Hi there, I ov either on the 28th of this month or a couple days later, I'm not sure if I am 9dpo or 14 dpo at this point but I'm guessing more towards 9dpo so ... With that my symptoms have been as following :
6 or 11dpo - slight nausea, headaches, peeing a lot, bloating, constipation, tiredness, little bit of white cm
7 or 12dpo - woke up feeling nauseous and that carried on with public transport but haven't been sick, woke up with lower leg cramps too. Feeling pregnant. Boobs are still swollen and still bloated. Cm has returned to clear and stretchy consistency Took a test but BFNÂ
8 or 13dpo - symptoms easier today, feeling tired and breasts have been fluctuating a bit in size but no tenderness, had more cramping and sharp abdominal pains than normal but no bleeding. Felt a bit nauseous eating salted crisps but other than that not much nausea.Â
Still stuck with the clear stretchy cm
9 or 14dpo - had more cramping today in the morning and still feeling extremely thirsty and needing the loo a lot. Nipples have been slightly tender but only for a short while. I'm now basically all dried up down there, no sign of any cm.... Good or bad sign 
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I'm trying so hard to resist the testing urge but I bought 4 asda own early response tests yesterday and it's so tempting. Would tomorrow (10 dpo) be too early!? af is due Wednesday or Thursday as far as I know so that would be 12 or 13dpo
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AnxiousBetty · 13/03/2016 13:57
We have our ups and downs but everything's going okay, he's definitely moved on from everything, I'm still mending 
I'm glad you're doing well! How many weeks are you now? Xx
As a couple, OH and I are so happy and I hold no resentment towards him whatsoever because in the back of my mind it might not have been the right time. However, in myself... I miss carrying my baby, even though I never had a bump or felt it move or anything. I did want my baby.
It's difficult because I'm very open about my emotions but OH isn't and doesn't like talking about it really 
Sorry to butt in here. I have been reading and Betty my heart goes out to you. I'm crying reading your awful situation and cannot believe someone who loves you could force you to make a decision you clearly do not want to make.
I have absolutely nothing against abortion, but you just sound so deeply unhappy about having to go through with it. I'm so so sorry. I wish I could give you a RL hug
Very emotional, keep looking at the 6 weeks scan I had at the first appointment for it xx
Well ... I would ... Of been 9 weeks on Wednesday xx
I have no problem with abortion. I know people who have had them for a variety of reasons and I've supported them. I myself would consider an abortion in the right circumstances. And Betty only you are in this situation and must do what's right for you.
However, please, please don't do this for anyone but yourself! This wasn't an accidental pregnancy because the pill failed or the condom split. You weren't in an unhappy relationship. It's not a new relationship or resulting from a one night stand. You didn't 'trick' the father. You're not a couple of teenagers. In those scenarios things would be very different.
He feels how he feels, fine - even though really it's a bit late to be having second thoughts. But don't let him mess with your mind and do it to keep him happy! You must see that if you do terminate the pregnancy you will probably find it very difficult to forgive him. You may find you keep denying your own emotions in order to appease and keep him. And it's likely that a few months down the line you will find any love and respect you had for him will have disappeared and you won't want him anyway. Don't do this just because you want to keep him. You're in the midst of this right now but you may find you'll look back at this time with disgust at his outrageous u-turn.
So do what you must but don't blindly think this will save your relationship. It is very unlikely to go back to how it was before anyway because he has revealed himself to be something other than you thought he was. The trauma of terminating a pregnancy you really wanted because he simply 'changed his mind' will impact hugely on your regards for this man.
Good luck. You are in an impossible situation and I'm so very sorry for you and your baby that your boyfriend is such a massive prick. 
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Betty my lovely I'm glad you're on better terms with your OH, but you must be gutted about giving up your bubba. As long as you're 100% sure about this and it is the right decision for you, I'm sure you'll have a lot of support from the ladies on here. Feel like I've been on this whole journey with you, odd as you're basically a stranger, but I've been thinking of you. Hope you're doing ok 
xx
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