Who is joining me on the hideous 2ww?

[LauraM20]

Hey All!
Im currently on CD 20 so around 8-10 days until the AF arrives or I can test :D Just thought there may be some others that are waiting and driving themselves crazy! Thought we could hopefully share our BFP within the next few weeks, and keep each other sane! :D

I have now started googling.......

I never had this obsession when ttc DS

I go out as much as I can and yes housework is a good distraction. If I'm sitting around at home that's when I'm twiddling my thumbs analysing everything.

Surely these twinges have gone on too long for it to be a pregnancy it's most likely AF isn't it? :(

Not according to Dr Google DH21....you an get OV pains & implantation pains

I've been googling too have GOT to stop thinking about because if/ when AF arrives I'll be devastated.

It doesn't help that ds' new fav thing is to sit on my tummy and bounce

DH21 I know what you mean as much as I try to get my hopes up I just can't help it :(

Shall think positively for the time being though...

ooppss

not to get my hopes up

d'oh

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Ive got to cook dinner in a mo so that'll give me 5 mins a while off obsessing.

Still no AF.

(tries not to get too excited)

(gets too excited and has to lie down)

test test test!

No, I will resist. Had bfn yesterday. I don't feel pregnant, so will hold out until tomorrow.

Okkk let us know the min you pee on that stick!

Desperate whispers: still resisting

Right, early night for me. Hopefully I'll get some sleep. All I dreamt about last night was positive tests which made me so exited that I woke up, then couldn't get back to sleep again. That is clearly a sign!

So do we have some testing to look forward to tomorrow??

I'm going to poas in the morning, completely expecting a bfn but just on the off-chance...I really want to welcome dh home with good news.
If bfn then I'll retest in a week if I can last that long

Bfn as predicted but that's okay. I have no idea what my cycles are doing at the moment so I'll try again in a week.

Dh21 and cakes - when are you testing?

Good luck confused :)

You're up nice and early ellasabe sorry about the bfn though, fingers crossed its just too early to detect.

I'll be testing on tues/ wed next week if I can last that long but really don't want to test to early and waste it.

confused I hope you're up and testing atm!

I'm out. AF arrived as soon as I had finished POAS. It was a bit optimistic that I'd get a BFP in our first month ( even though we did with dd).

Never mind, I can now really enjoy my NCT night out next week

Good luck everyone else.

Confused, sorry to hear AF made an appearance .

Ellesabe I'm testing on Sunday I think. Thought about it this morning but did a wee quickly before I could be tempted! Sorry about you bfn but it is v early so you're def still in with a chance.

Sorry AF turned up for you confused.... Hope you enjoy your night out though.
Any one else testing today?
I'm not testing til Tue/Wed unless AF turns up before.
Pains are still here with a sicky feeling...that could be due to having these pains for 3 weeks!

Sorry confused hope you enjoy your night out. I'm not holding out much hope for me either tbh.

Have you been to the docs about the pains wifey?

Keep waking up with headaches but don't know if that's just because ds is waking me up much earlier.

DH21...no I haven't..as when I mentioned them before I was told they were OV pains. But they've been near enough constant so I think I should go. AF pains feel different so not sure.
I feel I am wishing the time away so I can know or not.

Yeah same here I just want it to be next tues! Maybe the pains are different because your preg

I daren't get my hopes up yet...I never had these with my DS...well I did but when I was a few weeks pregnant.
I just don't want to get my hopes up as I feel I have pinned so much emotion in to this month wanting to get pregnant.
I could cry

Aw wifey sorry I didn't mean to get your hopes up just trying to think positive- literally!
Every preg is different though so it might not feel the same as when you were preg with your ds.
Time will tell its just waiting til we can test its excruciating and I'm convinced AF will arrive before and I'll have been waiting and obsessing for nothing.