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TTC after a Miscarriage - Dear Santa, beanies for crimbo, please!!

583 replies

Atomicstockinghanger · 13/12/2005 14:09

Well here we are! Hopefully htis one will take us up to crimbo, althoughthe way we gas, probably not!!

Hears wishing all us TTcers all the luck in the world and all those who are PG already, lots of stretchmarks and piles!!!! hehehee!! Not really, lotso f luck to you too

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carlychristmas · 23/12/2005 14:20

afternoon ladies
soory havent been on all day again am currentley runnung around like a headless chicken (or should that be turkey?! )
MYGARLAND do you have an asda near you? cos in mine they have a digital photo machine (similar to the ones in boots) and you can create your own calendar there and then for £2.88!! bargain hth x
ASH nice to see you back
Firstnikki i think i have missed you so if you do get on in the hols hope you have a brilliant xmas and new year xx
And wishing everyone else DIDDLE, HC, ASH, G4P, MINCEPEE, HELLKAT, MUMS, MYGARLAND and anyone else i might have missed (sorry if i did) a fantastic christmas a nd a happy new year xxxx

mincepee · 23/12/2005 16:11

ASH why u having the D&C? Has doc recommended it?

HumphreysCorner · 23/12/2005 16:47

mincepee-sorry you got a BFN but was perhaps a tad early. Still keeping everything crossed for you. ((xx))

ASH-sorry the evil witch has reared her ugly head. Perhaps you won't need a D&C now. ((xx))

Off to collect DD so have a good evening all.

Lots of love.

xxx

going4potty · 23/12/2005 17:10

Hello, everyone, sorry havent been on today. Busy again. Niki, your right i am doing a bit much and am feeling it. Dr gave me a very gentle but firm message today. Shes also signed me of from work until the 9thJan 06. I didnt realise how much im trying to hold back until she talked to me today. She is lovely and we had a sort of counselling session this am. I think i may have to send her some sort of gift as she has been very very good. Made me think though, that although the hospital were great while i was there, there was no after care, leaflets or even advice post ectopic pregnancy. I may bring it up with the ward when i go back to work in January. Well i can smugly say despite everything kicking of (healthwise)the week i was doing xmas shopping. We have managed to wrap and deliver presents to all and are going to have a relaxing weekend And to top it of i dont have to pretend to be a domestic super godess as muminlaw is cooking xmas day and mum on xmas day yipeeeee. Sorry i know im sounding smug
Anyway hope you are done with imitating headless turkeys and ready to enjoy the weekend.
ASH hope your ok and good luck with d and c. Mince pie good luck and anyoneelse testing? Muppet welcome, The ladies on here are a source of great comfort and i hope they will be to you too. They have let me rant, cry and babble without judgement and have helped me to let my feelings come out. They are also very funny and have cheered me up when i needed them.
So thankyou ladies for all your kindness and help and support, wishing you all a merry xmas

going4potty · 23/12/2005 17:45

Sorry have i frightened you all of with my embarrasingly long post [gron]

going4potty · 23/12/2005 17:45

lol i meant

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 23/12/2005 19:53

G4P- Awwwww hunny.
Sounds like you'll have a fab crimbo time. You deserve it. Definitely mention the after care (or lack of it). My last m/c, the hospital were amazing. The sonographer had tears in her eyes breaking the news, we were taken to a lovely room (looked like a living room, flowers and all) and were offered councelling, leaflets, you name it. Hospitals need to be made aware of their short comings, especially when it affects feelings.
off to watch Eastenders and relax.
Night girls xxx

HumphreysCorner · 23/12/2005 21:18

Still remember the midwife asking why I was crying after my MC in the little room they take you in. Not a good experience.

Try and rest a bit G4

Night ladies.

xxx

going4potty · 23/12/2005 22:21

Signing of ladies, going to bed for a good rest, if dh comes in will have to fake sleep wounldnt mind the bd ing normally but bit exhausted today Anyhow, goodnight

muppet3 · 23/12/2005 22:35

Well, thank you lots and Happy Christmas all! You lot are truly appreciated, and I am heading off for a romantic Christmas in Rome with DH feeling much better

I hope you all have a happy, healthy few days til I'm back online again. And ASH - thank you, I'd love to hear from you. CAT is now enabled and I'm back on email on 28th.

Take care all

Atomicstockinghanger · 24/12/2005 09:24

We wish you a merry christmas!
We wish you a merry Christmas!
We wish you a merry Christmas!
And a happy New Year!

Good tidings we bring to you and your King,
We wish you a merry Christmas and a happy New Year!

