TTC #1 thread 1 2019

[Waiting2bMum]

Hi Ladies,

Thought it would be good to start a 2019 support thread for all of us who are trying to conceive. Any one welcome, please join!
I will start:
Age: 26
TTC: baby no.1
Trying: 20 cycles with 2 chemical pregnancies
Currently: 2 ww, due on tomorrow with negative HPT's so far

Would be great to hear your stories and support each other along the way. Wishing you all baby dust☺️💐xx

@JessHughes17 I use an app called clue its handy just to get a general idea on things but hopefully you'll get your BFP and won't need it xxx

@JessHughes17 I use the Clue app as well it's not one of the really in depth ones but it gives you a good idea of your cycles and is easy to update basic symptoms etc 😊

Hi all,

Driving myself crazy!! done a test the last two days and BFN I think I too have become a POAS addict!

I'm 8dpo and due AF on Friday. The only symptom ive got is the last couple of days I've had really sore boobs, please stay away AF!!

How many dpo did you all test positive? xx

Oh I'm using Ultra Early Pregnancy Tests from ebay which detects
10 mIU, I know FR is 6.3 mIU but this is pretty close.

☹️ af late and bfn for me even with pink test! Not sure if I should go to doc to get checked out. Missed af Oct-Nov but started new job sept so put it down to that at the time as had af Dec and jan. now another looks like missed af no pregnancy (this month is first month of bd without contraceptive apart from couple of times end Nov just before af) so I’m beginning to worry a bit...

@Lemurville I would go to the doctor just for peace of mind, sorry you're not getting positive results seeing that one line is so disheartening xxxxx

@HayleyD84 I have been using internet cheapies called 'one step' I've had a line on a first response yesterday and today's I posted today's this morning on here and there's defo a line but on the one step I'm getting the faintest of grey lines there's no way I would look at it and think positive - I've googled and there's loads of people saying they didn't get a positive on internet cheapies until well after missed period and they were supposed to be sensitive, I'm sure loads of people have had early positives on certain brands but just thought It might be worth mentioning, it might be worth getting a frer 😌 x

@Lemurville I feel like I can see something very faint? Is there a slight indent or evap line on the test? Maybe that's what I'm seeing x

Evening all, sorry been a bit quiet. So tired today had 3 hours sleep and been up since 3:30am with terrible stomach cramps was quite scary, they eased off about 6am but couldn't settle now I just feel really down might be because I'm tired and hormones acting silly. Still being positive though that this one will stay☺️☺️xx

Tryingforno2 I know the feeling, it's hard to get excited isn't it. Iv had 2😔but we will be fine xx
@MrsE95 I bet you will be tempted in the morning😂😂xx
@JessHughes17 welcome☺️☺️fingers crossed for you. That's how mine started shooting pains in boobs and vagina🙈don't worry nothing is tmi x
@HayleyD84 that all sounds like positive symptoms fingers crossed!! I was 9dpo but we are all different xx
@Lemurville sorry you had a negative, could you have ovulated late? Xx

@waiting2bmum oh no I’m very sorry! Keep being positive and I’ve got a good feeling about this one I’m sure it’ll stick!

So absolutely NO sign of AF so far! I have been feeling sick all day so much so that I could only stomach peas and sweet corn and a bit of jelly at lunch and continued having the weird cramps again. Feeling positive! Also done lots of readings about ladies getting late BFPs. 😁🎉

Also one of my students told me I he thought I was pregnant so surely that’s a sign. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂 xx

@MrsE95 you know your body and all the symptoms you've been having sound soooooooo positive! Each day AF stays away is a win and I just have a feeling that you're going to get that bfp I really do! Xx
@Waiting2bMum every little cramp I get I'm like oh no :-( it's so hard not to be scared isn't it xx

@Waiting2bMum oh really, you had those pains too? The pain in my bobs is a shooting pain but the pain in my vagina is like a real dull ache. Is that similar to what you had? Xxxx

Fingers crossed for you @HayleyD84 and @MrsE95 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Thank you @JessHughes17.

@waiting2bmum when I was pregnant with my son, I had horrific cramps for about 4-5 weeks, they got so bad I would be crippled over, I went to EPU and they wasn't worried at all. They just suddenly stopped when I was 8 weeks gone. Was very strange but all was ok. Fingers crossed for you xxxxxxxx

Still no AF and weird cramping on right side has reappeared and boobs have got really sore again. 🤞🙏

@MrsE95 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻😬 when are you next testing xx

@tryingforno2 I think I’m going to use cheapies in the morning then if no AF Thursday morning I’ll use FRER then. 😬

I keep panicking when I go to the toilet today (which has been loaaadddsss which is strange because I’m usually really good at holding my bladder) to check if AF has come. It’s driving me mad. 😂 xx

Omg @MrsE95 I can totally understand with the checking for AF it's torture! Don't be too disheartened if you don't get a line on a cheapie thought there's still barely anything there on mine! Nowhere near as good a line as I got on frer xx

@tryingforno2 Never been so bloody terrified to go to the loo before 😂😂 and yeah the cheapies are rubbish aren’t they?! I don’t really expect to see anything I’m just feeding my POAS addiction tomorrow and hoping that if I test again on Thursday I’ve given it a day or two for my hcg to rise enough to show on an FRER already. 🙈🙈 xx

I know I keep cramping but I have been on and off since 6dpo but keep panicking 🙄 😢
Yeah the internet cheapies are a bit rubbish but I'm the same I've got poas addiction and if I used a frer every time I'd probably be homeless by now 😂 I'm keeping everything crossed for you! I'm on the edge of my seat for you so you must be going out your mind! Xx

I know what you mean! Part of me is like naaahhh it’s just AF cramps you’re being crazy then another part of me is like nope this is definitly not AF this is really different. I guess it is all about trusting your body and I 100% know something is not right...

And yep me too! 😂 I am going a little mad but luckily I have a very supportive husband who is being very understanding and encouraging. 💖

Keep reading stories of woman not getting there BFP for days and days after AF is due. Honestly do not know what I’d do if that’s the case. 😫😂 xx

I've not even told my hubby to be yet! I am waiting until next week after the disappointment of last time don't want to get him all excited and then break his heart again :-( he would kill me if he knew I was hiding it but I need to see a dark line and let it sink in first!
I think you will see a line on a frer on Thursday! You know what's normal for you! Let me know what the cheapie says tomorrow! Xx

@mrse95 that would be me!

Good morning ladies, please tell me I’m not the only one seeing this. 🤞🙏🤞🙏🤞🙏

@JessHughes17 yes I had all of that so fingers crossed for you!! Let us no!! Xx
@HayleyD84 thanks for that, that has reassured me just slightly worries as they have all stopped now xx
@MrsE95 I think I can see it!!🤞🏻🤞🏻xx

A bit worried today, my frer seems lighter then the others has anyone had this? I also did a clear blue early detection and can see the line on that too. Should they be getting darker each day?? Xx