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Is there a January bus yet?!!

955 replies

Kt1991 · 07/12/2013 21:29

Hi everyone my AF appeared on 3rd December, so got kicked off the December bus pretty early! But couldn't see a January bus yet!! My stats are TTC #2 cycle 5 Sad BFP due 8th Jan.

OP posts:
MissingBun · 04/01/2014 09:42

I'm out for this month Sad af arrived this morning, just as I was reaching for the pee cup! Anyway I have 31 day cycle so ill be off to the Feb bus, probably still be lurking on here and wishing you all luck for your bfps though!! Blimey that's cycle 5 for me now, never thought it would take this long!

jilljill2891 · 04/01/2014 10:21

I did a test this morning and it was negative :( af is still missing though.

PetiteChouette · 04/01/2014 10:50

Morning everyone,

Sorry for those who got got by AF. Hmm

jilljill - sorry you got a BFN this AM. Hope you get a BFP soon, but if AF does show her face, then defo give OPKs a go next cycle.

Good luck to everyone else...hope we get some more BFPs soon as they're such a lovely start to the NYE.

LH1981 · 04/01/2014 12:10

Yep lucy, still in limbo land along with Ginger. CD55 today. No sign of AF, but I've had loads (sorry tmi alert) of cm for the past few weeks and it seems to be drying up now so maybe something is about to change. Fed up with waiting!

Munday your hair looks amazeballs! Really suits you - and well done for being so brave, I would never dare!

Sorry to AF-ers, hope Feb is your month! xxx

KittyVonCatsington · 04/01/2014 12:26

Hello Ladies! Thought I'd check in after a few days away on holiday over the New Year. Have enjoyed catching up with all your progress-congrats on the BFPs and a little sad to hear the arrival of some AFs.

As I am doing the SMEP plan currently, I feel a bit more in control than I did last month. As soon as CD8 appeared, started SWI although had to try a couple of times as DH got stage fright (it must all be affecting him too) and have now started also using OPKs daily since CD10. No second line yet but as I am on CD12 and thinking it might not be too long to wait. I did succumb and have a drink on NYE though, well more than one, but still less than I normally have done in previous years! Am loving the list of stats Kt1991 as it is nice to see I have a few BFP day buddies for the 24th Jan. Grin

ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 04/01/2014 13:03

Sorry to hear of the AFs appearing, great that most of you can stay on the Jan bus though. Congrats on those with BFPs, you lucky things!

Working out when you ovulate is very confusing isn't it? I was really disappointed not to get a BFP last month, as everyone in my family has conceived first month. I was working on my app, ovuview though, which thought I O'd on cd15, so we had a veritable shagathon cd 12-16 when DH went away for work...however I have a 31-33 day cycle so thought this might not be right, and lo and behold AF arrived. Have been using OPKs this month and got what I though was +ve at cd11 which would put my LP at 21 days, which again didn't seem right - have been getting lines since I started on cd6 but this was by far the darkest. Have continued to test though and got a very strong OPK +ve last night, which when I compare to cd11 makes the earlier seem so obviously negative I feel stupid! I have entered my new stats into my app and it says AF due 22 Jan, which would put this cycle at 36 days, I think this is wrong though and am expecting AF at cd32 ish, so around the 18th so will stick with my plan of testing then....so officially in my first 2ww where I have a chance of being PG, given DH's absence during O last month!

Any opinions on this? Do you think it sounds right? O'ing on CD18 gives me a 14 day LP which seems about correct.....

Good luck everyone!

KitKat1985 · 04/01/2014 13:19

Hi Thingsthatgohump. I was always under the impression that ovulation was for most people around-about 'mid-cycle', give or take a few days, so if you assume a 32 day cycle, I would have estimate that you ovulate most likely between CD days 13-19. What CD were you on yesterday? x

ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 04/01/2014 13:23

Hi KitKat I was cd18 yesterday, so could tie up?

KitKat1985 · 04/01/2014 13:34

Yeah, sounds right to me! :)

Gingerpanther27 · 04/01/2014 13:52

Dp has now put a paranoid thought into my head of phantom pregnancy...thanks dp!

Charlie343 · 04/01/2014 14:42

Thingsthatgobump so glad I saw your post. Last month I got a strong positive OPK on CD 20, the app's I had been using the previous two months estimated that I would ovulate the week earlier. I found that last month my cycle lasted an extra day. I was worried that this was rather late to ovulate but it seems that it's quite possible!

ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 04/01/2014 14:48

Hi Charlie, we have the same first name I think Wink

I actually just did another OPK and got an even darker line than yesterday so could be CD19 for me! I think it is certainly possible. Also as I have been on hormonal BC (microgynon) for 12 years, not very surprising! Average is only average because there are people either side of it I suppose!

I feel really pleased to have a +ve OPK...DH thinks I am ridiculous - but then again is quite happy with the consequences!

missmrsmummy · 04/01/2014 15:32

What app does anyone recommend? I've downloaded 3 but not keen on any of them...

