SeriousStuff - no folic acid related nausea here. Although some months I do feel queasy as part and parcel of a lovely bundle of PMS symptoms. All of which seem cruelly designed to mimic early pregnancy as much as possible and turn me into a symptom spotting crazy lady!
All you taking your tablet with food? Is it pure folic acid or a combined supplement? Maybe worth playing around at bit...
Jazzcat don't worry about the name. The relationship between your colleague's granddaughter and your potential daughter is pretty tenuous, so no-one will bat an eyelid if they have the same name. Furthermore, your colleague is a bloke - generally stuff like that isn't on their radar (sorry if that's being sexist).
If you want, you could make a few casual comments about what a lovely name it is, and how it's had special significance to you for years and years (pretend it was your great, great aunt's or something..) That way your interest in the name publicly pre-dates the granddaughter's arrival. Personally, I wouldn't bother, just name your baby whatever you want.
I do understand how funny little things like that can knock you though..human emotions are truly weird and wonderful...
Hello TTCSharply, plonk your bum down on a squashy bean bag and make yourself at home. Yep, ttc can take ages, but it can also be mega quick too. I conceived DD first month trying but #2 (6 years later) is taking much, much longer. It's a bit of a lottery really, but your age is definitely in your favour