TTC #1 thread 1 2019

[Waiting2bMum]

Hi Ladies,

Thought it would be good to start a 2019 support thread for all of us who are trying to conceive. Any one welcome, please join!
I will start:
Age: 26
TTC: baby no.1
Trying: 20 cycles with 2 chemical pregnancies
Currently: 2 ww, due on tomorrow with negative HPT's so far

Would be great to hear your stories and support each other along the way. Wishing you all baby dust☺️💐xx

Thanks @TheatreMumma yeah I think as soon as you get that positive test you start thinking about how life will be with a baby, it's hard. I just Hope next times our lucky one XX

@Tryingforno2 I am so so sorry!! I felt really emotional for you when I read that, my heart really goes out to you. We are all here for you whether you want to shout and scream😔😔take care and rest up for a while💖💖thinks of you xxx

Thanks @MrsE95 fingers crossed for you this month! Xx

Awww thank you @Waiting2bMum I'm so so lucky to have a 2 year old Who is a great distraction I don't think it makes it any easier but it just makes you get on with life because you have no choice and I'm actually glad I don't have the chance to sit and mope otherwise I think I would feel a lot worse, how unlucky have the 3 of us been you me and @MrsE95 all bfps at the same time and all resulting in a loss things have got to improve for at least one of us soon 🤞🏻feel lucky to be part of this group it's a great outlet for emotions and great we can all support each other xx

@Tryingforno2 so sorry to hear your news, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you for only good luck. I really believe everything happens for a reason and your perfect time will come and I'm sure it'll be soon

I have been in Australia for a quick 10 day holiday and was meant to fly home on Friday morning however I'm stuck in hospital here as I had extreme abdominal pain, wasn't allowed to board my flight home as they thought it was appendicitis or an ectopic pregnancy but after extensive tests, turns out to be a ruptured ovarian cyst! Waiting to be seen by the gynaecologist team soon but hopefully this means I have ovulated and should see a period soon- all their tests came back for negative pregnancy.

Send better luck to everyone else on this chat

@ChloePD omg what a bunch we all are!! My friend had exactly what you had and she actually fainted with the pain! I'm sorry to hear this and I really hope you get home soon! Xxx

Oh my goodness @ChloePD! What a nightmare! February certainly has been a shocker for many on here! Roll on March and hopefully lots of positivity for everyone ❤️

Hello everyone am I ok to join in? Xx

@Tryingforno2 I know me, you and @MrsE95 have had a rubbish time haven't we! I'm glad that we have all Ben able to support each other through our difficult time. Onwards and upwards. All 3 of us will have our time💖aww bless you, just take it steady though don't other do it xxx
@ChloePD I am so sorry to hear that, must be awful while you are away. Take it steady and I hope you feel better as quickly as possible x
@Hopefulprincess Of course you can welcome😊😊fingers crossed for TTC x

Thank you @tryingforno2.
Where is everyone at in ttc?
This is my first cycle since October that was ‘normal’
I had a mc end sep but was on birth control then my appendix burst 🙈
I got positive opks 18th and 19th morning and not symptom spotting - honest ;)

I’v just read back I see some are having a hard time :( really sorry your going through these things.
Curious as people mentioning pill, which one are you coming off from? In the past 9 months I’v had 2 mc on cerelle (Cerazette?) I thought it was supposed to stop pregnancy and well I stopped taking it completely end Jan had withdrawal bleeding 3 days later for around 4 days then tested opks every day to check for ovulation. I have pcos and it’s never been a problem until this past 12 months, had so many cysts burst which is painful and turns out that pill isn’t ideal for me but doc said it was ok 🤷‍♀️

I think contraception is awful with what it does to our bodies 😓
Congrats on the bfps I’v just seen aswell 😍

There has been loads of bad luck in February! I’m hoping March brings lots of good luck and BFPs with the start of spring. 😁 xx

I agree 🙌🏻 Good luck to all xx

Well my bloods cane back today and have dropped to 15 so that coupled with my other symptoms has now ruled out an ectopic pregnancy. Back on the bd bud for us, we've been talking and we both just really want this and we are just going to keep going, I'm going to pee on an ovulation stick this time every day from when i stop bleeding until I start again and see what this cycle does as I think they can sometimes be a bit messed up after a MC, we will be bd-ing as and when we feel like it but not stressing over it this month.
@MrsE95 @Waiting2bMum how are things with you? Where are you guys up to this cycle? And you @TheatreMumma ?
@Hopefulprincess sorry to hear about your trouble with pcos and best of luck with ttc are you in your 2ww now?? We all turned into crazy ladies during our 2ww last cycle 😂😂 xx

Finally discharged from hospital and waiting for medical clearance to fly home seems as though I ovulated on the 20th (my birthday) and so should expect AF soon (no chance I'm pregnant because of the ruptured cyst).

Hoping the next cycle is good for all of us, good luck to everyone

Glad to hear you're out and relatively ok now @ChloePD.

Welcome @Hopefulprincess! I came off Mercilon in Oct. I've been on bc on and off over the years but have never had a regular cycle. I only had 2-3 periods a year at one point so it genuinely felt like a miracle when I became pregnant with my son!

I'm so glad ectopic has been ruled out @Tryingforno2. A very small comfort. I think you're supposedly more fertile after a mc so maybe that will bring some luck?? I'm on cd 29 with a cycle that currently falls somewhere between 25-34 days so waiting for AF (most likely) any day now...

I've also only just realised that the original thread topic was ttc #1 - hope you don't mind me totally hijacking!! I'll make up for it by answering any questions if I possibly can! 🙈

@TheatreMumma Hahahaha don't be silly!! There was too many threads that had similar titles so I had to put that meaning first thread😂😂we are all in this together now no one is leaving😂😂xx
@ChloePD glad things are better for you! Let us know how you are and your home safely x
@Tryingforno2 bless you, stay strong!! All will be fine😘mine says ovulation today but I'm not tracking or anything this month need a bit of time out xx
@MrsE95 how are you? Are we cycle twins still😂yes we all had a terrible February, roll on the next xxx
@Hopefulprincess that's ok. Yes myself, @MrsE95 and @Tryingforno2 all ended up pregnant the same time but all unfortunately lost our pregnancies😔😔I was on the same pill as you for 11 years had no periods at all in the time. I was awful when I stopped the pill, was really ill and cycles all over the place. It took me 14 months to fall pregnant after stopping the pill, that ended in a miscarriage, then again in November and then again February. Good thing is I'm falling pregnant but they aren't staying😔😔I would suggest taking seven seas folic acid if your cycles are irregular that's what I started then fell pregnant after 2/3 months of taking it. Just haven't had a sticky one yet😬😬xx

Tested this morning and BFN! Think I might be on the March bus! 🚌

@MrsP4 how far away from af are you? Xx

@TheatreMumma I think I've done the same (the clues in my name 😂) oops I've only just realised xx

@Waiting2bMum AF due weds had a tiny bit of spotting yesterday at 11DPO and today 12DPO I went to the loo before and was pink on the tissue when I wiped think its too late for implantation, I feel like I can feel AF there

@MrsP4 I've been told by the gynaecologist that saw me in hospital this week that implantation can happen as late as 12 days so I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you!

@MrsP4 yep implantation is 6-12 days so still defo in with a chance x

@tryingforno2 I’m currently 4dpo and promising myself I’m not going to go crazy this cycle. 😂

@waiting2bmum I’m doing okay thank you just chilling with it really and it feels good not obsessing! 🙈 how are you doing? Xx