TTC buddies needed DESPERATELY thread 2

[dizzy85]

@MrsB899 hope you don't mind I started a new thread as went to reply on the last one and it seems to have hit the limit on 1000 posts 😆

@20TinkerBell20 I'm not quite sure TBH. I came off the pill in January (which I never had periods on) & had my first reallllllllly heavy bleed 5.5 weeks later. Had another realllllllly heavy bleed 30ish days later at the beginning of March and then pretty light but consistent (28-32ish day) bleeds ever since... not sure what cycle this makes me?

Was January cycle 1? Or February after my first bleed? 🥴 also didn't really 'try' in March or April as preferred not to have a December/January baby if we could help it 🤣

Also having a short LP after my 'surge' of around 9/10 days .. unsure whether I'm still adjusting to coming off the pill etc but my doctor isn't concerned so I suppose I shouldn't be 😐

As I'm TTC#1 I just panic in case there is a fertility issue that we're unaware of ... but I know in the grand scheme of things we're still early days.

What's your situation? Sorry for the essay x

OK I’ve officially gone mental... I was 6dpo yesterday and on both 5 and 6 dpo kept getting waves of nausea. So the crazy person that I am decided to test at 6dpo. Oddly enough a vvvvvvvv.faint line came up on an IC, even my DH saw it. It was a super squinter though. I did another I one this morning and nothing.

I even know it’s physically impossible to get a bfp at 6dpo, but then why did that faint line come up?! And now nothing!

Can I join ladies ?

Ttc number 4 at nearly 35. My cycles are all over the place since coming off depo shot a year ago.
Baby dust to everyone x

@LuciBee could the v. faint line have been evap? It wouldn't be positive at 6DPO.

Hi and welcome @AcesHigh666. Number 4? Wow :)

Thanks !

@dizzy85 @Kinsella82 how are you feeling? I got my scan and blood test appointment through today. So excited I could burst. I'm sitting on my hands trying to do another digital before Monday haha

@MrsB899 so exciting you got the appt!
I'm feeling ok! Still getting the odd cramp and boobs are hurting now. Hurting to lie on my front now.
Still haven't told anyone apart from dh. Which is hard as I spent the day with my Mam today and feels like I'm lying haha!

Afternoon everyone! Hope your all doing good!

@MrsB899 ahh yay how exciting!! Do you have to wait long? Is this the early scan one? I'm still waiting to hear. I'm doing good apart from I have massive mood swings going on my poor OH 🤣 I'm gonna do a digital Tuesday. How are you feeling? Are you having any symptoms?
@Kinsella82 we've not told anyone yet either it's so hard! How are you feeling?

@dizzy85 @Kinsella82 I have an early scan that we booked privately on the 26th June our 12 week scan is 26th July and my bloods are 19th June. I'm so excited. I'm going to do a clear blue again tomorrow and hope it says 3+. I feel I'm really ive been a bit snappy and my boobs are still sore other than that I feel quite good

@Squiff70 yeah must have been an evap. It’s just turned me into a mental person now though. I’ve convinced myself that I am. Had some right sided cramps today. And past few days I’ve had loads of cm and it usually disappears during the tww. Also keep feeling sick and as soon as I eat something I’m good again. I can feel the disappointment already 😔

Hope all the preggos are good, sounds like you are!

I caved 🥳🥳

@MrsB899 🥳 that's great to see!! I might do mine tomorrow or do you think it's too early did the last one last Tuesday? Not long to wait for the scan then😊I might convince the OH we should get one.

@LuciBee how many DPO are you now? i hope this is your month x

Mine was 2-3 last Monday I still can't bloody believe it I'm so excited

@MrsB899 that's fantastic!

I'm 4/5 DPO and going to test next Sunday when I'll be 11/12 DPO. Hoping to surprise DP on Father's Day with a BFP but equally trying so hard not to get my hopes up

Delighted for you @MrsB899 !

I did another IC this morning and a nice dark line appeared almost instantly! I don't think I'll get another digital one now.

I told my best friend/sister in law today. She cried. I cried! It was so nice! So glad I've told her now. But that'll be it for a while!!

@Kinsella82 Aww how lovely. I've told one of my work friends. More because there is some lifting etc involved at work and I'm always on shift with her it's so nice when people are happy for you. I'm really bricking telling my sister in law

@MrsB899 I'm bricking telling my other sister in law as she had an early miscarriage in early May. So to her it might look like she just had a mc and we decided to have a baby as she doesn't know we have been TTC since Xmas. We plan to tell her in person before anyone else in the family so hopefully she will be ok.

@MrsB899 @Kinsella82 I know how you feel there, I have a few people I'm scared to tell because of similar reasons. But I'm also really excited to tell my sisters and family but just wanna check with the scan first, we've been trying since Christmas too and nobody has any idea so it's gonna be a fun reveal 😊. @MrsB899 when it comes to the lifting and stuff, I have quite a physical job I have to carry stuff up and down stairs a lot do you think I should say to my boss? I'm not sure how easy I should be taking it as this is all new to me.

@dizzy85 I'm going to be careful what patients I roll if they're a dead weight I won't do them I haven't told my boss yet I've just told the girls I work with that I've hurt my back except the one that knows I'm pregnant.
@Kinsella82 my sister in law and brother had to have ivf to get their only son and they desperately want another. They got pregnant naturally a few months ago but she miscarried and I don't think they'll be happy for me in the slightest

@MrsB899 I got my midwife appointment letter through today ☺️ feeling more real now!! it's for the 19th July, is this where they do the bloods do you know or do I get another one for that?

@dizzy85 I'm not sure. I got sent a blood form with an appointment and then a separate scan appointment and then another follow up appointment. I've still not had any news about booking in with a midwife though

@MrsB899 ah ok, maybe I'll get some other stuff in the post soon too. I'm doing my other digital in the morning, scared but excited too😬😄

@dizzy85 you'll be fine

I did the second digital! I was surprised it says 3+ as a week ago it said 1-2 so I was expecting it to say 2-3 🤷‍♀️

@dizzy85 so exciting!