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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Aph413 · 07/04/2018 19:31

I know a few people will unfortunately be joining me eventually so I figured I'd get this bus going.
My cycles are crazy and averaging 60 days and I don't think I've ovulated yet so I'm out for April.

Age: 27
TTC: #1
Cycle: #4 (month 8)
CD: #25

Not holding much hope for conception at the moment but I've got to wait until August anyway.
Such an optimistic person to start the new bus!

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Spottyyellowdress · 08/05/2018 06:46

@lp17 af literally tuned up as soon as I got in bed! Typical. Relatively pleased though as I’ve had quite a normal cycle for the first time in months.

Onto cycle 11!

LP17 · 08/05/2018 06:54

@spottyyellowdress typical!! That's good though I suppose? Good luck for the next one...I might well see you on the June bus myself! X

ClumsyFool · 08/05/2018 06:56

Well it’s now CD30, couldn’t get a frer yesterday so got a clearblue and am annoyed at myself now as I have read how unreliable they are! Got s really faint line but then I have read so many times where that has happened and it’s been false so back to square one. Think I need to step away from tests for a couple of days for my own sanity and bank account and if no af still by the weekend try again then. Hope everyone else is doing ok?

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Aph413 · 08/05/2018 17:00

I'm out. I was pregnant but confirmed miscarriage today. Good luck everyone.

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EverythingNow · 08/05/2018 17:08

@Aph413 I’m so so sorry to hear that Flowers I had the same happen to me last week it’s horrible, so very sad and so disappointing. Thinking of you x

Spottyyellowdress · 08/05/2018 17:23

@aph413 @everythingnow so sad for you both. Thinking of you.

@lp17 thank you! In an odd way I feel quite happy about it - for the first time in forever it’s not horribly painful and heavy and it’s arrived on time with very little spotting beforehand...maybe my body’s sorting itself out a bit!

Nillynally · 08/05/2018 17:39

Hi guys, 11 dpo and a BFN with a FRER. Been weeing all day today so was hopeful! Will see if AF comes Saturday x

DBoo · 08/05/2018 17:39

Hey, jumping on.

Tomorrow i am officially in the tww.

Cycle #3 trying for number 2 i guess. Pfb stillborn and also had a first trimester mmc and second trimester mmc.

HidCat · 08/05/2018 18:11

@Aph413 and @EverythingNow I'm so sorry. I hope you're both ok.

MrsY87 · 08/05/2018 18:41

I'm so sorry for your losses @Aph413 and @EverythingNow I've been there and it's awful, take the time you need to look after yourselves, hope you also have some good RL support around you.

8 or 9dpo here, tested with a FRER this morning with SMU and it was a bfn...not really sure what I was expecting so early! 🤦‍♀️ however I've got backache which is quite normal for me in the run up to AF so expect she'll show Friday.

MaGratgarlik1983 · 08/05/2018 23:25

So sorry @aph413 and @everythingnow.
Welcome @DBoo so sorry for your previous losses.
Well, I POAS today, stupidly thought I could see something in the ic so took a blue dye test but bfn obv as too early! So it's back to the tww waiting game!

MrsY87 · 09/05/2018 05:30

AF arrived early this morning on CD24 at either 9/10dpo 😞 only cycle 2 but I'm feeling really down about it this morning. I'm away for a few days right in the middle of my expected few next cycle too so don't feel like we'll have a chance then either 😞

ClumsyFool · 09/05/2018 06:27

@aph413 I’m so sorry for your loss, make sure you take time to let yourself cry, rant, whatever you need to do, we’re all here to listen anytime you need also Flowers

Babybeany · 09/05/2018 08:14

@Aph413 so sorry 😐 Give yourself time to be sad. Something I have learned is that when horrible things happen, it’s ok to be depressed. Big squeezes x

xLauraa · 09/05/2018 08:32

@LookingAtTheStars89 are you just doing one round of Clomid then before they start the other tests? Or you doing the full 6

MaGratgarlik1983 · 09/05/2018 10:27

Morning all. Sorry your af came @mrsy87.
Got a frer from the shop this morning. Think I can see the faintest of vvfl but my eyes might be tricking me! What do you think?

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ClumsyFool · 09/05/2018 11:11

@MaGratgarlik1983 I think I can see something too!

Spottyyellowdress · 09/05/2018 13:56

Just been told my day 21 blood test was ‘dissatisfactory’. Nothing else. So so worried, no idea how I’ll make it through the rest of work.

winterwarmers · 09/05/2018 15:18

finally got peak fertility :) going to dtd for the next couple days and the. hopefully will see a temp rise

LP17 · 09/05/2018 15:35

@spottyyellowdress sorry to hear spotty - what was the blood test for?

Very sorry to those who have had early losses - it's so cruel. Fingers crossed for those in the 2WW.

I'm 12DPO today but have been spotting (mainly brown) for 2 days - my temp dropped this morning and I have stabbing pain/cramps so likely I'll see AF in the next 24 hours. Hope I don't see too many of you on the June bus!

Spottyyellowdress · 09/05/2018 16:53

@lp17 to check if I was ovulating- seems I’m not which would explain why it’s not happened yet!

Spottyyellowdress · 09/05/2018 16:55

@lp17 sorry that af is imminent...fingers crossed the next one’s your cycle!!!🤞🤞☝️

MaGratgarlik1983 · 09/05/2018 17:13

@spottyyellowdress oh dear, sounds tough. Hopefully now they know this, they can suggest ways forward to help with ttc. Fx for youSmile

HidCat · 09/05/2018 17:48

@Spottyyellowdress how horribly vague! Hopefully it's a problem with the test rather than your ovulation.

Spottyyellowdress · 09/05/2018 17:52

@hidcat I hope so! Obviously jumping to conclusions though. Although I have never had a positive on a clear blue digi opk so maybe that’s why...Thursday is such a long time to wait for an answer!