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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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956 replies

justb01 · 14/08/2013 09:19

Hi, I'm a newbie here and ttc newbie as well! I'm looking for buddies to share experience. Who's with me?Experts tips always welcome
We've been ttc for fe months, before NTNP. However now I'm starting to feel the pressure for BFP.

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VickyVix · 21/10/2013 10:16

Oh onelife I'm so sorry AF got you :( that's rubbish, I was really hoping this would be your month. Thanks

On the upside you still have plenty of time to get that pre-Christmas baby made, remember you, woodwaj and me are all getting preggers before Christmas!

I know it will take a few days but you will pick yourself up, besides there must be a November POAS party to organise! And you have your super duper CBFM to get you through it as well. I will pop into the November bus and see how everyone is doing :)

I still feel like a bit of an intruder on the ante-natal threads so I'm still hovering on this side as i'm more comfortable here and i love seeing everyone get their BFPs and all you ladies are so lovely.

Just remember, you will get your BFP :) ........and when you do it will be IMMENSE Wink

onelifeonechance · 21/10/2013 10:31

Thanks Vix, mwah xx

Jennyallan86 · 21/10/2013 11:05

Thanks girlies, is will try that November bus also.
Yes just invested in 50 OPKs so hopefull will make it easier!
Yes I'm trying for my first, its exciting but also stressful! And I also would love to be over pregnant for Christmas.
Oh don't apolagise onelife, it takes over and becomes an obsession.
Fingers crossed for us xx

woodwaj · 21/10/2013 18:53

Really sorry about AF onelife have some chocolate then chin up and carry on again!!

Yes it is my 2nd cousin, He has been named today! Benjamin They are well but in hospital again tonight. I want to see him!!

I read your post and figured it out and my 2ww starts today! I wouldn't have even looked if you hadn't have mentioned it as im not normally able to follow my cycle with no AF. So really it should be 4th Nov AF is due, I prob wont test unless its late or I feel I am!! Still DTD though as I cant exactly be sure I have ov'd

I know what you mean Vicky, I occasionally grace the infertility group now, but this group is much more active and friendly. Hopefully we can all move over to ante natal together!!

Hi Jenny welcome to the mad house, Good luck with the OPKs. POAS becomes super addictive!!!

VickyVix · 21/10/2013 19:19

Ah welcome to the world Benjamin that's a lovely name! Thanks for keeping us updated :)

Good luck on the 2ww woodwaj I have my fingers crossed for you that this is your month and will be checking in to see how you 're getting on. Really hope it doesn't drag too much for you.

I managed to find a successful way not to drink, I just accepted the drinks but then glass swapped with DH who helped me out, pretty sure nobody noticed.....but DH got so drunk because he was downing stuff so quickly and had twice as much as everyone else!! May need a re-think Hmm

Oh and still have Dolly Parton boobs!

woodwaj · 21/10/2013 22:14

I'm hoping he can come home tomorrow and then I can visit at the end of the week! There's no way I can get past grandparents to see him at the moment!

Thanks, ill keep you posted. Im not too confident as I think I ovulated a lot earlier than I expected but I have my fingers crossed anyway.

Haha, I bet DH didn't mind at the time but I bet he wasn't a fan of you in the morning! I suppose you could go with usual antibiotics excuse but that might be a bit obvious!

woodwaj · 23/10/2013 21:39

How are we all doing? Everyone seems to be in limbo at the moment

AF still around Onelife?

How are you finding the OPKs Jenny

Still just big boobs for you Vicky? When is morning sickness supposed to kick in? I bet you cant wait Wink

onelifeonechance · 24/10/2013 07:20

Morning all Smile

AF has finally left the building and she can stay outside i'm locking the door so I've already discussed our sex plan for this month with dh& it's on to the fun stuff! I'm still using my monitor and have ordered a thermometer to give temping a go too, if it doesn't work this month I've got nothing else to buy!

Hope you're doing ok woodwaj, have you seen B yet? Give him a squeeze for me! Smile

V - ha! Keep thinking of you&your mahoosive bazookas Grin that doesn't make me sound weird at all Hope you're feeling ok.

Good luck with opk's Jenny, I've found them really useful

woodwaj · 24/10/2013 16:56

I haven't seen him yet!! They only got out of hospital yesterday! im going to go Saturday so they have time to settle in.

Glad AF has gone!! Defo keep that door locked!!

I met the beast from the chase today, im 5'2 so that was fun!!

VickyVix · 24/10/2013 17:14

Afternoon ladies :)

Yep still big boobs going on over here! DH is loving it, I look like I have been inflated! Otherwise good, very tired and a little queasy. I think MS can occur any time between 6 and 12 weeks, so am hoping I don't get it bad. Queasiness I can cope with - I basically feel hungover!

Good luck with the fun stuff onelife I've never temped but that plus the super duper all singing all dancing CBFM should give you a great chance of making that pre Christmas sprout :)

woodwaj how are you getting on? Your in your 2ww aren't you? Bet your looking forward to seeing little Benjamin, give him a wee hug from me, I bet he's adorable.

jenny good luck with the OPKs they should help you get your cycle figured out so you can 'focus' around the right time.

I have first GP appointment in the morning, I doubt they will do a lot but I get to actually tell a real life person I am preggo - it will be a novelty!