Wishing all of you on the TTC after MC thread a very merry Christmas and a baby filled 2006!!

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going4potty · 24/12/2005 09:41

Good morning all, hope all is well.

mincepee · 24/12/2005 10:14

Good morning. Am sneaking on whilst DH is walking the dog. I am supposed to be getting ready to go visit the inlaws. Can't wait.

Just a quickie......

Is anyone else testing tomorrow or is it just me?
I am almost 100% sure it'll be a BFN but who knows?

For those of u who won't be on later, I would like to wish u all a lovely peaceful Christmas. Though we may not be getting our most precious deserved gifts this year, we may look forward to trying for them and perhaps receiving them next year.

LOVE and HUGS to you all.x

ENJOY THE FESTIVITIES........

carlychristmas · 24/12/2005 12:50

i have just managed to sneak on too not for lng though am just about to start clean up operation!!!!
just wanted to wish everyone a happy christmas am sure will speak tp you all b4 new year
mincepee have everything crossed for you tomorrow hun xx

ITS CHRISTMAS TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!

HumphreysCorner · 24/12/2005 16:54

Evening ladies

Have been v. busy all day-have just finished so bit knackered.

Good luck for tomorrow mincepee ((xx))

Wishing you all a Merry Christmas!

Lots of love

xxx

slinksanta · 24/12/2005 18:12

Hello everyone
hope everyones doing ok
just wanted to wish you all a happy xmas, hope you all have a good one.
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xmasspub · 24/12/2005 22:37

Have a great Christmas and here's hoping that 2006 brings you all that you are all dreaming of.
Peace and love, ladies

mrsmaddyd · 25/12/2005 06:05

Hello strangers now i cant work out who is who cos youve all changed your names for chrimbo. Sorry not been here but after the wedding we didnt get out honeymoon baby and its all just been too much for me so ive tried to be complacent. Wedding was a dream by the way.

Anyway here we are Christmas morning i cant sleep as so excited. Today i got my BFP XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX Just got to hope and pray that this one sticks.

I hope Diddle and Lottie are blooming.

Ill speak to you all after christmas and i do hope some more of you are pregnant.

Good Luck and Merry Christmas

Atomicstockinghanger · 25/12/2005 08:58

OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MADDY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

And a merry Christmas to you, PREGGERS!!!!

Well done you!! I am so happy - what a wonderful thing to hear on Xmas morning!

Congratulations Mrs Maddyd, can't wait to talk to you properly. Lots of love Hun xxxxxxxxxx

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XmasAngelCrimboKat · 25/12/2005 09:08

Merry Xmas One & All !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Maddy- Congrats hunny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow!!! Fantastic, amazing news!!!!!!!!! What a gorgeous pressie hun, well done!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hope everyone has a wonderful time. Love & hugs all.
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mincepee · 25/12/2005 09:13

Merry Christmas Maddyd and congratulations......

Did my test and not sure.........
Will test again in a couple of days.
It was a very faint BFP and results read at 10 mins.........

Not very optimistic but will get a good test not a cheapo one in the next coupla days and try again.

WELL DONE AGAIN MADDYD......... How far gone are you?

MERYY CHRISTMAS.....XXXXXXXXXXXXXX

mincepee · 25/12/2005 09:15

WHAT PRESIES DID U ALL GET?

WILL LIST MINE LATER HAVE TO POP OUT TO CEMETARY AND SEE MY DAD....... WILL CATCH UP LATER IF I AM NOT STRESSING OVER THE COOKING.......X

mrsmaddyd · 25/12/2005 10:39

Just got chance to pop back quickly. Thank you all for your congrats. As you can imagine im a bit scared but also excited. I got my first pos yesterday and again today. Af only due today so i guess that makes me 4 weeks today Told mu HUBBY today in his first Husband christmas card

I promise to catch up with you all in the new year so make sure you get all your manes back although i can work out most of you

XmasAngelCrimboKat · 25/12/2005 11:13

Minepee- Congrats to you too hun! Oh my goodness!!!! What a blinding crimbo so far!!!!!!

Got loads of stuff here. Cooking away and even though I say so myself, looking rather fab! In new jeans, new top and wonderfully high authentic 70's 5'' platform mules!!!

Hope everyone has a wonderful day x

petunia · 25/12/2005 12:28

Don't know whether you remember me but I was on here in the summer. Congratulations to all those who've got BFPs today. What great Christmas presents for you!
I'm now 22wks pg and had a 2nd scan earlier this week, due date 28th April. Everything looks fine, don't know the sex.
Have a Merry, Merry Christmas and hope next year brings many precious gifts for you all.