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early symptoms- when do I test!???

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AnxiousBetty · 13/03/2016 13:57

Hi there, I ov either on the 28th of this month or a couple days later, I'm not sure if I am 9dpo or 14 dpo at this point but I'm guessing more towards 9dpo so ... With that my symptoms have been as following :
6 or 11dpo - slight nausea, headaches, peeing a lot, bloating, constipation, tiredness, little bit of white cm
7 or 12dpo - woke up feeling nauseous and that carried on with public transport but haven't been sick, woke up with lower leg cramps too. Feeling pregnant. Boobs are still swollen and still bloated. Cm has returned to clear and stretchy consistency Took a test but BFN 
8 or 13dpo - symptoms easier today, feeling tired and breasts have been fluctuating a bit in size but no tenderness, had more cramping and sharp abdominal pains than normal but no bleeding. Felt a bit nauseous eating salted crisps but other than that not much nausea. 
Still stuck with the clear stretchy cm
9 or 14dpo - had more cramping today in the morning and still feeling extremely thirsty and needing the loo a lot. Nipples have been slightly tender but only for a short while. I'm now basically all dried up down there, no sign of any cm.... Good or bad sign Hmm???? 

I'm trying so hard to resist the testing urge but I bought 4 asda own early response tests yesterday and it's so tempting. Would tomorrow (10 dpo) be too early!? af is due Wednesday or Thursday as far as I know so that would be 12 or 13dpo

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JustmeC · 20/04/2016 17:42

Hi Stewart, not sure if this will help you at all but here's my story just in case. I stopped the pill in January. I had the withdrawal bleed and then two cycles, Feb was 29 days and then in March af just never came. I had 3 negative tests all in all with the last one at cd 35. I then kind of gave up and just thought it was obviously my body settling after the pill..

However on cd44 I didn't feel right and my husband said maybe I should do a test. Within seconds I got a very strong BFP and then confirmed it with a clear blue digital one. I'm now 6+4 and the doctor reckons I just ovulated later in March so that was why I got the bfn at cd35 etc. I was beginning to give up hope but we got a lovely unexpected surprise instead of af appearing late.

Not sure if this will help at all so apologies in advance if not. :) good luck!

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AnxiousBetty · 26/04/2016 10:08

How is everyone doing? Xx

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sabzh · 26/04/2016 10:29

Hi Betty you'll live a long life! I was just thinking of you! How are you doing? Im good still tired and suffering from back and hip pains x

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WickerHearts · 28/04/2016 07:01

Betty!! How are you lovely? Been thinking of you!

I'm doing ok thank you, sickness seems to be tailing off a bit now luckily so feeling a little more human xx

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AnxiousBetty · 28/04/2016 09:05

I'm okay thank you ladies, I'm glad you're all okay, how far along are you now Wicker and Sabzh? Xx

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sabzh · 30/04/2016 17:34

Im 12 weeks on Tuesday x
How did everything go Betty? Xx

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AnxiousBetty · 02/05/2016 20:32

Well ... I would ... Of been 9 weeks on Wednesday Sad xx

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WickerHearts · 03/05/2016 18:47

Aww Betty bless you, how are you doing? Hugs xxx

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AnxiousBetty · 04/05/2016 22:19

Very emotional, keep looking at the 6 weeks scan I had at the first appointment for itSadConfused xx

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LittleAngel8103 · 05/05/2016 03:09

Hi Ladies
Sorry to interrupt, just looking for a wee bit of advice
5wks ago I miscarried, I was 7wks - doctor told me when I felt ready to just to go for it and try again as I don't get regular periods due to PCOS..
Well for the last few days I've had really sore boobs, writing this I'm laid here feeling like I've got a pair of bricks on my chest - they are rock hard & tender.
I also woke from a nap earlier feeling so very nauseous.. Where I'm currently living someone was frying food, the smell made me heave and run to the bathroom as I thought I was going to hurl..
Could I have been lucky enough to fall again so quickly or is my body playing games with me?
In this thread some have spoken of cm, what does that mean please?
Oh and another thing I've never felt as aroused as I do now, I'm horny all the frigging time and no matter how much I'm getting my body just wants more...
(Sorry if last bit is tmi, lol) does anyone else feel like it? I would be grateful for any feedback.

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SoozC · 06/05/2016 07:14

Betty I hope it gets easier for you soon. Thinking of you.

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FrazzleRock · 06/05/2016 11:31

Sorry to butt in here. I have been reading and Betty my heart goes out to you. I'm crying reading your awful situation and cannot believe someone who loves you could force you to make a decision you clearly do not want to make.

I have absolutely nothing against abortion, but you just sound so deeply unhappy about having to go through with it. I'm so so sorry. I wish I could give you a RL hug Sad

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sabzh · 06/05/2016 12:28

If you dont mind me asking, how have things been after? X

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firesidechat · 06/05/2016 12:36

Best to start your own thread in the circumstances LittleAngel.

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AnxiousBetty · 06/05/2016 13:19

As a couple, OH and I are so happy and I hold no resentment towards him whatsoever because in the back of my mind it might not have been the right time. However, in myself... I miss carrying my baby, even though I never had a bump or felt it move or anything. I did want my baby.
It's difficult because I'm very open about my emotions but OH isn't and doesn't like talking about it really SadConfused

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AnxiousBetty · 21/05/2016 09:37

How is everyone doing? Xx

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WickerHearts · 21/05/2016 17:53

Hi ya Betty!! How are you doing?? And how are things with your OH?
I'm doing well thank you :) xx

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AnxiousBetty · 24/05/2016 23:02

We have our ups and downs but everything's going okay, he's definitely moved on from everything, I'm still mending Confused I'm glad you're doing well! How many weeks are you now? Xx

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