VickyVix · 24/10/2013 17:18

Arrgghh to incorrect uses of your - I apologise (this is one of my absolute let hates)!! Of course I mean't you're and not your ......rant over

VickyVix · 24/10/2013 17:19

Oh good lord - and a to instead of a two ...Anna's a let instead of a pet! Can I blame this on baby brain??! Sorry, I have clearly outed my overly OCD ways now .........and my fat fingers, stupid iPhone :)

VickyVix · 24/10/2013 17:24

Anna's????? No. I am giving up

onelifeonechance · 24/10/2013 18:17

Ha, V, stop, you're making new laugh too much and I need a wee and i'm nowhere near a loo!!! Grin

woodwaj · 24/10/2013 20:09

Haha!! Id blame predictive text not baby brain!! Yeah im in my two week wait I should be due on 4th November trying not to think about it too much though! Good luck at the docs tomorrow although im sure its boring like you said!!

Jennyallan86 · 25/10/2013 14:44

Hey girls, I'm getting on ok, I've tried the opk and so far they're negative, although I've got ovuline app n it's saying I'm fertile now Confused
So weve dtd every day this week, lucky him!
Aww congratulations on the birth of Benjamin woodwaj. And good luck for you this month, try keep +
Good luck with the fun stuff and the new temp kit onelife! Heard they work!
V- my friend is 14 weeks and that's exactly how she felt, hungover. Hoe you don't get full ms!

Xx

woodwaj · 25/10/2013 18:27

I am symptom spotting now which I totally blame onelife for!! So far I have been peeing a lot (however I have drank a fair few hot drinks which I don't normally do) and secondly I felt queezy the other morning (although I think this was more from disgusting brew!) I think it would be too early for either though.

That's weird about the opks and the app. Its good that you are covering both options with lots of dtd but I would probably lean towards opks being more accurate?

onelifeonechance · 26/10/2013 21:30

Oh woodwaj sorry, guilty as charged, know it's all my fault for pointing out the 2ww!!! Grin All I can say with symptoms though is I know NOTHING! I've had everything and nothing so just trying not to read into anything, that's my new philosophy yeah right, lets see how long this lasts! Exciting though, whats your plan, are you testing or waiting for af??

My thermometer only arrived today (im cd7) so not sure if it's too late for this month but going to give it a go a anyway, may aswell, i'm already poas left right and centre so another stick in my mouth won't hurt!!

How did your GP appt go V?

woodwaj · 26/10/2013 23:06

I think you can start temping at any time as long as you do it first thing in the morning and around the same time.

Im just going to wait for AF its like you said how many symptoms do you think are real but then not. Ill test if I am late.

Here's a funny thing I heard today. .I was round at my friends and she has a male cat, her sister has its sister...and the female cat only has Polycystic ovaries!!! My friend doesnt know about my pcos or ttc but I just found it funny!!! I wonder if the cat has been through any 2ww or symptom spotting!!!

SaraRB123 · 27/10/2013 21:48

Hi everyone, Im also new! In fact, very new - came off the pill 2 days ago ha! Anyone have any advice? Heard some horror stories about it taking years after being on the pill - I really hope thats not the case for us - I'm not expecting it to happen straight away though. Looking to make some friends here to talk to as I begin TTC#1! XX

broodysnoopstie · 27/10/2013 22:28

Hello everyone I've read through all 13 of your pages and you all seem so lovely and friendly I'd love to join. I'm 27 been ttc since June... cycle ranges between 30-33 days since coming off the pill but this month AF was 6 days late I was so disappointed as I was secretly convinced it was our month...even though all 3(!) tests gave me BFN.. so stupid but thought I had all the symptoms!

Anyway I've ordered my first batch of OPKs and this month going to start trying to check my days as I've just been using an app before now. Reading through all the posts I was so excited to see your BFP Vicky it's given me so much hope so thank you and fingers crossed for you all!

broodysnoopstie · 27/10/2013 22:28

Hello everyone I've read through all 13 of your pages and you all seem so lovely and friendly I'd love to join. I'm 27 been ttc since June... cycle ranges between 30-33 days since coming off the pill but this month AF was 6 days late I was so disappointed as I was secretly convinced it was our month...even though all 3(!) tests gave me BFN.. so stupid but thought I had all the symptoms!

Anyway I've ordered my first batch of OPKs and this month going to start trying to check my days as I've just been using an app before now. Reading through all the posts I was so excited to see your BFP Vicky it's given me so much hope so thank you and fingers crossed for you all!

SaraRB123 · 27/10/2013 22:33

Hi broodysnoopstie, nice to meet you! I'm almost 27, first time ttc. Very excited but very nervous!! I only stopped taking my pill on Friday, and already have achy bloated feeling in lower ab, sore boobs etc, could this be my withdrWal bleed from the pill so soon? I thought it would take a few weeks xx

broodysnoopstie · 27/10/2013 22:39

Sorry for the double post don't know how I managed that, Blush Hi Sara when I came off it was about 2 weeks later I got my first bleed.. Could just be your body getting used to change in hormones. I'm sure the other ladies might have an idea. Nice to meet you wave

SaraRB123 · 27/10/2013 23:02

I hope it's a good sign that my body is going to respond quickly and get back into shape lol! Have you used any ovulation testing strips or any apps to track it? X