days of waiting until AF appears or does not appear Angry frustrating but nowt to do in the meantime except swi haha.
Any tips and advice are welcome as I'm just getting started, thank you in advance ladies Smile x

LuciBee · 28/05/2019 20:20

Negative opk... 🤔

I’ll just dtd every other day and keep doing the opks I guess!

LuciBee · 28/05/2019 20:23

Hey @Karlzburg welcome to the madness! I came off pill in January too, TTC #2. I’m on cycle 4.

Are you doing ovulation tests?

Karlzburg · 28/05/2019 20:36

Thanks  @LuciBee Smile no I'm not at the moment, I'm trying to not obsess too much over it as the only advice I have been given is to not try too hard else it won't happen. so with that in mind I'm just focusing on dtd on and around predicted ovulation times (and whenever we can all cycle) just to cover the bases. May get worn out doing it that way and end up testing if I can't keep it up though lol, I shall let you know how I get on!
Got myself on the seven seas supplements & not drinking alcohol or coffee much or at all if possible.
Would love to share this experience with a friend but everyone's ready at different times, just turned out to be me first!
So here I am, trying to learn the lingo etc haha, think I'm getting the hang of it though.

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dizzy85 · 28/05/2019 21:50

@20TinkerBell20 fingers crossed for you that af doesn't show up!

@LuciBee definitely sounds like your bodies gearing up for ovulation, get busy dtd 😆

@Robbo93 I'm 8dpo too! I've also been spotting a little bit, not as much as I normally do but it's still early yet. It makes me feel that I'm out but trying to remain positive 🙂Are you planning to test or just wait and see?

@Karlzburg Welcome! Wishing you luck! I'm ttc my first too.

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Robbo93 · 28/05/2019 21:54

@dizzy85 I want to, but in reality I know it's AF 😐 just waiting to rear her head 😭😭

20TinkerBell20 · 28/05/2019 21:54

So that’s me out guys. Absolutely gutted. I honestly felt like this was it this month. I felt completely different and that wasn’t me doing the typical symptom spotting. Sorry for the TMI but I’ve had some odd looking clots too which aren’t normal for me 🙁

Robbo93 · 28/05/2019 21:56

Oh no @20TinkerBell20 that's awful!
I was thinking this was gonna be my month too but obvs not!

🤞for next cycle! Xx

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dizzy85 · 28/05/2019 22:18

@20TinkerBell20 oh nooo ☹️ how frustrating I'm really sorry. X

@Robbo93 Ahh hopefully not🤞🏻. Let us know what happens x

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LuciBee · 29/05/2019 08:13

Negative opk for me this morning, going to just keep doing them now until I see a positive! I’ve got loads! Lol.

Gutted for you @20Tinkerbell20 😔

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dizzy85 · 29/05/2019 15:42

Good plan @LuciBee hopefully it comes soon! We need to get some bfps on this thread ☺️🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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Coffeeandcake1 · 29/05/2019 16:02

Hi all, joining in this thread as have been ttc for 7 cycles now and have had a couple of chemical pregnancies and an early miscarriage, am so hoping this might be the month that it happens and sticks around.
Im only 9dpo but I have just tested and I think I can see the faintest of lines, anyone else?

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LuciBee · 29/05/2019 16:05

Hey @Coffeeandcake1 i think i can see that too! That's what my first BFP looked like! Do another one tomorrow and see if it's any darker! Fingers Crossed!

Sophieb15 · 29/05/2019 16:37

Can I Join in? I'm currently 10DPO 5th Month TTC. I think I had an implantation bleed at 8DPO but cramping and backache today so I think I'm out already :(

Robbo93 · 29/05/2019 18:29

AF has arrived for me 😪 9/10 DPO. But it's incredibly light.

Spoke to my doctor today about my short LP and he isn't of any concern and told me everyone is different and to stop reading the internet 😹 makes me feel a little bit better anyway lol xx

LuciBee · 29/05/2019 20:33

Hey @Sophieb15 ☺️

@Robbo93 sorry af got you. I’ve been having a short LP too. Literally 9/10dpo I start spotting and that’s me out.

Robbo93 · 29/05/2019 20:36

Cheers @LuciBee .. I was starting to panic it was a problem but the doctor has reassured me it's not a problem so 🤞 for next time xx

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dizzy85 · 29/05/2019 20:54

@Robbo93 I'm really sorry about af ☹️x

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dizzy85 · 29/05/2019 20:58

@Coffeeandcake1 welcome and congratulations I can also see a very faint line, fingers crossed for you 😊

@Sophieb15 welcome! Wishing you luck 🤞🏻 I'm 9dpo so around the same time😊

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20TinkerBell20 · 29/05/2019 21:05

@robbo93 my AF is the same it’s light brown spotting and it was last month too. Not sure what that is about?
@coffeeandcake1 congratulations keep us updated. When will you test again?
@Sophieb15 welcome.....do you still have back ache etc. Fingers crossed for you.

Kinsella82 · 29/05/2019 21:20

Welcome @Sophieb15 this is my fifth cycle too. 4dpo at the moment.

@Coffeeandcake1 fingers crossed!!!

@Robbo93 so sorry to hear this. Hope you're ok :( xx

Robbo93 · 29/05/2019 21:46

@20TinkerBell20 no mine starts off like that and then changes to a very faint pink (teases me thinking implantation...) then the intense red comes 😐 heading into cycle 5 for me now!

Thanks @dizzy85, I had a good feeling about this month & was thinking a Feb baby would be the one!

Here we go again 😢 I don't want to sound mean etc but I really despise these people who fall pregnant by accident 👎🏻 I never knew it would be like this .. I was so ignorant about it all!! Xx

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