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Is there a January bus yet?!!

955 replies

Kt1991 · 07/12/2013 21:29

Hi everyone my AF appeared on 3rd December, so got kicked off the December bus pretty early! But couldn't see a January bus yet!! My stats are TTC #2 cycle 5 Sad BFP due 8th Jan.

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Kittyrose1 · 06/01/2014 15:26

Spinning and jenny, I feel for the guys - dh couldn't finish the task so to speak last night, I was really supportive but also really frustrated because if I've ov,d later this month really needed to get bding that night :s it's the pressure isn't it, and I don't want it to become just about baby making but it's hard not to wen as a woman you know the best times to be dtd ... I guess if it's meant to be it's meant to be!

Choccywoccydodah · 06/01/2014 15:55

LH a blood test apparently is more sensitive so even if you are pg it may not show on the hpt Smile

spinningirl10 · 06/01/2014 16:12

Thanks Mama.....I guess it could be possible, dp will think he has super sperm if it does happen this monthGrin

Kitty and Jenny...,..pleased I'm not the only one going through this although sorry that you have as well!
It really is hard to know what to do for the best.....dp asked me to tell him when I ov so I find the while thing really frustrating!! We dtd last night, dp hadn't been near me for a wrek and I was feeling quite sad.....I just decided to wait until he was in the moodGrin

Because I ov quite early (cd11) I think I will put him off next month if he wants to dtd before cd9......hopefully he'll be desperate by the time I ov!! Grin

JennyOfOldstones · 06/01/2014 16:24

spinning and kitty the problem we had this month is that we dtd on cd6 and 8 because we were staying with family and he for some reason finds this a turn on(!) then we had the 'issue' on cd10 when we were back home. I wished I had said no so he would be desperate for it but I just feel that turning him down won't be good for his ego either!! It is so difficult. We just have to be more sneaky don't we!! I am cd17 now so have missed the window anyway. We obviously need to go and stay with his family once a month at the right time!!

Kittyrose1 · 06/01/2014 16:35

Spinning and jenny, yes we need to be more sneaky! They'll be desperate for it if we put them off, and then won't be able to refuse when we happen to seduce them around our ov time muhaha.
Seriously though It's good to know we're not alone on this - dh was quite pissed off about it actually, but I just tried not to make it a big deal. We have dtd so much yhis month anyway I hunk I wore him out, so fx one of the swimmers made it !

LaceyLee · 06/01/2014 16:40

Hi all, does anyone get ovulation bleeding? If you do can i ask what its like? I am on cd10, have had positive opks and then today have had some bleeding, really confused tho as it is heavier than spotting, more like a light period Sad also had some cramping?! Never had this before

mum2kiss · 06/01/2014 17:07

I decided early on not to bother telling my dp when I ov. Far too much pressure! I try not to tell him when af is due either...want to keep things as stress free as possible on his part! Meanwhile I will drive myself crazy symptom spotting and checking dates lol!

Congrats to all the new bfps. Sorry for those who have been visited by the witch! Im sad but happy at the same time for some goodnews company.on the feb bus :)

spinningirl10 · 06/01/2014 17:08

Haha yes more sneaky definitely!!

I never say no so that might arouse suspicion....I might just say I still have af until the time is right and he'll be desperate by then Grin

bumpbangbump · 06/01/2014 17:21

More bfp's!!! Congratulations all.

I have a tmi questions for you experienced ladies. I was visited by the witch on 1/1 with some spotting the day before. She was much lighter than usual but enough for a tampon, usually day two would be fully saturated but was still light flow and then tapered off on day three. I had some light spotting on Saturday nothing on Sunday and today it's back bit with some cm that's a bit like people would describe as ewcm... Surely I'm not about to ov on cd6?? Any ideas??

bumpbangbump · 06/01/2014 17:23

Negative pregnancy test on 31/12 but that was between 1 and 3 days early...

JennyOfOldstones · 06/01/2014 17:23

Ooh yes spinning he wouldn't even twig that I had been bleeding for 10 days, he prefers not to know too much about that particular time of the month!! Genius.

Kittyrose1 · 06/01/2014 17:28

Loving your work spinning!

Choccywoccydodah · 06/01/2014 17:53

Bump have you not tested since jic?

icy121 · 06/01/2014 18:37

Wow amazing news reading all the positive results! Congratulations!

I'm not sure how to calculate a bfp date, additionally don't know how long this cycle will last as last one was about 45 days! (Post Yasmin), but on basis of a 28 day then cd28 is jan 22nd.

Shall continue to read this thread with interest and excitement - on the failure to perform I'm totally with the girls keeping it secret. He doesn't know what my cycle dates are - then again nor do I! Taking preconception vits and vitex - can't hurt!

mum2kiss · 06/01/2014 18:45

Is everyone here on pre conception vitamins? If so which ones...I really need to get some!

Treaclepie19 · 06/01/2014 18:51

Woah, back at work today so just tried to catch up with about 4 pages of messages! mum2kiss I'm taking Seven Seas - Trying for a baby :)
Congrats to all the BFP's :)

broodylicious · 06/01/2014 18:51

Hey mum, I just starting retaking pregnacare last month. Had planned on taking them while I breastfeed dd but totally forgot.... Still, handy for this little bean Smile

Choccywoccydodah · 06/01/2014 18:52

Mum2 I'm just taking frolic acid. But also b6 for my LP and baby aspirin to help make a sticky one Grin

broodylicious · 06/01/2014 18:53

lacey could be implantation bleeding..... Fx

Choccywoccydodah · 06/01/2014 19:02

STOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOP THE BUUUUUUUUUUUUS!!

Onto the next one ladies, bagsie the seat above the driver on this massive double decker Grin

Choccywoccydodah · 06/01/2014 19:02

new thread didn't post sorry

MrsF2510 · 06/01/2014 19:06

I took seven seas last month but this month have splashed out and bought pregnacare. Before that (3months before) I was just taking folic acid. My sister who just gave birth wasn't taking anything and after 3 months she took pregnacare and then fell. X

PolytheneGirl · 06/01/2014 19:12

Congratulations on the BFPs. You lucky lot!

I'm pretty sure this month is going to be a complete right off. TMI but with DH shifts and a very demanding 3yo it's been hard to fit in dtd Sad. Fx but I'm thinking we might have to double our efforts next month.

I hope you ladies are having more luck than me!

PolytheneGirl · 06/01/2014 19:12

Congratulations on the BFPs. You lucky lot!

I'm pretty sure this month is going to be a complete right off. TMI but with DH shifts and a very demanding 3yo it's been hard to fit in dtd Sad. Fx but I'm thinking we might have to double our efforts next month.

I hope you ladies are having more luck than me!

PolytheneGirl · 06/01/2014 19:14

Sorry, no idea why that's posted twice?!?