I've got:
Fertility Friend
Period Diary
Monthly Cycles

ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 04/01/2014 15:39

I like ovuview, its really simple and easy to use. I think they all have their pros and cons and none are perfect, but I am hoping after using opks this month mine will be more accurate going forwards.

Or you could just not bother and have LOADS of sex instead Grin

HRMumness · 04/01/2014 15:47

POAS yesterday using a Clearblue early detect but got nothing. Think it was too early. Going to POAS now because I just ordered some more tests for 99p off Ebay - Thanks Choccy!

Kt1991 · 04/01/2014 16:18

All changed for you notta and thanks kitty does take a while but will do it as often as I can for everyone! Lets try and get some more BFPs to add to the top!

BFPS!
Lime19 TTC #1 cycle 4, BFP 30th DEC!
Punkypod TTC #2 cycle 2, BFP 2nd JAN!

Awaiting BFPS!
Toots123 TTC #1 cycle 1 BFP due 31st Dec
Hopemummi TTC #1 cycle 10, BFP due 1st Jan
Zara1984 TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 1st Jan
Bumpbangbump TTC #2,BFP due 2nd Jan
Thefuturesupremerulersmum TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 3rd Jan
Saltyseabird TTC #2 cycle 6, BFP due anyday
Broodysnoopstie TTC #1 cycle 5, BFP due 4th Jan
Mum2kiss TTC #2, BFP due 5th Jan
Broodylicious TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 5th Jan
Wakeytryingagain TTC ? cycle 1, BFP due 5th Jan
Cherieblossom TTC #3 cycle 2, BFP due 6th Jan
HippyJess TTC #1 cycle 1 BFP due 6th Jan
Wondercat TTC #2 cycle 5, BFP due 6th Jan
Rockins20s TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 7th Jan
cybercat TTC #1, cycle 1 (following MC & poss chem). bfp 7th Jan
Laceylee TTC #1 cycle 1 mmc, BFP due 8th Jan
Nordicmum TTC #3 cycle 2, BFP due 8th Jan
Kitty TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 8th Jan
Bumpandgrind TTC #1 BFP due 8th Jan
Kt1991 TTC #2 cycle 5, BFP due 8th Jan
Blithereens TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 8th Jan
Findingme TTC #2 cycle 6, BFP due 9th Jan
Fairypants TTC #3 cycle 4 post mc, BFP due 9th Jan
Littlemissy1234 TTC #2 cycle 2, BFP due 9th Jan
PetiteChouette TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 9th/10th Jan
Cosyteabags TTC #1 cycle 7, BFP due 9th.10th Jan
Cottonwool4brains TTC 2 cycle 10, BFP due 10th Jan
Mrskoala TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 10th Jan
RMumness TTC#2 Cycle 1 BFP due 10th Jan
Skybluegirl33 TTC #1 cycle 6, BFP due 10th Jan
Seasavage TTC #3 cycle 1,BFP due 10th Jan
Upnorth TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 11th Jan
Sleepisf0rwimps TTC #2 cycle 4, BFP due 11th Jan
Glitterlily TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 11th Jan
Onlymydogunderstandsme TTC #2 cycle 1, BFP due 12th Jan
Jessica78 ttc#1, cycle 7, BFP due Jan 12
Mundaycakes85 TTC #1 cycle 6, BFP due 12th Jan
Angelicjen TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 12th Jan
Kitkat TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 13th Jan
Akachan TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 13th Jan
Scoffin- TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 14th Jan
Choccywoccydodah TTC #2 cycle 5, BFP due 14th Jan (2 chem)
Harry2007, TTC #3, BFP Due 15th January
Justmarriedbecca TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 15th Jan
Monstersauras TTC #2 cycle 3 BFP due 15th Jan
1974rach TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 15th Jan
Moffit TTC #2 cycle 3, BFP due 15th Jan
Tigsy TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 16th Jan
Rubyshoe TTC #2 cycle 4, BFP due 16th Jan
Mistyautumn TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 17th Jan
Becauseisaidso50 BFP due 17th Jan
Amy246 TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 17th Jan
Gingerpanther27 ??? bfp 18th jan
Spinninggirl10 TTC #2 cycle 2 post mc, BFP due 18th Jan
Jennyofoldstones TTC #1 cycle 5 BFP due 18th Jan
Thingsthatgohumpinthenight TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 18th Jan
Honeybear30 TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 19th Jan
Imaginaryhat TTC #? cycle 8, BFP due 19th Jan
Bexwex TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 19th Jan
Doctordonnanoble TTC #1 cycle 1 post mc, BFP due 20th Jan
Barmybunting TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 22nd Jan
Treaclepie19 TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 23rd Jan
Reginafelange22 TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 23rd Jan
Kittyvoncatsington TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 24th Jan
Sleepingstarsmommy TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due 24th Jan
Missmrsmummy,TTC#1, cycle 2, BFP due 24th Jan
Aisha18 TTC #1 cycle 4, BFP due 24th Jan
Hazelbrowneyes TTC #1 cycle 1/2, BFP due 25th Jan
Sazzlehopes TTC #2 cycle 14, BFP due 25th Jan
Charlie343 TTC #1 cycle 3, BFP due 25th Jan
Lottystar TTC #3 cycle 4, BFP due 26th Jan
Owlie84 TTC #1 cycle 1 or 8?, BFP due 26th Jan
Keeping TTC #1-cycle 7after MMC in July-BFP due 26th Jan
Onelifeonechance TTC #1, cycle 8, BFP due 26th Jan
Knottyknitter TTC#1 cycle 2, BFP due between 26th and 4th Feb
Mama31 TTC #2 cycle 8, BFP due 27th Jan
Queenasanti3 TTC #2 cycle?, BFP due 27th Jan
Nottalotta TTC #1 cycle 8, BFP due 28th Jan
Hollyben TTC#2 cycle 2 post mc, BFP due 29th Jan
Bellaboo88 TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 30th Jan
Bumpbangbump TTC #2 cycle 2, bfp due 30th Jan
Meezermum TTC #1 cycle 1, BFP due 31st Jan
Hazelbrowneyes TTC #1 cycle #1 BFP due 31st Jan
Englishgirlabroad TTC #1 cycle 4, cycle 1 post mc. BFP due ?
Ram19 TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due?
Somuchfruit TTC #2 cycle 1 post mc, BFP due?
Fivemoreminutesmummy TTC #3 BFP due? (coil removed 11th Dec)
Wineandchoccy TTC #1 cycle 6, BFP due?
MSvee TTC #2 cycle 3, BFP due?
Kittyrose TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due?
Mammy2be TTC #2 cycle 2, BFP due 3rd/4th week Jan poss?
Lorelie TTC #1 cycle 3/4, BFP due?
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout?
Puddingandhotmilk TTC #2, but still Bf'ing DD so no AF yet
Htbftm TTC#4 cycle 1, BFP due- no idea!
Mrsf2510 TTC #1 cycle 2, BFP due end of Jan
LH1981 TTC #3 cycle 5, BFP due?
Mattsmama TTC #3 cycle 3, BFP due end of Jan
Lovecuppy TTC #1 cycle 5, BFP due end of Jan
Princesscrystalx
Flukewoman BFP due anytime between 14th-21st Jan
Hibou7688- lurking
Stewietakestheworld-lurking
Jilljill2890 TTC #? cycle 7/8?, BFP due?

