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TTC after miscarriage - A New Start to a New Year x x x

842 replies

diddle · 06/01/2006 15:43

Ok ladies, here we go a nice new thread for us to share our fears and smiles on.

Lets keep smiling and positive, and make sure that this is a Happy year for everyone.

Life is far too short to waste, and after such a rough year for most of us last year, lets make 2006 an extra special one x x x

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FirstNikki · 21/01/2006 14:33

thanks KK

I know they will be meeting up anytime now...lovely italian food...yumm

kreamkrackers · 21/01/2006 14:40

i said i wouldn't tell anyone, apart from everyone here. but i got a big mouth, i've told my mum and a couple of close friends who i only get to talk to over the phone or on msn these days as everyone moved away from me (i stink the town out methinks). dp told a few of his friends too. still not told my sister, if she asks i won't lie but i'm not going to bring up the subject. but hopefully she'll have the help she needs soon for ttc, i'm just hoping it can be treated with drugs for her instead of going down the ivf route.

HellKat · 21/01/2006 14:41

Omg Nikki!!!! Congrats hunny!!!!!!!!!!!
Wonderful, wonderful news. xxxxxxxxxxxx

HellKat · 21/01/2006 14:42

Nikki- you shush about this news being sore to anyone! This is some well deserved happy news at a rough time. Put a smile on my face sweety!

HellKat · 21/01/2006 14:52

Hope you don't mind hun, but I texted Ch with the great news. Be prepared for alot of congrats when they get home

FirstNikki · 21/01/2006 15:16

Thanks HK, no I don't mind you texting CH not at all...still can't believe it although did 3 tests! one last night which I could see very faint line dh was no it would be easier to see, did another this morning and brighter line so still wasn't sure so went to boots and got their digital (exact same as clear blue just with boots name on it) and low and behold the +ve result showed.... so must be...

How are you feeling hunny?

KK - it is hard isn't it the secrecy lark...I desparately want to tell parents..will have to work on dh on coming weeks...hope your sister will get sorted soon, you are doing right by her x

HellKat · 21/01/2006 15:22

lol as bad as me with extra tests, I always do more than one!
I'm ok hun, thankyou. Still sore but just scoffed huge plate of fish & chips so that took my mind off of it

FirstNikki · 21/01/2006 15:27

yeah....I can smell them now not eaten yet so am going to get some lunch and will probably be back in a bit...keep your feet up hk.

HellKat · 21/01/2006 15:30

I plan to. Feel absolutely shattered today. Have a great day hun and feed that little one

slinkstah · 21/01/2006 19:41

Im the first one home meetup was fun.

CONGRATS NIKKI

diddle · 21/01/2006 21:37

FirstNikki - huge congratulations to you well done!!! I'd get to the doctors straight away just so they know you're pregnant.

Slink - how did i know that you would beat me home we've just got in, was fab to meet you all, so lovely to now be able to visualise you wheni see your names.

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going4potty · 21/01/2006 21:54

Hello all, Nikki yipee doll, congratulations .Hell kat, glad your a little better today and Coat hanger BFN doesnt allways BFN until af arrives, so i hope you get what you really want, whatever it may be?? Nikki b4 i knew i had ectopic i took a photo of the digital test too, so if your crazy i am too . Everyone else i hope youve had a lovely day and meet up. Well dh has set up a little reminder thing on computer, you put in your details and then every time you put the computer on it tells you wether your fertile, likely to conceieve a girl/ boy, menstruating etc even tells you bding during af can cause infections etc, its well funny.

peepee · 21/01/2006 22:04

I would have been first home but DH has dragged me round the boozer in town and then to our local.

I had a fab time today. The strangest thing was it felt quite normal though our DH's didn't think so. Nothing but jealousy.
Diddle, you obviuosly made it back to the car OK.
Tell your DH to watch out for the Boysnet thread I am sure it'll appear!!!
Going back down to watch Big brother now....
Catch up tom....

FIRSTNIKKIBIG CONGRATS TO Ux

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HumphreysCorner · 21/01/2006 22:36

Congratulations FirstNikki-brill news hun

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going4potty · 21/01/2006 22:37

I cant wait for the pictures, theyre bound to be different to whats in my head.

going4potty · 21/01/2006 22:48

Well im of to bed ladies, talk soon

going4potty · 22/01/2006 10:08

Hello, ive never been first to post, still in my pjs, but ds is dressed! Dh at work again today, the sods are getting the most out of him b4 decision day!! Cheeky gits . Hope your all ok and have had lovely lie ins with breakfast in bed.

HellKat · 22/01/2006 10:14

Hi hun,
Off back to bed myself. Been up since 4.45am after a bad night's sleep and feeling rough this morning. Have a great day all. x

FirstNikki · 22/01/2006 10:24

Morning All How are we today?,

G4P I am also in my pj's.. never mind they are comfy and it is sunday

HK - my you were awake early, how you feelnig today any change?

CH - is af still away?

So ladies fun was had at the meet up then? Did you see the whale in the thames? look forward to hearing about it all... xx

kreamkrackers · 22/01/2006 10:36

the poor whale sadly passed away at 19.00 yesterday

well since i've been up early i decided to get ready and take the dog on a super long walk today as she didn't get to go out yesterday. i feel so proud of myself i'm also usually in my py's at this time on sundays and sometimes stay like that all day however, even in my pj's i do a lot of cleaning most sundays

pepperpots · 22/01/2006 10:41

Morning ladies
first of all nikki congratulations hun i am so please for you
I hope you all enjoyed the meet up am so of you all. Will def be there for the next one if im allowed
Spent most of mt day yesterday in solicitors grrrr i finally got the go ahead to move on friday after a lot of confusion from landlord, and was already to go. I called my solicitor to ask if we were anywhere near completing on the house (im selling mine but rentitng another) and was then informed that the buyers hadnt even received there mortgage offer!!!!!!! so there was no guarantee the sale would go through This meant that if i chose to move and the sale didnt go through i could be stuck renting and paying a mortgage. So i spoke to the landlord of the house we were going to rent off and explained my situation, luckily he is quite decent and has said that he will keep the house for six weeks (ie take it off letting lists) and if by then i have a completion date we can still move. I am so at my solicitor and agent for not making me aware and now have to start unpacking GGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!
God im so sorry for that rant i needed to get it off my chest, and if that wasnt bad enough af arrived this morning

going4potty · 22/01/2006 10:56

Oh pepper, solicitors are horrid arent they

slinkstah · 22/01/2006 10:59

pepperpots - sorry about your house, what a nightmare, you must be really annoyed.

i woke up this morning by a huge explosion, followed by another and another and then sirens and then helecopters! i looked my window to see a huge fire, seems like the bus garage near me is on fire and all the busses are exploding!! loads of black smoke filling the sky- i wish i had double glazing!!

FirstNikki · 22/01/2006 11:07

Morning Pepper sorry to hear about the solicitors, its nice thought the landlord is understanding. Sorry your af arrived hope she doesn't stay for too long.

Slink that doesn't sound good those buses exploding I bet you wondering what the hell was happening, so I guess you are staying in today then with all that smoke and dust how near is it? Can you see the fireman from your window? [wink} firemans uniform hmmm