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February Bus?!

402 replies

PinkFizz19 · 05/01/2019 16:22

Hello all

Thought I'd start a February bus thread (sorry if there is one I've not seen). AF caught me off guard today after being 4 days late and hoping we'd caught lucky first time.

Statistics:
33, TTC 1, Cycle 2, CD 1

Came off the pill November so now I've had my first proper AF I think I may try OPKs this month.

Baby dust to everyone xxx

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Claireb2203 · 17/01/2019 19:44

@veeboo yes I have! Oh that explains it then 😂. Last night I dreamt a vicar rode a penny farthing bike through a corn field 😂😂😂😂

Paddypaws91 · 17/01/2019 19:45

Sorry to hear AF got you @Pinkelephant12 hopefully February is your month. I know how you feel, 3 people I know have given birth this week!

@Zoeox May be worth getting some sticks if you haven't had CM. Even if you have 'missed the boat' this cycle, you could then have a stash for the next one Smile FX for you!

Nocoffeenotalkie · 17/01/2019 21:27

Hi, can I hop on over from the Jan bus?
TTC#2
Cycle (an awful lot...years)
CD 6
For the first time in years of 'If it happens it happens' talk (we have known fertility issues) I am BBT and using OPK's again. Relaxed approach does not work.

Pinkelephant12 · 18/01/2019 13:23

I was out with friends last night and got the continuous ‘are you not pregnant yet’ ‘when are you going to have kids’ took everything not to just scream I’m bloody trying!

Paddypaws91 · 18/01/2019 13:33

@Pinkelephant12 it's awful isn't it. I had a little outburst at the last family get together. People just don't think do they.

CaramelCluster · 19/01/2019 10:17

Hey @Nocoffeenotalkie welcome and will keep my fingers crossed that this month is your month!

@Pinkelephant12 Haha the ignorance of some people, some of my friends are the same. And the family is just as bad 😂

Well let's see how this month turns out for us all, I feel this is going to be a lucky thread full of BFPs! Still weird for me that we are going to be TTC, I mean me? A mum? Couple years ago I would have laughed at my present self for deciding to go ahead. It's exciting, but just strange is all Grin

dragonmummy17 · 19/01/2019 12:46

Hi everyone. I'm hopping on after a mmc at Christmas. Took 9 cycles to get that far and I'm hoping it doesn't take that long again
TTC#2
CD1
AF due 12th Feb (I think although it depends if my cycle remains the same after the mc)

@Wishful30 sorry to see you are still here. It sounds like a rough couple of months. Hoping for a better February for all of us

Wishful30 · 19/01/2019 16:32

Hey @dragonmummy17
Sorry to see you still here too!! Just gotta keep going. 💪🏼

2018 was in general a pretty shit year all round! So I'm really hoping we may just be lucky this year.
We have also just decided to take a jump, and move from the borders of London/Essex, escape the rat race and head up to Lincolnshire for a much calmer, better way of life. Much more suited to bringing up a child as opposed to my druggy neighbours here!!

I think I now know why I am unable to maintain a pregnancy, so I just need to act on that and start getting that further investigated.
DH has taken the step to stopping smoking which should improve our chances too 🤞🏻
Unlikely to be my month just yet, but missed following everyone on here and chatting to people who 'get it'

Good luck everyone. 🌟

bunhead34 · 20/01/2019 13:19

Hopping on the feb bus after AF arrived today
Recognise a few of the names here 👋🏼

34
Cd1
Ttc 1
Cycle 8

Getting a cd21 blood test this month, so maybe clear things up. Also getting blood tests for thyroid function. Anyone else had these tests? Xx

veeboo · 20/01/2019 18:22

Hi all. I can see some names from previous buses. Sorry to all who have had difficult times. I've been lurking and avoiding posting so as not to jinx myself but think I need need support in case it's not our month again.
I'm 31
Ttc #1
Came off pill Jan 18 but been tracking since April so cycle 10 I suppose. We struggle to dtd due to DP issues and I had two randomly long cycles of 59 and 40 days. I've just had static smiley and we dtd today and plan to tomorrow and Tuesday so fx! Anyone else entering tww?

chj17 · 21/01/2019 13:35

Hi ladies 👋🏻

Would like to jump on board the Feb bus if that’s ok!

TTC #2
Cycle 2
CD 4

Managed to convince myself it had happened first time after overanalysing twinges and sore boobs only for AF to rain on my parade on Friday. Forgot what an emotional rollercoaster this is and only one month in 😬

Sending lots of positive vibes to everyone else TTC 💗

CoachBombay · 21/01/2019 14:27

Hi ladies do you mind if I join?

I'm TTC #2 we had a missed mc in September 2018, and I seem to be back on track cycle wise now with today being CD1!

I do have PCOS and irregular periods so I'm also on Clomid days 2-6 this cycle to boost things along. I do have infertility and quite a complex obs and gynea history so I'm not holding my breath!

However I have my ovulation tests at the ready and I feel I'm armed and ready to attack this cycle lol!

Ambs81 · 21/01/2019 14:49

Hi all,
Cycle 1 after mc in Nov
I have a 4 yo desperate for a little brother or sister!