Missingbun -AF arrived :( lurking until Feb bus!
Pebble-Af arrived :(

OP posts:
bellaboo88 · 04/01/2014 16:23

No chocky, not doing opks until a few months down the line.

Looking back, my app 'my calendar' rejigged things so it looks like I ovd on cd14 but only DTD on 9,11 & 15 so maybe just missed the window! Poor dp only had knee op the week before so was difficult anyways!! So I've warned him this cycle (calling our 1st as last was freebie after pill) we will DTD every other day!

How early do you start in your cycle to DTD?? X

Choccywoccydodah · 04/01/2014 17:23

HRM you are most welcome Grin

Bella we usually go for it around cd10, usually positive cd14. We dtd before though too Grin

Choccywoccydodah · 04/01/2014 17:25

Was asking about opk Bella as I had a 25/24 day cycle, oving on cd18 so I had a short LP, then took b6 to lengthen it which worked. Might be worth testing jic you've ov'd later than you think.

BumpNGrind · 04/01/2014 17:53

Nooooo!! Woman down, AF has got me, save yourselves ladies!

Worse still, my cycle was 25 days long! Back to vitamin b6 for me this month.

Do you mind me hitching a lift on this bus until the February bus comes along? I'm unable to move as I've just eaten my body weight in post christmas chocolates.

Hopemummi · 04/01/2014 17:59

Day 31, 7 days post ovulation I'm going bananas Confused testing Tuesday if the witch don't arrive first.

Blithereens · 04/01/2014 18:06

Oh no Bump and the others, sorry to hear about AF! Damn that witch!

Dizzy spells continue apace, to the point where I've had to miss a birthday meal for my SIL tonight, that I bloody organised! Hmm If I'm not pregnant and this is just a virus, I shall be mightily miffed. DH just texted me to say MIL immediately cornered him asking, "Is it what I think it is?" Luckily I had anticipated this and provided him with a number of answers Wink

I'm annoyed though, I was looking forward to it! Also I started crying while I was watching a My Little Pony documentary last night. IDK whether this is a symptom or not but I thought it might give my busmates a laugh Grin

Gingerpanther27 · 04/01/2014 18:26

blithereens lmao here. When is your af due? Poor dh though lol. '

bellaboo88 · 04/01/2014 18:31

Ooh I didn't know about that!! Can I get b6 from chemist? I'm tempted to order some now but my fella will freak out! He thinks that's going too far lol. Men don't get it do they!

Lol bump, had our bodyweight in choc!!! I can agree with that....Wii fit tonight!! X

Blithereens · 04/01/2014 18:55

Ginger in about four days! I am also coming off some medication and these may all be side effects of that, but we live in hope!