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We will try anything! The big fat posifrickintivity thread of TTC after MC

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GuffSmuggler · 14/06/2013 15:51

A new thread for all you lovely, crazy ladies. Here's to lots of BFPs!

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DearlyDepartedMrsFinch · 08/07/2013 21:16

Oh nearly, I am so, so sorry x

Badhairday76 · 08/07/2013 21:27

Nearly - I am also so sorry. Life can be truly shit sometimes. Thinking of you and sending virtual hugs. Xxx

KS78 · 08/07/2013 21:34

Thinking of you nearly xx

OveranxiousUnderated · 08/07/2013 22:18

Big hugs for nearly x Sorry to hear your news Sad Hopefully you will get some answers following the investigations. It's shit when it happens once, so cruel. Hope you are doing okay. (As okay as can be anyway) x

JBrd · 08/07/2013 23:00

Nearly - sending hugs, this must be so so hard, you really have been through the mill. I don't blame you for wanting a break, take good care of yourself. Hopefully, they will get to the bottom of why this keeps happening.

Aly - aww, we were up in Scotland for the wedding! Would've been too much of an coincidence, though Wink

RainbowConnections · 08/07/2013 23:38

Congratulations on your BFP Jbird. Hope you're not feeling too crazy.

RainbowConnections · 08/07/2013 23:43

Sorry sp JBrd

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 09/07/2013 00:49

Well, its still all quiet on the southern front. IYSWIM! Wink let's see what the morning brings!
Night every one. X

alyant79 · 09/07/2013 08:41

what did the morning bring saggy?

i'm feeling a bit sick this morning. 9DPO. trying to remind myself that i've felt sick before and it hasn't meant anything...

alyant79 · 09/07/2013 08:45

question for those temping: does you bbt drop a few days before AF arrives or the day before/day of?
i.e. is there any point at which i can realistically get excited about a still-high temp?

fedupofrainydays · 09/07/2013 08:56

Af arrived for me today. Stupid silly horrible witch. After DTD 12 times over the fertile bit I thought we were in with a good chance. Well I was full to the brim with swimmers! Trying to stay positive but it's a big big struggle.

Think am going to trying temping to see of if do actually ovulate (starting to wonder if smiley face opks are lying to me). Temping is new though so aly am interested in your efforts this month!

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 09/07/2013 09:12

All quiet on the southern front!
Although I'm not convinced that AF hasn't just called a truce and gone off to play football with the enemy! Battle could recommence in my pants at any moment! Confused Grin

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 09/07/2013 09:47

Ok, I just tried to go out with DM. Got to the end of the drive and almost lost my breakfast! That's got to be a good sign right?

alyant79 · 09/07/2013 09:51

oooooh Saggy that's so promising!

kata my plan was to do smep, temping and opks. the opks were rubbish and never gave me a proper line. because i was waiting for the line, i missed the window when we should have done 3 dtd in a row. So instead we did every 2nd day for a week or so, and based on my temps i know that one of those days was ov day.
We also used preseed for the first time.
If it hasn't worked this month i'll do temping + every 2nd day dtd + preseed again next month.

alyant79 · 09/07/2013 09:53

fedup that's RUBBISH!!

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 09/07/2013 10:16

Me to Kat AF was due sunday gone. Im holding out for Friday! Grin

flohs · 09/07/2013 10:32

Hi everyone! Day 22 here and trying realllllly hard not to obsess. Not doing great but perhaps a little better than usual. Today cramps have kicked in which has made me a bit disappointed. AF due Monday but have in past cycles since MC have been spotting a few days before so might know on Fridayish if it's on its way.

nearly I am so sorry for you - it's so hard. It's all so rubbish and unfair.

saggy - argh this is exciting. How long are you holding out for to POAS - nice self-control!

Aly Kat when are you due?

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 09/07/2013 10:40

Everything will be ok if I can get to Friday! Grin

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alyant79 · 09/07/2013 11:14

I'm due sun/mon. Going to test on friday even though it's probably a bit early.
I've started to get a bit of back ache which either means AF is going to come, OR it's because i've been running around like a headless chook this morning. I'm hoping for the latter :)
I'm STARVING which has always been a pregnancy symptom for me...

Great positivity saggy

Tomkat79 · 09/07/2013 11:27

Just caught up with this thread...so sorry nearly. So so shite.

We also dtd 9 times over fertile window....and then AF got me :-(

Am currently in Spain with BF and the kids. Nice to relax before going home to bang for England x

saggy please poas like NOW...desperate to know! Xx

flohs · 09/07/2013 13:11

Aly exciting about being starving! No symptoms here at all apart from usual PMT ones. Argh. Am beginning to forget how it felt the time I was pregnant, which doesn't help.

Kat - hmmmm - but I guess every pregnancy is different.... Excellent work on gym and zumba though - I really need to start doing more.

Got everything crossed for you two and of course saggy! Just week this week would hurry on!