TWW

[ale2992]

Anyone else in TWW? I'm 2Dpo and waiting is killing me!

So I've started spotting this morning...

@ale2992 what a worry for you. Some spotting in early pg can be normal though so don't give up hope just yet. I'll keep my fingers crossed that everything is ok.

@Aria2015 yes I rang epu and they said that but it may be a chemical x

Spotting is getting worse, also have done a test and it's come back negative. Looks like this isn't my month after all 😞👎🏻

@ale2992 I'm so sorry to hear this . I really hope it happens for you soon xx

I'm so angry

@ale2992 that's completely normal. I felt the same after my losses. Sadly there is no logic or fairness to who has a miscarriage and who doesn't. It just plain sucks and I'm so sorry you're going through this.

@Aria2015 don't know what I'm going to do this month re trying. I may not track and just go with the flow

@ale2992 it might be worth tracking. My one successful pregnancy happened straight after a miscarriage. This board is filled with stories of women falling pregnant straight after a loss. I believe it's because you're meant to be more fertile. I know it's hard to muster the emotional energy though. Good luck whatever you decide.

@Aria2015 yes I know, I don't seem to have a problem with getting pregnant just staying pregnant,as I had my miscarriage in Dec from getting pregnant first cycle and then this was my first month of trying after miscarriage but has resulted it a chemical

@Aria2015 just mean I may not track with opks just my apps and dtd a lot. My partner and has booked himself an appointment with his doctor to get himself checked out and I'm hoping to do the same.
I think he thinks it's him though a son have a son from a previous relationship. He won't admit that to me though I doubt.

Anyone anymore info or advice on going to a doctor about miscarriage or struggling to conceive. We've been trying since September 18 with 1 miscarriage and 1 chemical during that time.

@ale2992 I've been in your shoes. My first pregnancy I got pregnant first time but had a Mmc at 11 weeks and then waited a few months to try and they when I did, I got pregnant second cycle and had another mmc at 7 weeks but then I got pregnant straight away again (no period in between) with my only successful pregnancy. It took such an emotional toll, you have my full sympathy. I suppose you have to do what feels right and if you feel like you need a break, take one. Best of luck and so sorry you're going though this x

@ale2992 one more thing, I did take baby aspirin after the second loss. Not sure if it made the difference? I'm taking it now but it's way too early to tell if this pregnancy is going to be viable. Maybe speak to your Dr about it? There are lots of studies that show it can help women who have had miscarriages. My doctors attitude was 'it couldn't hurt' so I started taking it straight after the second loss so was on it when I got pregnant with my one successful pregnancy.

@Aria2015 yes I have heard of baby aspirin but don't know much about what it exactly is. I have some supplements I've heard good things about that I'm thinking of ordering and trying this month.

Is it normal to have spotting week after a chemical pregnancy? Bleeding stopped last Thursday after starting last Monday, I don't normally have spotting between af.

Not sure if anyone is still following? Been an anxious mess since my bfp 3 weeks ago. Had an early scan today and sadly the pregnancy isn't viable. Not sure what this means for me now. I've had 4 pregnancies and now 3 losses and I don't think I have it in my to risk another loss. I think I might just spend my time trying to get used to idea of having an only child and enjoy all that comes with it. Good luck to all you other ladies. Baby dust to all of you.

@Aria2015 I'm feeling like this also after my chemical and miscarriage. I just feels like it's not happening doesn't it.
I'm sorry to hear your sad news, it's truly not fair