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TTC after miscarriage - A New Start to a New Year x x x

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diddle · 06/01/2006 15:43

Ok ladies, here we go a nice new thread for us to share our fears and smiles on.

Lets keep smiling and positive, and make sure that this is a Happy year for everyone.

Life is far too short to waste, and after such a rough year for most of us last year, lets make 2006 an extra special one x x x

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Coathanger · 16/01/2006 21:11

Yeah. Its just for a week. He normally leaves later and gets home earlier in the morning, bu the is leaving much earlier in the evening this week and not getting home til I am up. But I can cope for a week

going4potty · 16/01/2006 21:15

AAAH, well dh is on for seven days, then a day of then back on for five. But he has to take th work laptop back tomorrow and ours is still not back from pc world, so i may be ofline for a few days, apart from very short posts via the pda thingy.

Coathanger · 16/01/2006 21:17

Oh no I'll miss ya G4P! Really, I will. I hope you get back online soon.

kreamkrackers · 16/01/2006 21:29

hello again.
g4p - best wishes for your dh
ch - pmsl. have you got yor pg test ready? i left mine by the toilet with a clean bottle next to it ready for in the morning before i tested. also only have sips of water from now on as we want your wee to be as strong as possible! oh i'm so exceited.

going4potty · 16/01/2006 21:35

hi kk, thanks, ch awhh, thats lovley.

going4potty · 16/01/2006 21:51

Well of to bed to read, finished jodi piccoults "my sisters keeper" it was fab, very sad but thought provoking, now starting on purple hibiscus. I have ordered confessions of a bad mother, but paper back not out yet, so have to wait til feb anyhow have a goodnight.

Coathanger · 16/01/2006 21:59

Night Night G4Pxx

Hi KK, hows your night been?

Coathanger · 16/01/2006 22:01

Oh BTW, not testing tomorow. Still no Af but I did a sneeky and rahter naughty test at teatime today. Got a BFN. No trouble though coz I know it could be way too early. Anyway, I figure that if I got no result today, I won't tomorrow either so gonna leave it a few days now. Will do it Wednesday maybe, if not even later.

Coathanger · 16/01/2006 22:07

Well, ladies, I'm off up the wooden hill to Bedfordshire! I am shattered and need my beauty sleep (BOY! do I need my beauty sleep!!)See you all bright and early. Night night xxxxxxxxx

kreamkrackers · 16/01/2006 22:08

oh i think a morning test is the best thing to do. i'm feeling really tired tonight. couldn't remember the name of the mat to detect her breathing so i actually phoned dp before sending my earier msg and thought he said amnio but it's actually an apnoe. posted a thing on health and special needs as well to see if anyone else can suggest anything but haven't had much response. i just want to know what's going on, the alarm scares me when it goes off but i think it makes dd remember to breath again. also spoke to hv who doesn't seem too concerned, so maybe i'm worrying for nothing.

kreamkrackers · 16/01/2006 22:11

what test did you use?

kreamkrackers · 16/01/2006 22:18

sorry wasn't on long but going to bed now as we've got to be up early tomorrow.

jane313 · 16/01/2006 23:04

KK that must be so worrying.
CH and HK hope you get some good news soon.

Everything got a bit more gruesome at the weekend. I got some blood tests back on Friday and because the HCG levels were still high and rising so the drs were worried I may have had an ectopic pregnancy. I ended up in hopsital overnight and had to have an ERPC(?)and luckily it wasn't ectopic cos my levels had fallen. It was pretty distressing and my ds was very upset. It was not how I planned to spend my first overnight trip without him. Feeling loads better now and beeling and pain has stopped. But the anasthetic had left my lips numb so am going to see my dr tomorrow.

Have fun at your pizza do. Have any of you met before? It should be very interesting.

HellKat · 17/01/2006 07:39

Morning all.
CH- So sorry hun, maybe a tad early though? try and leave it until the weekend if poss.
Carly- {{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}} Hunny I'm so sorry, you will be sorely missed love. Please don't be a stranger!!!! xxxxx
Jane- Sorry to hear about you to hun. At least now it's a new beginning and you can get some normality back, so to speak. Bless your little one! I was the same, first time every away from him at night was through me being in hospital.

Had a mega bleed yesterday afternoon and then eased. Still loads of pain (aswell as cramping it feels like I'm severely bruised inside). Going to try and hang on until tomorrow and make them see that something's definitely wrong. Don't worry, will them hell if need be.
Have a good one all, spending the day being a lazy cow.
xxxxxxx

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diddle · 17/01/2006 08:03

morning all, Hi HK - hope the bleeding subsides again, bet baby is wondering what the hells going on

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HellKat · 17/01/2006 08:14

Well it's back to spotting, not the big gush that was yesterday. It must be wondering 'cos I sure am lol.

HellKat · 17/01/2006 08:16

Not got any hopes up though, being detatched from it all until I know one way or another.

Coathanger · 17/01/2006 08:23

Morning all!

Just a quick one coz I'm rushing around with the kids getting them ready for school

HK - Hoping tomorrow goes well xxxx

Jane I'm glad though that it is all sorted and now you can begin the road to recovery xxxx

As I said yesterday, no testin ghere today. Way to early I think. If I OVed on SAturday lst week, I'm still only on 11dpo today, so gonna leave it til 14dpo to be sure. Still no AF though.

Sending you all lots of love xxxxxxxxxxx

mygirllolipop · 17/01/2006 09:01

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FirstNikki · 17/01/2006 09:43

morning ladies...changes at work mean I may not be able to post as often if at all during the day (except maybe lunch)

HK - hold in there and good luck tomorrow

G4P - thats rotten and unfair that your dh mate gets longer can't he tell them this unfairness. Good luck for DH tomorrow

Jane - Sorry to hear about your hospital visit, hope you feel better soon

CH got BFN...fingers crossed for you as you say no af and probably too early to test.

Have a nice day ladies {{hugs}}

Coathanger · 17/01/2006 09:47

Grrrrrrr! This is driving me out of my mind! No AF but no BFP! What the hell is going on? The last month and the one before, my cycles were 24 days - bleeding for over 2 weeks then having a week break etc - but I am now on CD30 and still nothing! How long have I got to wait!! GRRRRRRRRRR!!!! I keep getting little staby pains in my abdo which are driving me mad as I am thinking "are they AF pains of bedding in pains?" Everytime I go to the loo I'm on loo paper watch! Its driving me insane!! Carly, how about you hun??

mygirllolipop · 17/01/2006 10:20

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Coathanger · 17/01/2006 10:24

OMG!!! Something awful and extremely embarrasing has just happened to me!!
I put "how long does sperm live for" in my search engine - and it took me to PORN!!!!!!!! When I exited it (which was literally a milisecond after) I got a message saying I was gonna be investigated!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!! I am not a perv!! Really. I was shocked at seing it!! I am sweet and innocent!! I have never looked at porn on the net before!! Oh, the shame! What will they do to me???

(Seriously though, what will they do?)

mygirllolipop · 17/01/2006 10:57

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mygirllolipop · 17/01/2006 10:59

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