I haven’t used opks, but based on normal symptoms (increased sex drive, temp, etc) and the fact I have clockwork 28 day cycles I think I’ve just finished FW.

AF due in 13 days!
We dtd 4 in last 5 days, and will dtd tomorrow also for good measure

Confused
Coastaldreamer · 21/01/2019 15:28

Hi ladies,

Hoping I can join this bus although Feb is already looking like a no no!

Am 31 and me and DH TTC #1, cycle 1... Started trying but was experiencing spotting. Went to the GP who has referred me for tests to determine any issue and said stop trying till results come in. Then yesterday started bleeding like a period even though I’m not due till early Feb Sad

Went back to GP today and stressed I would like an urgent scan to check all is ok inside as have had dermoid cyst removal before with keyhole surgery.

Head is all over the place as we were meant to be on the Jan bus initially Confused

Hope you all make the Feb bus x

Ambs81 · 21/01/2019 19:40

@Coastaldreamer

I feel for you, I have had to delay ttc due to ongoing gynae issues - inc a lletz after dodgy smear results, then waited for follow up on that - its really hard and you feel like everything is onhold.
But the sense of relief when I got the all clear from follow up was massive, and I feel I'm starting ttc with a good frame of mind.

And once you're pregnant you'll have a nice long break from AF!!!

fingers crossed for you xx

HJWT · 21/01/2019 20:32

Can I join!!!

AF showed up yesterday!

TTC#2
Cycle 2
CD2
xxx

Coastaldreamer · 21/01/2019 20:45

@Ambs81

Thanks for your message. It is totally that feeling of “why does everything have to be on hold”

Glad to hear you now have the all clear and keeping fingers crossed for you x

crystalsapphire · 21/01/2019 21:28

I'd like to join please! TTC number 1, I have PCO and my last period ended in November Confused but I think I've just started this evening! I'm going to give this month a go and if nothing happens, then go back to the doctors and see if there's anything they can do. Good luck everyone!

Abzi91 · 21/01/2019 21:36

Hi all, hope I can join! I fell off the January bus last Monday! Currently on CD9 TTC1. According to Glow I don't ovulate until CD21 which is Feb 2nd - so far away 😩 (I have very irregular periods 🙈). I'm using OPKs for the first time properly (didn't realise you could take photos of the strips and add them to Glow - so handy!!).
Be nice to talk to people going through the same thing whilst I wait for ovulation day to show up! 😊
Fingers crossed for all 🤞🏽

Ambs81 · 22/01/2019 00:00

...I read today to cut caffeine to help implantation???

Never heard this before, I am a massive coffee drinker - probably having 3 cups of filter coffee a day! Apparently 1 cup is the max!

I cut it back last time i was pregnant, but didn't think it was important at the ttc/implantation stage!

Just sharing incase there are any other coffee addicts out there!

FirstOfMyKind · 22/01/2019 07:21

Hey all,
Hope this is the right place to post, I'm new to these boards and the 'bus' stuff, but I'm guessing this is for posters hoping to get a BFP in Feb? That would be me 😁

Anyway, I'm 30 (31 early feb), TTC no. 2, my daughter is 15 months old. This is my 2nd cycle officially trying. My cycle are usually 29-31 but I seem to have ovulated about 5 days later than my norm so expecting a longer cycle this time, boo hiss.

I'm sorry I haven't read through everyone's posts, but I hope you are all well and it's a lucky month for us!

....@Ambs81, that is totally me, I'm a huge coffee snob. I have cut down on the off chance it will improve my chances, but damn decaf is nowhere near as delicious!

chj17 · 22/01/2019 08:31

@ambs81 @FirstOfMyKind I’ve also just given up caffeine - bit of a challenge as I’m a two-coffees-before-9am kind of girl!

While in a paranoid frenzy I also ordered the ClearBlue Advanced Fertility Monitor for a ridiculous amount of money (I’m not buying coffee at least!) because it had some stat about increasing chances of pregnancy by 80%, plus some Maca supplements to take alongside usual pre-natal vitamins after a couple of people swore by it (v scientific I know 😩).

Probably both a complete waste of money that I don’t have... I guess it’s trying to take some control in an area where it all feel in the hands of fate!

Ambs81 · 22/01/2019 09:51

@chj17

I don’t blame you!! I’m spending my days googling sperm facts Blush

What cycle are you on?

joylondon · 22/01/2019 11:23

Hi everyone,

I’d like to join too please. I had the copper coil removed last month. It’s been really helpful reading up on here.

30
TTC #1
Cycle 2
CD 4

I have a chronic pain condition that has caused me to have anxiety... so am a little apprehensive about this rollercoaster of a journey!

chj17 · 22/01/2019 11:42

@Ambs81 only on cycle 2 but struggled a bit to conceive my first after coming off the pill and it taking a good 7/8 months for my cycle to be anything like normal. I wasn’t able to use OPKs etc last as my cycles were so long and irregular and just found the whole thing pretty stressful... hoping it might be a bit more straightforward this time! 😬