TTC #1 thread 1 2019

[Waiting2bMum]

Hi Ladies,

Thought it would be good to start a 2019 support thread for all of us who are trying to conceive. Any one welcome, please join!
I will start:
Age: 26
TTC: baby no.1
Trying: 20 cycles with 2 chemical pregnancies
Currently: 2 ww, due on tomorrow with negative HPT's so far

Would be great to hear your stories and support each other along the way. Wishing you all baby dust☺️💐xx

Does it seem lighter or am I being paranoid?? Xx

@It does look a little bit lighter but I don't think it's anything to worry about, it's still there and very visible still. I think there is variables which might affect it on different test.

I think I can see something @MrsE95

@MrsE95 I see it!! X

@Waiting2bMum it does look lighter but don't forget hcg only doubles every 48/72 hours your wee could have just been a little bit more diluted and there could still be such a small amount of hcg to detect xxx

@meepmoop @Tryingforno2 I think I'm worried because all the cramping has stopped. Do you think that's normal and that some batches are different to others? That's also the first clear blue one iv done xx

Think I am being paranoid yesterday's and today look the same?? Xx

They look the same to me @Waiting2bMum

@meepmoop thanks didn't realise how worrying this would be...don't know how they coped thousands of years ago😂😂xx

Yeah @Waiting2bMum yesterday's and today's look the same, why don't you have a little break from testing for a couple of days for your own sanity! I've had to force myself not to test everyday now otherwise I'm going to drive myself mad xx

@Tryingforno2 I think your right, I need to be strong and not do it. I keep telling myself third time lucky this one will be fine xx

Absolutely I'm just telling myself that if I get a lighter line it doesn't necessarily mean anything in a 2/3 day window so what's the point in worrying myself even more than I already am! Be strong and step away from the tests for a day or 2 xxxxxxx

And ps no cramps are a good thing if you ask me! Sign that everything's calmed down xxx

And! (Sorry 😂) clear blue are defo not as sensitive I only got a strong line on one of those when I was a week late with my little boy xxx

@Tryingforno2 thank you for reassuring me it's really helped. The only symptoms I have today are slightly tender boobs still and a head ache. I'm also 3/4 days away, I don't even like saying the word lol. Hopefully it's burrowed in good and proper that's why the cramps were so bad xxxx

@Waiting2bMum I've had on and off cramps since 6dpo I'm 13 dpo today and last night was the first night I've not had any in bed the only thing I have been getting is a sharp pain when I sneeze which I remember well from being pregnant with my little boy and I believe it's ligament pain as everything starts getting ready to stretch! I think you a right with the burrowing theory implantation cramps can last a good few days xx

@Tryingforno2 aww bless you, we know what it is but we still worry don't we!!🙈🙈xx
@MrsE95 how are you?? Can't wait for you to do a frer I'm getting excited cycle twin!! Xx

@wiating2bmum I’ve started bleeding. 😭😭😭😭😭 it’s far too dark to be period blood and not loads of it just spotting. If I implanted a day or so ago would I get implantation bleeding now? I’m suddenly a lot less sure now. 😭 xx

@MrsE95 how many dpo are you xx

@tryingforno2 14dpo. 😫😫😫 and still only got pain on my right side. Thinking it may be a chemical/early loss 😭😭😭 xx

@MrsE95 is that 14 days since you got a positive ovulation test? Because you actually ovulate approx 36 hours later, Lots of people have implantation bleeding when their period is due and implantation can take 12 days, is the bleeding accompanied by period type cramps - painful ones? Xx

@MrsE95 ahhh nooo!! It might be implantation, is there lots and deffo different to normal?? Xx

@MrsE95 just copied this from google xx hope it it helps I am 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 that it's implantation bleeding you are experiencing xxx

I have had horrendous cramping pains all evening and have just got home and it’s relatively heavy, heavy enough for a light tampon.

My cramps are horrendous though never like AF. But if I’m only implanting now what would explain the cramps on my right side I’ve had since 7/8dpo? 😫😫😫 any idea @waiting2bmum, @tryingforno2? Xx

@MrsE95 if you're unsure whether it's actually your period or implantation hold off using a tampon use a pad instead :-)
I'm. It sure about the early cramping but I do know that I had symptoms 2 days after I'd ovulated when they say it's 'impossible' to get symptoms so early - it's isn't! As soon as you conceive your body knows so maybe it was just getting ready for implantation - I'm not sure :-(
If it's brown blood then that's a good sign if it's bright red it could possibly be AF ohhhh I'm so sorry you are going through this xxxxx

@MrsE95 how are you today? I do t know what was going on yesterday but I couldn't get in here nothing would load😬😬is it af?? Xxx