Hi there, I ov either on the 28th of this month or a couple days later, I'm not sure if I am 9dpo or 14 dpo at this point but I'm guessing more towards 9dpo so ... With that my symptoms have been as following :
6 or 11dpo - slight nausea, headaches, peeing a lot, bloating, constipation, tiredness, little bit of white cm
7 or 12dpo - woke up feeling nauseous and that carried on with public transport but haven't been sick, woke up with lower leg cramps too. Feeling pregnant. Boobs are still swollen and still bloated. Cm has returned to clear and stretchy consistency Took a test but BFN
8 or 13dpo - symptoms easier today, feeling tired and breasts have been fluctuating a bit in size but no tenderness, had more cramping and sharp abdominal pains than normal but no bleeding. Felt a bit nauseous eating salted crisps but other than that not much nausea.
Still stuck with the clear stretchy cm
9 or 14dpo - had more cramping today in the morning and still feeling extremely thirsty and needing the loo a lot. Nipples have been slightly tender but only for a short while. I'm now basically all dried up down there, no sign of any cm.... Good or bad sign 
????
I'm trying so hard to resist the testing urge but I bought 4 asda own early response tests yesterday and it's so tempting. Would tomorrow (10 dpo) be too early!? af is due Wednesday or Thursday as far as I know so that would be 12 or 13dpo
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AnxiousBetty · 13/03/2016 13:57
I'm doing okay today, OH and I are on better terms and I went to the clinic this morning and had an ultrasound etc and found out I'm 6 weeks 1 days today 
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Betty I'm so sorry I know how much you wanted this and how excited you were to get your BFP. I think it is very unfair of you OH to put you through all of this when you both decided to try for a baby...Be 100% sure this is what is best and what you want before you do it...hugs xxx
Ladies, I hope you don't mind me butting in I have been lurking and just wanted to say to Betty please please be 100% sure this decision is right for YOU, doing this just to save your relationship will be a huge strain which could very well end up in you separating anyway.. I speak from personal experience an ex did the same to me and I did terminate to save my relationship.. And I never forgave him and ultimately our relationship was ruined and we split up a year later.. I then very sadly suffered two miscarriages years later with my husband and the feeling of knowing I could maybe have had a child that would have been 10 this year was heartbreaking.. I am incredibly lucky that I have since gone on to have two healthy babies but I just wanted to let you know this decision will live with you forever.. If you are certain it is for the best then that's fine and I hope you will both be happy and in later years have your family, but if you are not sure please think carefully about this.
Again I am sorry to butt in out of nowhere and I do not mean any offence I just wanted to let you know, I've been there and it isn't easy, i wish you all the best 
Hi ladies, sorry for not being on here so often, things are getting better gradually with me and OH as he is definitely starting to be more honest with how he feels and therefore i can be more honest with how I feel too. I think we both agree now that it would tear us apart to have a baby with us and that our relationship needs to be a bit stronger before we can bring another life into the world. As much as I would love to have my baby and love it with all my heart, which I do already, i don't think it is going to be quite right to do so. Thank you all for being there and giving the best advice you can, I do agree with a lot of your points and am talking to OH about each one gradually. It's difficult and it's a hard decision but right now I don't feel like there's another viable answer 
Despite all this. How are all you ladies doing!? Don't want this to become all about me! Have any of you had your bfp and how are the pregnant ladies doing?
Hi ladies,
I'm very new to this and I was wondering if anybody would be kind enough to maybe give me some insight or help, so here I go... I came of the pill after about 1.5 years on 11th Feb I had the normal withdrawal bleed then , I had a normal period 32 days after on 13th March I'm assuming I was expecting my period again 32 days later so would of been 14th April or am I timing that wrong? Anyway I haven't had a period so I'm now 4 days late I had sex around my ovulation times which said would be 28th-2nd April that's according to a 32 day cycle, me and my fiancé are trying for a child.. I've taken 3 varieties of pregnancy test and they both came up negative...(sorry if I sound like an absolute muppet) so I guess what I'm asking is, is it normal to maybe miss a period after having a normal period after stopping the pill? Or could I possibly be pregnant? I really hope someone could give me some insight I'm going out of my mind lol! 
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Betty my lovely I'm glad you're on better terms with your OH, but you must be gutted about giving up your bubba. As long as you're 100% sure about this and it is the right decision for you, I'm sure you'll have a lot of support from the ladies on here. Feel like I've been on this whole journey with you, odd as you're basically a stranger, but I've been thinking of you. Hope you're doing ok xx
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I have no problem with abortion. I know people who have had them for a variety of reasons and I've supported them. I myself would consider an abortion in the right circumstances. And Betty only you are in this situation and must do what's right for you.
However, please, please don't do this for anyone but yourself! This wasn't an accidental pregnancy because the pill failed or the condom split. You weren't in an unhappy relationship. It's not a new relationship or resulting from a one night stand. You didn't 'trick' the father. You're not a couple of teenagers. In those scenarios things would be very different.
He feels how he feels, fine - even though really it's a bit late to be having second thoughts. But don't let him mess with your mind and do it to keep him happy! You must see that if you do terminate the pregnancy you will probably find it very difficult to forgive him. You may find you keep denying your own emotions in order to appease and keep him. And it's likely that a few months down the line you will find any love and respect you had for him will have disappeared and you won't want him anyway. Don't do this just because you want to keep him. You're in the midst of this right now but you may find you'll look back at this time with disgust at his outrageous u-turn.
So do what you must but don't blindly think this will save your relationship. It is very unlikely to go back to how it was before anyway because he has revealed himself to be something other than you thought he was. The trauma of terminating a pregnancy you really wanted because he simply 'changed his mind' will impact hugely on your regards for this man.
Good luck. You are in an impossible situation and I'm so very sorry for you and your baby that your boyfriend is such a massive prick. 
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