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TTC after miscarriage - A New Start to a New Year x x x

842 replies

diddle · 06/01/2006 15:43

Ok ladies, here we go a nice new thread for us to share our fears and smiles on.

Lets keep smiling and positive, and make sure that this is a Happy year for everyone.

Life is far too short to waste, and after such a rough year for most of us last year, lets make 2006 an extra special one x x x

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going4potty · 10/01/2006 20:37

Hell Kat so sorry, take it easy and get yourself of to drs asap, it could still be alright.
Ps, that story is just awful, i really have no words, why? why? why?

carly82 · 10/01/2006 20:45

HK hold on in there sweetheart huge hugs to you (((((()))))) xx
at that story had me in tears and feeling sick to my stomach!! Why?????? wtf is wrong with this world
dont know what else to say..............
sending everyone huge hugs i think we all need them xx

going4potty · 10/01/2006 21:01

Carly, hello lovely, im sorry havent been able to catch up with you recently. As youve probably guessed by my slightly faster then yesterday typing, i have been able to borrow a laptop. Are you ok sweet, have been thinking about you.

going4potty · 10/01/2006 21:28

Where are you, i promise to type fast I miss you all.

going4potty · 10/01/2006 21:40

Well dh is gonna go on laptop so just in case im not on later bye for now

carly82 · 10/01/2006 22:42

G4P im still here hun if you are glad you have laptop what were you using? im not sure what it was (i am a little slow in the uptake)
HK thinking of you lovely xx

HellKat · 11/01/2006 07:36

Morning all.
Well pain's still there, feels like normal bad endo pain. Had no more bleeding until this morning and it's now pinky/red. Not much but enough. Have'nt decided whether or not to go to epu later or just let nature takes it course. Feeling alright actually. Totally expected it. Glad it's now rather than later. Resigned myself to the fact it's mc no.5. So glad I had'nt cancelled my endo surgery now.
How's everyone else on this blustery, rainy day?

diddle · 11/01/2006 07:46

HK - I personally think you should go visit the EPU, you might be surprised, some people bleed heavily during pregnancy and don't miscarry. I would get it checked out, just to be sure. Please consider it. TMI but, have you lost anything significant or is it just blood?

Thinking of you so much x x x

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HellKat · 11/01/2006 08:00

Thanks hun.
Last night there was enough (tmi coming up) old stuff to fill the gusset of my pants. Sorry anyone who's reading this. It feels like I've got really, really bad period pain and feels like my cervix is stretching. I probably will give them a call in a bit and see if they can do the blood test for hcg.

HellKat · 11/01/2006 08:01

Also it's exactly as before. Same stage in pg, same colour. Only difference is the pain's worse this time. Just wish it would bloody hurry up either way.

mumswish · 11/01/2006 08:27

Hellkat I'm so sorry to be reading this about you. I hope it is a false alarm and if it isnt then you're in the right place for support. I'll be thinking of you hunny. Please rest up and call the docs so you can get checked out.

HellKat · 11/01/2006 08:32

Thankyou mums.
Just tried epu and no answer yet. So will keep ringing. It'll be so much easier to hurry up and mc at home instead of all that pallava (sp?) Grrr I'm an impatient cow are'nt I?

HellKat · 11/01/2006 09:01

Ok, finally got through to the epu and the nurse said it definitely sounds like a mc (due to the pain more than the bleeding) so now have to play the waiting game and test again in 7 days to see what's happening. If it's bfn then my body's taken care of it, if it's still bfp the I've got to get scanned but she's pretty sure it's not a viable pg (I knew that anyway). I can see me testing before then anyway (as always addicted to those little pee sticks )

Coathanger · 11/01/2006 09:01

HK - I am so sad that this could be happeneing. I won't say "is" because it could be okay, could this possibly be bleeding from another area affected by endo?? Sweetheart I am prayin gso much for you. I am hoping that this is nothing and just a false alarm. Sending you lots and lots of {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

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HumphreysCorner · 11/01/2006 09:03

HellKat-I'm really sorry hun. Will be thinking of you. ((xx))

mygirllolipop · 11/01/2006 09:05

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HellKat · 11/01/2006 09:07

Thankyou all {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} back at you.
My gut feeling is it's already happening, but everything happens for a reason and there's a million ways that it could be worse, so I'm lucky. x

diddle · 11/01/2006 09:21

Hk - everything does happen for a reason, but that doesn't mean you're right about your suspicions. My bleed in this pg started just the same as my miscarriages did, and i'm ok. Please look after yourself.

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carly82 · 11/01/2006 09:22

HK i am praying for you sweetheart don't give up hope just yet xx

FirstNikki · 11/01/2006 09:52

Morning ladies...

HK - So sorry to hear you are in pain and bleeding, hoping that you will be ok. Will be thinking of you lots of ((((((hugs)))))) Make sure you rest xx

p.s that story of the baby is truely disgusting and capital punishment should be in.do not understand what makes some people tick.

HellKat · 11/01/2006 09:56

Thanks all for your support xxxxx
Taking Dr CH's advice and retiring to the couch with a HUGE bag of M&M's (diet can start again tomorrow ).

mygirllolipop · 11/01/2006 09:58

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HellKat · 11/01/2006 10:08

Ohh yes please. Either Haagen Das Pralines & Cream or Ben & Jerry's Vermonster. MMMMMM

Coathanger · 11/01/2006 10:09

HK - pmsl @ you and your ice cream! Hope you do as I advised and get some rest today - chill out and relax!

going4potty · 11/01/2006 10:24

Morninghell kat sorry your in pain, i hope everything is ok and praying for you that it is.